Member Since: September 17, 2006
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Last Update: September 17, 2006
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me and my freind went to her boyfreinds house and got drunk and i had unprotective sex with this one guy and she almost did with her boyfreind but didnt then she got super sick and almost died and i held her up when she was throwing up and when no noe would help her i helped her into the car and called my mom wich sucked and risked EVERYTHING everything we have done just everything.
and then we went to the hospital and called her parents wich now hate me and she told them i had sex with this one guy and everything i have done.
what should i do?
how do i get our freindship back?
how do i get her to know that those were her desissions?
i feel guilty and like a horrible freind.
like it was all my fault.
i could have stopped it.
and if i wouldbnt have called my mom and tooken her to the hospital she would have died.
please help.
thank you. (link)
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You poor girl.
I think you tried to do the best you could in a bad situation.
The fact that it was her boyfriends house and you were able to get drunk there and have sex with a stranger tells me that this friend and her acquantancies dont care too much for you at all,they dont care much for your friend either.
If she cared for you she would not have allowed you to get drunk and end up having sex and put yourself at risk.
The best thing you can do is find a new friend.
You sound as if you are very caring and also insecure you need to find some one who deserves you because this friend is not worth your effort and your time.
You must not put yourself in this situation again you sound very young to be having this kind of responsibility and your friend does not appreciate you.
You will find someone much better.
Good luck
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My 14th birthday party is coming up soon... its in fall. I really need help planning what to do. I was thinking of having the girls and I go to a place where they have some sort of make-up artist and that person can do our make-up... after that we rent a limo and go to a restaurant and then do a photo-shoot at home with everybody. My question is if this is a good idea? Also I dont know any good make-up companies and where they will be. I live in Minneapolis, Minnesota... so if anybody could help me find a company and a place where they do our make-up. Thanks you. Oh and also another question is if you have any other fun birthday party ideas... there will be about 3 girls including me ((dont even ask why i'm not having more people, my other birthday partys have had 6 girls including me and it was a DISASTER... for all of my other 13 birthday parties.. so i'm having less amount of girls)) there will be 3 girls including me... I've already done Bowling, movie theaters, shopping and swimming in the past... I want to do something fun, cheap, and allowable for 14 year olds. THANK YOU FOR HELPING ME AND TAKING THE TIME TO READ THIS. (link)
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For my daughters 14th birthday we had a small group of girls and we threw a 'Nutrimetics foot spa party'.I dont know if you have 'Nutrimetics' in Minneapolis but try and look online for one.
The lady who came to our home did a great demonstration on the 'birthday girl' we had a lot of laughs,tried lots of different products had some food and drinks and at the end each guest chose a gift form the brochure up to $10 in value and this was instead of a party gift bag.It was great fun.You could also hire a wedding /Ball make up artist to visit.Another party my daughter was invited to the parents had a scrapbooking night. Each girl had to bring photos from home and everyone made their own scrap book.They had lots of beads and sequins and coloured paper, at the end they also made a book for the birthday girl each girl added a page to dedicate to their friend.It was a really nice personal keepsake.I hope this is some help to you and have a really HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
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