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ok, well here's what i'm confused about.
i'm 18 and a girl. i'm senior and in love with this guy so much. his name's Vinny. well we've known each other since last year. he was in my english class. we never nearly talked at all. but in the middle of the year towards the end we started talking alot getting to know each other a bit. :)
and i had a majorily crush on him. until one day i saw him with a girl making out in the hallway. so i figured he had a gf and he did.
now it's senior year and he is two of my classes. english again and food class. we talk alot in enlgish he flirts with me a bit i flirt back. but i can't tell which is which like.
he plays with my hair, he gives me kissy faces i can't explain tat though ahah, he asks for gum all the time and i give it to him. ahh, i always have gum with me, dont know y i do but i care.
he even asked me one time either on monday or tuesday he asked me who did i like.
he wanted to find out but i kept playing with him and saying i like someone else. then he says do you like him or him or him, he was namin the guys in my classroom. so i said no i like someone and you should know. that is a clue saying i like him. but apperatnly he didn't get it. but one time he almost got mad when i told him i liked someone but he didn't know i like him.
so i asked him dont worry i like you and he was like i hate you but we joke around alot so i know he doesn't mean that because at the end we both laugh about it.
then he was like i always wonder why "nick" this other kid i'm friends with hates you. and i laugh so hard about it saying because i always bitch at him and its true Vinny knows that to.
but i couldn't tell why he even asked me that. he never does. and plus we have so much in common we dont hang out much at all never out side of school but during only.
i even touch him sometimes like on his arm or be like oh vinny your so funny ahah. but i mean i know it seemed that i flirt with him.
but like i said that boy is so hard to figure out wether or not he likes me.
because one thing is he had a girlfriend for four years and they broke up. it's been two month now. and if i tell him it would be hard for me because i know how hard it was for him that HIS girlfriend of four years broke up with him.
so my question to you. i like him so much i get so nervous around him sometimes but i'm so comfortable around him. its like when we talk we talk nonestop aha. so what do i do? how can i tell if he really likes me, one thing is i know he mite not even be interst in be but that's something else. the other thing is should i tell him my feelings? if so how? he's only in two of my classes. sometimes it's hard to talk to him alone. people are usually around him most of the time.
please help me, what should i do. he's so cute and i just want to be with him so much, he means so much to me. i can't stop thinking about him. i'm not going to lose or forget about him. i want to try.
SOOOORRRRRYYY FOR THE LONGEST MESSAGE EVER!!!!! very sorry. i so apprcate your help so much.
THANK YOU. (link)
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well, i personally wouldn't send notes and not to offend you, but that seems a little middle schoolish. i would [and i know this would be hard or embarassing] but i would see if he would want to go get some pizza or go see a movie sometime and see how he reacts to the whole scene and base your choices off of that. if you have anymore questions, send me them to my inbox and i'll answer in more depth for you. hhopefully i helped. =]
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I like sleep, no doubt about that, but sometimes i sleep when i don't want to. I'm a senior now and exams are approaching but i can't study because I'm so over-whelmed by school during the day that the lastest i can go is about 10:00pm. It sucks because i barely get time to study since my homework finishes about 8 and i want a little break.
I want to stay awake, but in a healthy-ish way. I know i can drink coffee, but i don't want to over consume caffein...so anything else? Any good healthy ways? (link)
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eating suger isn't exactly healthy, but it works. you could also drink a vanilla chai tea that you can get at a dunkin donuts and its sweet and will keep you up for a little while. like my friend would drink it and she wouldn't be able to go to sleep. she was up until 4 in the morning after drinking it at ten, though that may not happen for everyone. hope i helped
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how do you shrinka t-shirt? (link)
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wash it in warm water and dry it in the drying machine.
