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13/f
When I was 12, I fell for this boy, i mean really fell for him. I saw him and immediately I just felt strange, I didn't even think he was good-looking, i just, I dont know, it felt strange. He kept making eye contact and his friends asked me out for him, but i didnt think I fancied him and said no, all of a sudden, because I thought he fancied me, I started to fall for him. I thought about him all the time, he was all I ever talked about, in lessons I couldnt concentrate and my grades started to slip. Eventually, I asked him out, but he said no, after that it was awful.
I felt like I had to see him every day, I couldn't go a day without hearing his voice or seeing his face, I couldnt get to sleep at night because I was thinking of him, i dreamed about him every night.
I would cry every night because I couldnt be with him, but whenever or saw his face or heard his voice i'd feel so happy. During the weekends I would look forward to monday when i'd be able to watch him chatting to his friends again.
When he got a girlfriend I felt so empty all the time, i didnt want to go out, I just wanted to go to bed and never wake up.
I had no energy and felt worthless, I still couldnt concentrate in class and my grades were just getting worse, I felt hopeless and was constantly craving chocolate.
Afterwards, I had changed, I was left with no confidence, I had lost all my energy and my grades were bad.
I got over it eventually, and now I'm 13.
The thing is, I was at a party, this guy was there and afterwards he told me he thought I was really fit. I didnt used to fancy him, but when I started to think he might fancy me, I started to fancy him. Last night I was at a party, and I thought he fancied me, but although he made eye contact a few times, he was wrapped around this other girl the whole time. I had a great time, but when I got home I dreamt about him all night, woke up thinking about him, and have been thinking about him constantly all day. I have started to feel empty and hopeless because I think he might have a girlfriend, and I am craving chocolate and feel like I just want to go to bed so I can see him at school tomorrow.
I'm worried that I'll start to feel about him the same way I did about the other guy when I was 12, I dont want to ever go back to how I was then, I was a wreck. How can I prevent that happening?
Sorry it was so long, thanks xxx
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ok, take a deap breath, and relax. focus on your school life, family and friends. forget about him for a while. if he asks you out, go for it. but this time lets see if he makes the first move. and if you cant stop thinking about him, think "hey, hes the one missing out." seriously. make yourself feel good. focuz on the more important things first. good luck
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well me and my friend
we arnt sure if we are going out anymore
well his name is eric
and he isnt a virgin but i am and i feel like i am ready to you know...with him
but i am 14 and i dont know i like him a lot an u know he os cool but i think whenever i am with him all we do is kiss or makeout we dont ever get to talk only on the phone and myspace. buti am gonna go see him on sunday and i think that is when we are gonna do it help me an I making the right decision?!?! (link)
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WHOAH! your kidding?! i dont want to sound mean, but you are only 14. do you really want to have a baby at 14? hmmm?
but if you want to go through with it, talk to him about it.
1. make sure he has condoms.
2. make sure that you REALLY REALLY love this guy enough, remember, this is your first time, and you want to do it with someone you really love.
3.before sunday, talk to him more. like, instead of makingout, talk to him inperson and get to know him better.
4.establish if you really are going out..haha
my advice, is that you should wait until your atleast 15 and really love the guy enough to do it.
best of luck
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WELL heres the thiing
theres this guy he gets mad easily like i say somwething and he tells me off he says im childisha dn i doitn say anything bad like i act normal he gets mad really easily ill ask one thiing and he gets into a bad mood i have tried talking to him but he turns it into a fight please help what can i do or what conversation can i start with him not to annoy hiim (link)
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i know how you feel. i know EXACTLY how you feel. my friend is very moody to, its like, you say one wrong thing and its the end of the world. then she would call me a loser. but the thing is, you just have to tell him when hes being moddy, and if he gets mad at that just say "see, i told you." tell him that he needs to like control his stupid anger, or u guys cant be friends anymore. or, if its that bad, just stop being friends with him. period. BUT tell him how you feel first. if hes truely your friend, he'll try to understand and stop.
best of luck!
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so there's this boy i like and i don't know what to sya to him.. me and him are kind of friends and he's in my study hall so what should i say to him? (link)
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i know exactly how you feel. its happened to probably everyone. if you guys are friends, or talk a little bit, it wont be as bad if he likes you as a friend. take a deep breath and build up your courage. it wont be weird if you talk to him, cause you guys are friends, and he will think its a normal conversation. then ask him out. ask him to go to the movies, the movies is the perfect place, you dont have to talk [if you feel uncomfortable] or you can talk during the enitre movie. its a win-win situation. but just think, one u ask him out its over, the worst part has just happend. you can do it!
best of luck,
*~summer~*
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well here is the problem
I'm 14 years old and a female (duhh)
okay and i never got asked out and i never had a boyfriend. But the weird thing is that my best friend (he's a guy) told me that i'm the hottest girl in school AND every grown up (even some teachers) tell my parents i am soooo pretty and when i'm outside or in school all the boys look after me. But i dont get it they dont talk to me or anything they just stare at me in class or whatever. soo i JUST DONT GET IT. dont tell me to talk to them because everytime i trie they just look away and give me short answers
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they might not talk to you because they are intimidated because you are so pretty. you should start to talk to one of them, make up a subject that they cant give one word answers to. talk about something they like. who knows, maybe your the one who has to make the first move. why dont YOU ask one them out? if your that pretty, they wont refuse. and if they do, just think of all the other people that say ur pretty.
best of luck,
summer
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ok like i said before in one of my questions i have a good friend of mine that i like, and im starting to like him even more than i did. The thing was that i heard that he liked some other girl and i kinda got jealous but i got over it.. and he said that that girl was just pretty and that he didnt like her.. the other friend that i have that knows that i liked him went up to him and sneakly asked this.. she said do you think the girl that you said is pretty is the only girl thats pretty you never say anyone else is pretty so she said do you think im pretty he said yes and she said do you think shes pretty and she pointed to one of my other friends and he said hell no and then my friend asked him if he thought i was pretty and he said i cant really judge her because shes like on the inside a brother from another mother.. because im a lil bit of a tomboy.. but that answer really makes no sense to me. its really weird because my friend who asked him who was pretty hes really good friends with her and he gave her an answer but i dont get why he didnt give her an answer about me...also i dont really kno if i should tell him that i like him or not because i dont want him to be like eww.. but he stairs at me a lot it also could be that i act goofy and he laughs at most of the stuff i do... so please could someone help me out (link)
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take baby steps, go get pizza together with other people.then take another step,"one on one time" ask him out to get pizza, just you two. dress really nice, ask one of your friends to do your make up and go buy an adorable outfit. just act like yourself, but flirt a little more. i went through something like this, and it worked out great. were now dating. anyway, at the end of that day, when he walks you home, [ask him to walk you home] tell him that u had a great time and you should do it again. tell him to call u later that night. and see how things go.
i hope it works out =]
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Last Saturday this boy gave me his phone number. Its now a week later and I finally decided I want to call him (after a week of trying to get over my shyness lol) but I'm not sure if its still appropriate since its a week later. Is it too late? (link)
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if he likes you enough to give you his number, he'll wait for you to call.
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