Question Posted Sunday September 17 2006, 11:25 pm
Hey i am a 15 year old girl!
Well on our school camp i told this guy that i liked him and then found out he likes my best mate. on top of this my other mate now likes him to....so there are 3 girls that all love the same guy! it is just so hard coz i want him so bad i have liked him for a year now and the other 2 have only just started liking him! i also found out he liked me 2 years ago for ages! I need help......how can i make him like me but not hurt my friends?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MelLeDisko answered Monday September 18 2006, 3:51 pm: Well, if he's single, he's fair game. But you can't really make anybody like you ; they need to like you for you. I would just keep talking to him and flirting with him a little [ don't be really flirty with him infront of your friends though ] and show him the great person you are. Then, I suggest you tell him how you feel. Maybe once he realizes you like him, you never know. Old feelings could return. But if he really does like your best friend, then you just have to learn to live with it. You can't steal guys away from people, especially one of your best friends. If you do, there's no way for your other friends NOT to get hurt. You just need to talk about it and how much you like him and how long you've liked him, and hopefully, they'll understand. I hope I helped. [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
kick_me answered Monday September 18 2006, 7:46 am: well you really cant make anyone like you..they have to like you by their self i think the best way to get him is to act as if you dont care...let the other two girls go after him and when he see's that your he only one not all over him he is going to get attracted to you and flirt with him but not to much just a little and when he starts to flirt back talk to someone else or act as if you have to go somewhere or d something...but no touch severe flirt...that just shows your trying to hard [ kick_me's advice column | Ask kick_me A Question ]
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