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i saved her yet she hates me.
me and my freind went to her boyfreinds house and got drunk and i had unprotective sex with this one guy and she almost did with her boyfreind but didnt then she got super sick and almost died and i held her up when she was throwing up and when no noe would help her i helped her into the car and called my mom wich sucked and risked EVERYTHING everything we have done just everything.
and then we went to the hospital and called her parents wich now hate me and she told them i had sex with this one guy and everything i have done.
what should i do?
how do i get our freindship back?
how do i get her to know that those were her desissions?
i feel guilty and like a horrible freind.
like it was all my fault.
i could have stopped it.
and if i wouldbnt have called my mom and tooken her to the hospital she would have died.
please help.
thank you.
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You saved her life. You made the very best decision you could in a very bad situation that she got herself into.
It's not your responsibility to protect your friend from her poor choices. You both messed up, and you have your own guilt to deal with, you needn't take on hers.
Let her cool down for a bit. Hopefully after the pain and fear subside a bit she will be able to realize the logic of what you did and you can both learn from this, forgive and move on.
But for now let her wallow. Hating you is probably easier then hating herself. You be secure in your good judgment and quick action.
If anything, learn from this that poorly planned 'fun' like you were having is dangerous, not just for a obvious reasons, but for what it can do to relationships. Use some discretion next time and protect both yourself and the people with you.
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You poor girl.
I think you tried to do the best you could in a bad situation.
The fact that it was her boyfriends house and you were able to get drunk there and have sex with a stranger tells me that this friend and her acquantancies dont care too much for you at all,they dont care much for your friend either.
If she cared for you she would not have allowed you to get drunk and end up having sex and put yourself at risk.
The best thing you can do is find a new friend.
You sound as if you are very caring and also insecure you need to find some one who deserves you because this friend is not worth your effort and your time.
You must not put yourself in this situation again you sound very young to be having this kind of responsibility and your friend does not appreciate you.
You will find someone much better.
Good luck
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