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Is he depressed over me?
Last year, there was this very complicated situation, that I won't explain, but basically there were two girls, and I was one of them. He chose the other one over me, because of popularity. Now, from what I hear from friends and his facial expressions, he regrets it. Since that situation last year, he's been, what I call, "depressed". He used to be known for his smiling.
Now, he hardly ever smiles or has fun. I don't know what's going on personally, but I don't think he was abused, or his parents died or anything.
Now, every time I see him, he looks like he's in pain. Not physically, but mentally.
I would ask, but our relationship is very broken, we can barely even talk to each other, without it all flooding back.
But I feel something, every time we look at each other. It's probably nothing.
Anyone have any suggestions?
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talk to him. talking is the only way that anything is going to get out. dont get some friend to be the middle man, the only way that you two are going to connect is if you to talk. there may be something wrong with him that he wants to tell someone. maybe he wants that someone to be you. maybe you can help him smile again. start to be his friend again, someone that he can confide in. once youve accomplished that, more might come from it.
good luck!
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I don't agree with Jam at all about this.
You should talk to him directly. As much as that may be hard, I think you have to say something. Once you start talking you could be friends again, and who knows, after that, you could even be something more.
You could start with a "Hey, I noticed you don't smile as much. What's up?"
And as you two get closer he'll start to open up again.
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Have one of his friends or your friends ask him if anything's wrong with him.
Good luck,
Jam
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