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I never thought I would think that this very thing would happen to my family. Over 3 years ago, my father passed away from cancer. It was very quick and found out within a summer length of time. After my father passed away, my mom would start drinking. She would drink from 1-2 bottles of wine a night. To the point where she would be drunk and feel better about everything. It never really accord to us that she was having a drinking problem. But now 3 years later, shes been drinking almost a whole bottle of wine a night. She gets to the point where shes mean and cries. I try to talk to her, but she never listens. She says she only does it cause it helps her with the stress of work, financial problems, ect. I want to get her help, but I know she'll be angry with me at first. Because during any time I talk to someone else about the drinking problem or any other problems in her life, she denies it. When I confronted her tonight about drinking, she completely denied it. Should I research about it, seek help from a pastor at a local church, a hotline? Thank you for the advice. (link)
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i'm sorry to say this, but it does seem like your mum has a drinking problem. I would suggest calling ahotline or going to a program and get information. then, even if you have to have a friend or relative there with you, confront her and tell her that you think she has a drinking problem. then if she denies it, have the relative or friend talk to her. if that still doesn't work, you need to come up with an ultimatum to give her. like, if you have an aunt or uncle that lives close by that you will go stay with them until she sobers up and fixes her problem. of cousre you gotta make sure that it's okay with your family first and leave her with some AA pamphlets and the number for a hotline. if this doesn't work, then i really don't know what else there is to do except letting her hit her rock bottom to the point where she's asking for help. hopefully i helped. =D good luck!
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Okay, well I am in a pychology class. And for our finals we have to do this project. Basically, you have to tell about you, your family, your past experiences, & what made you what you are. I'm doing a powerpoint. And I wanted to add like 1-3 songs on it. What song(s) are good for this project? I would prefer Acoustic music or something soft. No rock or screaming. Just something soft and easy to listen to.
Thanks in advance! (link)
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why you try somngs that remind you of your family or while one of your experiences were occuring, if music was playing, play that and say that this was the music from my actual experience. just find songs that go with people who they remind you of. hopefully i helped.
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Okay so i have been dating this one guy for over two years now, and I really love him and care about him. In the first year of our relationship I ended up cheating on him with this one guy who was a good friend of mine, we had ended up making out..well he then left for the millitary and recently i have thought about him and he came home for a christmas leave the other day we met up and ended up making out again. this guy says he really cares deeply for me and wants me to give it a shot with him..but the thing is i love my boyfriend i trully do, and i am not telling him this time around (last time i did and we worked through it) However, i feel like i do have some pretty strong feelings for this other guy and its like i have lost some for my boyfriend because he has been taking his anger and tired-ness out on me a lot and we get into these really bad arguments and sometimes i get scared deep down that he will hit me..but he never has...WHAT DO I DO?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
PLEASE HELP ME..do not bother if your going to insult me or call me a horrible person.
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This is very normal. First off I would say is that I believe you are starting to think you're losing feelings for boyfriend is because this other guy has come back, but since he is only home for christmas leave, I wouldn't push your boyfriend aside not knowing your true feelings. If you want to end it with you boyfriend, then I am in no position to tell you otherwise, but if you are questioning your feelings about him because of how he has been treating you, then I would suggest that you sit him down and talk to him about how you've been feeling. Also I think it is in the best interest of all three of you, for you to tell your boyfriend that you did make out with this other guy because if you work it out with your boyfriend and the other guy gets jealous, he may tell your boyfriend about it and it could ruin both of your relationships. I suggest you tell the other guy that you are in a relationship and that you still care deeply about your boyfriend and you don't think it's very fair that he's asking you to choose considering he's going to be leaving soon anyways. If you have something good, don't put it aside hoping you'll get better, because you could lose both. if you don't understand this too well, write back even of you want more. hopefully i helped. =]
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when I open that page should it have a new search box on it, because all I see is a tk logo and advertisements (link)
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It should have another google page and you type the address in the box like myspace.com and it will automatically work. though sometimes it doesn't work depend on where you are and what computer you have. sorry if it doesn't work! =]
