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he's not replying
i'm having some issues at home, and i'm really stressed out and just stuff like that. anyway, i really hate crying or being sad around people or talking about my problems... but last night i was hanging out with some of my friends and i just couldn't stop crying! i layed on my friend and just cried... i'm almost positive he knew i was crying...but anyway, i felt bad afterwords so i texted him and told him i was sorry and he won't reply... could he be mad at me?
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he might be mad or scared. But i think the point is that you are very sad and might need more help. It really isnt fair for you to put friends thru that. He felt helpless im sure. You need to ask for help from someone qualified to help you. Crying in someones lap is pointless. Specialy if neither one feels better after.
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Okay he can NOT be mad and i dougt he is. The sameee thing happened to me. I was hanging out with my friends i started crying so me and my bfest friend wen't over to the side and she hugged me and i just cried. Then ( not realy kinda friend/popularr) friend came over and asked if i was okay but like duhh i was crying so i couldn't say anything! So he just hugged my back and i kept my head down and tried not to let him hear me crying. Well he went back and told everyone i was crying and allllll my friends came over and hugged me and i felt alot better. Just to let you know hah.
Well i you got to school with him you should talk to him and show him that your alright. He might have just been concerned. He prob. didn't know how to talk to you about it. I have an twin brother and he always comes to me and ask me like why girls get upsett at certain things and stuff. So no worries he just really caress<3
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I would wager the guy is confused. He doesn't understand why you were so upset. All he knows is that you were crying and couldn't stop.
Since he is your friend, maybe instead of texting him, call him, or go see him (better yet). Explain to him about what had upset you so. He is your friend, so maybe he can help you work through your problems if he knows what they are.
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He's probably just really confused. Guys aren't very good with feelings. It was probably a shock to him because he hasn't ever seen you that way. He either didn't get the text or isn't sure how to help you. And just so you know hiding your feelings for a long time will make you do that. It's happened to me. He can't be mad that you're upset, trust me. Hope I helped.
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he probably just didn't get the text. =] just wait it out.. he might just feel a little out of place because guys usually aren't very comfortable with things like that.. so just give it timee. maybe if he doesn't respond in an hour or so, text him again and tell her that there's just been alot on your mind, and you felt comfortable enough around him to let it out.. i'm sure he understands.. he probably just didn't get your message. =] good luck! ♥
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Nah. doesn't sound mad, just a little awkward. Sometimes it's hard for boys to deal with feelings, especially girl's feelings.
Give him some time. If he doesn't come around, you might want to look to someone else for comfort.
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