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im not sure what to do
well me and my friend
we arnt sure if we are going out anymore
well his name is eric
and he isnt a virgin but i am and i feel like i am ready to you know...with him
but i am 14 and i dont know i like him a lot an u know he os cool but i think whenever i am with him all we do is kiss or makeout we dont ever get to talk only on the phone and myspace. buti am gonna go see him on sunday and i think that is when we are gonna do it help me an I making the right decision?!?!
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Of course your making the wrong decision girlie!
Your ONLY 14 and losing your virginity at this age isn't good...at all. No offense, but it seems like your just throwing your virginity away. It doesn't matter if he's cool or not, you shouldn't have sex with him not only because your 14, but also cause you barely know him. Talk to him first, ask yourself if you really do love him THEN you can think about having sex with him.
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WHOAH! your kidding?! i dont want to sound mean, but you are only 14. do you really want to have a baby at 14? hmmm?
but if you want to go through with it, talk to him about it.
1. make sure he has condoms.
2. make sure that you REALLY REALLY love this guy enough, remember, this is your first time, and you want to do it with someone you really love.
3.before sunday, talk to him more. like, instead of makingout, talk to him inperson and get to know him better.
4.establish if you really are going out..haha
my advice, is that you should wait until your atleast 15 and really love the guy enough to do it.
best of luck
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yes your making a bad decision !
you could ruin your whole entire life
one, your 14
two, you barely no the guy
three, you dont no if your even going out
four, your asking on an advice column if you should or shouldnt do it
and five, because you should really love the person
and when i say love i mean
you feel like you can spend the rest of your life with him
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If you are asking whether to have sex on an internet advice column, the answer is obviously no, because you aren't 100% certain yourself. If you aren't 100% sure whether or not you want to have sex, it will be a horrible experience, considering you are 14 and I'm guessing you don't know EVERYTHING about it like you will when you're older.
Why do you feel the need to rush into losing your virginity to someone you barely know and just think "is so cool"..?
It's a silly excuse to be letting yourself in for something this big. and if you go ahead and regret it, there's no turning back I'm afraid.
If I were you, I wouldn't. and I would wait until I fell in love because it would be a special moment I'd never forget.
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wow your only fourteen and you want to lose your virginity to some guy that you barely know and think he is soo cool (you know he can kiss)but that isnt good enough plus your still very young i think you should seriously think this over listen if your not convinced to wait them atleast have an extrenly looong talk with him dont even bring up you know ...so he wont fake nething just talk to him get to really know him (and through this whole conversation no kissing or anything like that) and if you ohnestly truthfully really enojy him and his company and he feels the same for you then ok but dont do it if he doesnt feel the same for you...alright good luck
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I must say, you seem to unsure to be ready.
If you must rely on a answer to a question like this from thousands of strangers over the internet, you need to wait.
When you are ready, you'll know for sure. Hopefully, you'll be a little bit older as well.
Maybe, next time you guys hang out, go OUT to dinner. That way you won't be forced to makeout the whole time and you two can talk more in person to connect better. Just wait sweetheart.
Good Luck <3
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No I really don't think that you are making the right decision. Why? Firstly, I think you are far too young to be contemplating a sexual relationship with anyone at the moment because you are not mature enough either emotionally or physically.
Losing your virginity is something that can never be undone. A lot of people think it is not a great deal but it is. You have to know in yourself that you are ready and if you have to ask then it shows you are not.
Secondly, have you thought through all the implications of having a sex life? You have to consider contraception (don't leave it to the guys)- double protection ie. pill and condom is a must. Does he have any STDs, or HIV or anything else that you could catch? You have to have answers to these questions because your life will depend on his honesty.
Finally, at 14 it is illegal and your guy could end up in jail for having sex with a minor.
Obviously, the ultimate decision is yours but please have pride in yourself and your body and really think it through before you give your most precious asset away.
Good luck with your decision.
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