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WELL heres the thiing
theres this guy he gets mad easily like i say somwething and he tells me off he says im childisha dn i doitn say anything bad like i act normal he gets mad really easily ill ask one thiing and he gets into a bad mood i have tried talking to him but he turns it into a fight please help what can i do or what conversation can i start with him not to annoy hiim
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He does not sounds like someone you need to continue to communicate with - mood swings aren't any fun.
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uhhhhhhh dont talk to him if he's in a badmood.....
there you go.
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i know how you feel. i know EXACTLY how you feel. my friend is very moody to, its like, you say one wrong thing and its the end of the world. then she would call me a loser. but the thing is, you just have to tell him when hes being moddy, and if he gets mad at that just say "see, i told you." tell him that he needs to like control his stupid anger, or u guys cant be friends anymore. or, if its that bad, just stop being friends with him. period. BUT tell him how you feel first. if hes truely your friend, he'll try to understand and stop.
best of luck!
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Believe me, I've been there. Whenever friends are in a bad mood I always find it's best NOT to talk to them whenever they're in it unless you want to get snapped at. I would suggest just backing off or ask him what's wrong and let him rant on and on and on until all his feelings are let out. That usually makes people feel better when they know they can talk about it and have someone to release all their thoughts and feelings to. Just tell him,"I don't want to fight with you. I'm just trying to talk to you. If you want me to leave you alone for a bit, I will." And if he needs some time to himself, give it to him and just tell him he can call you whenever he's in a better mood. Also, while you're talking to him, if you notice he's starting to get mad at whatever you're talking about, change the subject and don't linger on about it, cause that'll only make him more upset.
If nothing works and he continues to be rude, just let him know whats up and how you're feeling. Tell him you can't be friends with him if all you're gonna do is get snapped at by him and everything, you can't take it and it really hurts your feelings. You want to be friends, and you've been trying to talk to him, it's just really hard. So if he's in a bad mood, can he at least warn you before you guys talk? Or talk to him about what it is [ like i said before ] that's making him so mad all the time and what doesn't he like talking about with you and everything, so you know what topics to avoid.
Some people are just really emotional, and I know, it is really hard to deal and talk with them. I just try my best to catch them in their good moods, and when they're in their bad, back off.
I hope I helped.
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maybe you shouldnt just talk to him atall i mean if everytime you say something to him he is going to yell them why the hell bother yourself with talking to him atall let him eat himself alive with his anger problem you shouldnt be a part of it....and if you seriously want to stay friends (i dont know why) then just dont say anything to him let him start the conversation but i seriously think he isnt worth talking to if hes going to scream at you everytime
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