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Last Update: September 26, 2006
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well my wisdom teeth are coming out this friday and im soo scared...im only 14 years old....is there anything i should be prepared for? any food advice?? thanks. (link)
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Eat soft foods, preferably noodles or something cause my friend got his wisdom teeth pulled out and he couldn't eat anything hard for like a week. Or just drink soup until you think its okay to start chewing again. I got my teeth pulled a few weeks ago and it wouldn't stop bleeding the entire day. If yours is the same then I suggest you put some honey on the spot where they pulled your teeth out. I tried it and it stopped most of the bleeding.
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I went out with this guy a month ago (lets call him seth)...it was fun but we didnt see each other much outside of school n he started liking this other girl...anyway, we broke up but he asked me out again like a week ago and i said yes...(i never had got over him and my feelings for him hadn't changed)...This time is sooo different because he is really sweet and so much more attentive towards my feelings...Could this be serious? We are both 15 and i love him so much...I'm curious as to wether he could be 'the one' ...Is there anyway i can find out and put my mind to rest?
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Just don't think about if he is "the one" for you because you still have a long time to think about it and to see if he is the one for you. Enjoy the time you have with him and don't think whether or not if hes "the one" cause it'll just stress you out later.
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I smoke cigerettes.. Andd i need to quit but i need an easy way to do it! (link)
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You can try putting pepper in the cigerettes, they'll taste weird so you might not like it and quit. Or eat something else that will make you not think of smoking.
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Whenever I go shopping I'd first plan what I wanna buy. But the thing is, when I've happily picked out the thing that I want, my friends will say, "that's not nice, you should try this one" and then they'll take out some old looking mature tops/bottoms for me to try. And OK, I'll take both my choice and their choice into the fitting room.
After trying my clothes on, I'd feel that what I'd picked looks much better on me but I don't know why do I always end up buying what they tell me to buy. That's cos at that point in time maybe I got brainwashed by what my friends said. And its only after I get home and I try it on again that I regret not buying what i had picked out for myself. This is seriously wasting my money!
This always happens and I HATE IT!! I'd always tell myself - next time don't do it again- but I just KEEP DOING IT AGAIN!! ARGH!! someone pls help me ! (link)
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Ask for their advice but tell them not to PICK the clothes out for you.
If YOU don't like what they pick then don't buy it. Its your money, not theres, its your choice.
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female.. year 10
we are about to go back to school from break... i've always been fairly shy at school with few, but very good friends. I wear my back in a ponytail and i wear a minute bit of mascara... im starting to open up to people and am finding that im getting more friends...
I have decided that im getting a perm (i have thick hair) and i was planning on wearing a fair bit of make up on the firsst day back... so i could get noticed just for a laugh...once in assembly i got up and sung people say that i have a voice (even the popular people)... I'm always going to be me, i just want people to sit up and take notice of me once in a while! what do you think i should do? (link)
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You should probably stay opened up to people, but be yourself. Don't wear make up if you normally wouldn't.
And when you get a perm, go for straight perm since you have thick hair.
Important thing, be yourself.
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ok well to start off im a guy and i've just started working out.i do sit ups, push ups, lift weights and all that other stuff. but what i need help on is with the sit ups. the problem is that i do the situps and i only think that it works in the lower abdominal area and i want it to work on my abdominal sides and upper abdominal too. is there any way that i can do something to work the sidesand upper part that actually works?also i have a flabby chest and i was wondering how i can get rid of it.oh yea and is it normal to feel soar in the muscle area of your arms,legs,and stomache the next day after working out. (link)
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Do crunches.
I dunno if it works for guys, but it definately works for girls. Try doing 3 sets of 20 every day or something. And of course its normal to feel sore, that means you did a good work out. But if its sore for more than two days, you probably hurt a muscle or something.
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I have a mom tht is a control/protect freak she always wants things her way. I have to have my room the way she wants it my computer has to face the way she wants it and she always says when im with her im on her time and the problem is tht she always wants me to do her stuff. I run to the car, get the mail, take out the garbage(sumtimes), and do everything to care of my dog and she still doesn't appreciate me. She is way over protective. She doesn't like me goin places without her or my dad even tho i end up goin it usually takes hours of fighting and begging and crying. I am tired of her controling my life especially my room. I want my room to be MY room not hers. I like my room messy cuz then it feels like i actually live in it. What should I do? I dnt know how to talk to her cuz she always blocks me off but she never blocks my brother off when he is having problems. I dont get it she always says i have to wait till my dad comes home to discuss what is happeneing When i try to talk to her she takes things away and says she is in control!!!! i hate it she always says i dnt understand anything and i never will. When my brother calls me slut, dunce,bitch, etc. and i tell her she doesn't do anyting about it she just tells him not to and when i do those sort of things she punishes me. i cnt take it anymore HELP MEE!! (link)
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My mother was like that about my room before, but my dad talked to her about that. I'm sorry shes like that though, talk to her. And I mean, sit her down and tell her to listen to what you have to say. Or try to.
