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I am 14 years old and it seems i go through alot more drama than i should. The only person who rele knows is my bff Chelsea and she helps me through alot. I have had 5 boyfriends and I rele know my stuff on tht part. My family has had many screw ups I have lost 4 dear ppl in the last year(including my dog.) I love to give advice to ppl at school and everyone comes to me for it so tht is why i made my own advice column. Dnt be afraid to ask me bout anything i will always have a response.
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Location: NJ
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Age: 14
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13/f im starting to really hate life.im not going to a physicatrist.im more baggy clothes all my ~girl~ friends are more girly but in all mixed groups and my ~guy~ friend is more of a unique person he goesin all stlyes too.every1 is in a group or clique. all but me.it drives me crazy.yes i cuss alot yes i love black and i LOVE jewelry. i have my own style.i can go in any group but its uncomfortable but id rather be with my bff thats a guy but he goes to 2 schools so hes only here half the time and when he is here hes usually w/ me but mainly doin tests and work he missed. im alone in a school death trap. i am myself i dont change for anyone and i have my own style.but im not happy at all i dont have friends tht would always go w/ me most ignore me when their w/ their group but they still call me their 'friend'.my only true friend is my bff thats a guy.ppl think of me as a freak.yea so i never cared but now i do.~~~can u answer this question first then the next~~~now we like eachother as bf gf but people who date end up hating eachother.hes all i have.if we would break up sayin still friends is like sayin your dog died but you can still keep it.people also say o the two freaks dating. i never cared befor but now i do. ~help mee o please~ what do i do ~can u answer them sepratly please (link)
okie....[1]About the cliques....I am just like you....Last year i used to bump from clique to clique because i had too many friends and then i got tired from goin to table to table cause i never thought any one was mi true friend. Alot of mi close friends have moved. The best thing i think to do to solve your clique problems is to find one clique and sit with them. My bro likes black alot and he is called a freak but once you get to know him he is a pretty cool dude. Find people who like you and your attitude no matter how you dress. Then if u sit with them more and more then they will start to accept you and invite you over and stuff.

[2] This is a familiar problem. It is difficult dating your bff and then if you guys break up its hard stayin friends. But i think if you dont give it a try then you dont know what your missing out on. I know it may not mean anything but if you guys break up then you should hang out like tht same week and act normal. Talk about it if it helps and if not just act like you were if you were only friends. Trust me the more and more you hang out the more and more you start being yourselves again.


I'm tempted to get this shirt (1), which comes only in a *bright* red colour.

(1) http://tinyurl.com/2c4v8f

I have black hair and dark eyes. I currently have pale skin but I tan easily and my natural skin tone is olive (or 'Asian'). Could I pull bright red, even just any shade of red, off? Or should I go for something more subdued? Even some advice about which colours generally would work helps. (link)
I have dark hair and dark eyes and asian coloured skin and everyone thinks tht i look teriffic in dark red. But people always compliment me when i wear green colours, peachy colours, pink colours,reddish colours, and even white!!! White does wonders if you want to just tone something out so it isn't as focused on the bright colour your wearing then just wear a white cami underneath and u can either pull it up so you can see it through a low neck shirt or if it has a high neck pull it down so it is evenly showing at the bottom.=] hope this helped


Hello,
I'm 15 and my homecoming is Oct. 14th and I really want to lose some weight in my stomach and then lose weight and tone my arms. What are some things you suggest I do. I'm trying to run at least a mile everyday till then. I'm also trying to eat healther...any other suggestions. (link)
hey,
im 14
and my brother is a physical trainer
you could look up some healthy foods online tht are also delicious.
Protein bars are so good, I would recommend the south beach ones. They are good for dieting but i use them to substiture meals.
To tone ur arms push ups are wonderful.
My brother always makes me do sum.
You can start by 5 and then once you have those down pack keep moving up. You will notice tht you arms will be come stronger and toner. If you want to lose sum stuff in ur stomach you can do crunches do the same routine as the push ups. Dnt push urself. Sit ups are also good but its good to get cruches down first. Hope this helps.


me and my friend want to hang out tonight, but we really don't have anywhere to go. we've done the mall countless times, and there's no movies to go see. is there anywhere else or anything me and my friend can do to entertain ourselves?


HELP. (link)
Ice skatin is a great past time
or
have a slumber party and play dare or dare
no truth cuz then nothing is interesting
hmmmm
me and my friends just like to walk around town if u have one of those kinds of places
or goin to a public pool its not too late for tht
One night when i had a sleepover with my bff we watched all new scary movies and had candy all nite we had pillow fites called boys and just chilled at her house tht is always fun!!


okay i am a 17/f

anyways i am the kind of girl that everyone says is so pretty and well rounded and what not but i never am able to get the good looking kind of boyfriend i want

for a while i always wondered why

and then i was talking to my new friend from school last night online and he said that i don't seem to express my feelings well. And i told him i am always outspoken and stuborn and what not then hes like have you ever had a boyfriend you don't seem to know what your doing and i said yes i have


what does he mean by all of that. I asked him but I am still confused (link)
well i would think he means tht most boys like girls who aren't afraid to be themselves around them they dnt like the fake kind of girls who just want to please ppl


Just wondering - how flirtatious a gesture do you consider playfully slapping someone on the shoulder? (link)
Hmmmmm....well its probably in the 7 zone. If you like the person then go for it. But dnt slap hard tht is wat boys dnt like.




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