But shes probably very controlling because she loves you too much.
Either way, I'm sorry that you have to go through that. But talk to her and your dad.
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When I was 12, I fell for this boy, i mean really fell for him. I saw him and immediately I just felt strange, I didn't even think he was good-looking, i just, I dont know, it felt strange. He kept making eye contact and his friends asked me out for him, but i didnt think I fancied him and said no, all of a sudden, because I thought he fancied me, I started to fall for him. I thought about him all the time, he was all I ever talked about, in lessons I couldnt concentrate and my grades started to slip. Eventually, I asked him out, but he said no, after that it was awful.
I felt like I had to see him every day, I couldn't go a day without hearing his voice or seeing his face, I couldnt get to sleep at night because I was thinking of him, i dreamed about him every night.
I would cry every night because I couldnt be with him, but whenever or saw his face or heard his voice i'd feel so happy. During the weekends I would look forward to monday when i'd be able to watch him chatting to his friends again.
When he got a girlfriend I felt so empty all the time, i didnt want to go out, I just wanted to go to bed and never wake up.
I had no energy and felt worthless, I still couldnt concentrate in class and my grades were just getting worse, I felt hopeless and was constantly craving chocolate.
Afterwards, I had changed, I was left with no confidence, I had lost all my energy and my grades were bad.
I got over it eventually, and now I'm 13.
The thing is, I was at a party, this guy was there and afterwards he told me he thought I was really fit. I didnt used to fancy him, but when I started to think he might fancy me, I started to fancy him. Last night I was at a party, and I thought he fancied me, but although he made eye contact a few times, he was wrapped around this other girl the whole time. I had a great time, but when I got home I dreamt about him all night, woke up thinking about him, and have been thinking about him constantly all day. I have started to feel empty and hopeless because I think he might have a girlfriend, and I am craving chocolate and feel like I just want to go to bed so I can see him at school tomorrow.
I'm worried that I'll start to feel about him the same way I did about the other guy when I was 12, I dont want to ever go back to how I was then, I was a wreck. How can I prevent that happening?
Sorry it was so long, thanks xxx
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No offense, but it doesn't seem like you like those two guys, it sounds more of an infatuation.
But if you do like them, and I was wrong. Sorry.
I'm guessing your just going through hormones, and trust me, I was there before. But the feelings will go away after a while and you'll be like before again. The only thing is to wait and see if you like the guy more, if you do...then I guess keep on liking him in hopes that he doesn't have a girlfriend.
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I really miss my ex, we went out for at least a month and I think he is starting to want me back to because he is now flirting with me again, but I also really have some feeling for this other guy and he is a year older than me but that doesn't really matter but should i go back and give the guy who broke my heart a second chance or move on and get with this other guy i really like also. so confused, plz help (link)
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Ask yourself, who do you like better?
But if that still confuses you, then I would say that you should talk to your ex. See if he really wants to be with you, cause if he don't then forget him.
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well me and my friend
we arnt sure if we are going out anymore
well his name is eric
and he isnt a virgin but i am and i feel like i am ready to you know...with him
but i am 14 and i dont know i like him a lot an u know he os cool but i think whenever i am with him all we do is kiss or makeout we dont ever get to talk only on the phone and myspace. buti am gonna go see him on sunday and i think that is when we are gonna do it help me an I making the right decision?!?! (link)
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Of course your making the wrong decision girlie!
Your ONLY 14 and losing your virginity at this age isn't good...at all. No offense, but it seems like your just throwing your virginity away. It doesn't matter if he's cool or not, you shouldn't have sex with him not only because your 14, but also cause you barely know him. Talk to him first, ask yourself if you really do love him THEN you can think about having sex with him.
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My boyfriend and i have been living together for 8 months now.We decided to do this so that we could help each other through school and with other neccesities.I his girlfriend finished college first and already got a job,he is yet to finish,we have kept our living together a secret as we do not want our parents to find out that we are living together before marriage.We plan to formalise our marriage when he finishes college and gets a job.The only fear we both have is for me to get pregnant and we have tried to abstain or use condoms any time we wanna make love.Do you think we are doing the wrong thing?
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Its up to you to decide about living together, but I still think you shouldn't have sex right now since your in fear that you would get pregnant. There are times when condoms AND birth control pills don't work, and trust me...that happened before. So just be careful I guess, but my advice would be don't have sex until you get married.
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