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OMG! when i was walking home, I had made a note to my crush, (typed it, and anonymous ~ god i'm such a chicken) I went to his mail box droped it in and ran a little ways (so no one saw me, or i chickened out) now i'm afraid he'll know it's me! i even typed "pudding is yummy" as a hint (when ever say "pudding" he laughs, thinks it's a funny word) I'm not sure if he likes me though, i looked at every "does he like me" website on the computer he does all the things! (sometimes) other times he kind of ignores me (especially if his sister ~my friend~ isn't home) sometimes i wonder if he uses his sis as an excuse to talk to me, usually i'll end up sitting on his bed, in his room, just talking to him. he is so funny, sweet, and cute. i really don't know what to do the next time i see him! plzzzzz help! and hrry! (link)
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personally i would've just asked him if he would wanna hang out just the two of you. if he says no, i wouldn't push it. wait a little while and ask again. but since you dropped off a letter, you should tell him it was you who sent it and you forgot whether or not you put your name on it. if he says he didn't get it then just say forget about it, but if he asks what was it about, ask him to hang out. if he did get it and he starts acting weird, then explain that you like him and was just wondering if he was interested in going out sometime. take it slow, remember patience is a virtue. =] hope i helped
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Ok I'm candy selling for my church and I am doing it for the church and to go on a trip but to go on the trip I need to sell 15 boxes. Its really hard too because alot of people won't buy. I'm 13 and my parents let me sell but they won't take me anywhere so I went with my friend the last 2 days and I sold 1 box and almost 2. I need to sell alot. There are 24 candies in each box and it is $1.50 each. It is 3 weeks long though. Since my parents won't take me I have to find someone else to take me everyday. So far the next three days I won't be able to sell because everyone is working and my friends get out of their school earlier than mine so I won't be able to go with them. Thursday and Friday I found a ride and probably Sat. and Sun. I will go with a friend. Sorry it was long but does anyone have any tips or something that can help me! Please! (link)
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Well, ask some people you know from church and people in your neighborhood. Tell them what it's for and that it's ONLY 1.50. if they say i'll get back to you, say you will come back later this week so they know you will be back. if they say yes, say you really appreciate it and thank you. if they say no, then you really can't do anything about that. Just remember to reinforce what you're selling the candy for and what the trip is and that it's with the church. Also ask some relatives that you see often and ask some of your friends parents. HHope this works and have fun on the trip! =]
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are stride gum wrappers edible?
i heard they were if you eat the wrapper with the gum.
is this true, like are they meant to be chewed,
i would think they would advertise the wrappers being edible and stuff, but idk, is it true? (link)
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no haha it's not true...a lot of people have made that mistake, but good question! =]
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Hi, I'm 15/f. He's 18/m.
Basically, we both got it off our chests that we liked each other tonight. But that we were both second guessing our thoughts for each other, and that things were definitely complicated, his complications I don't know but I told him I liked him AND another person a little. So it's weird.
I think I do want to be in a relationship with him, but I don't know what he wants. Plus I'm scared because he tends to be a little stalkerish.
After we told each other the feelings were mutual, we went back to normal conversation.
What's the next move? What should I do?
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well, you should be careful about your actions if he can be a little stalkerish. Don't make any moves to make him think you don;t like him or that you're head over heels in love with him either. just take it easy and casual, be careful about your moves. if you have the slightest feelings for him, try and go for it, and if it's not to your liking, then forget it and focus on your other crush, because you don't want the the same thing that happened to katie happen to you. luv holly
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what does it mean when your period is brown? (link)
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it could either just be dired blood or it's either ending or starting. it can go either way with this. if is is none of the above, then you may want to get it checked out by your doctor. hope I helped
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15/f
okay so like, im rlly skinny and my boobs arent HUGE but theyre not small either
and like,
for some reason, im rlly self conscience about them
like, guys ask me for pictures and i dont wanna send them mainly because im scared of what theyll think ?
like, omg im gonna sound like a moronic idiot buttt how big should your nipple be ?
also, when i shave down there, i get like, razor burns no matter what .. is there any cream or anything to help that?
please .. any advice is perfect :D (link)
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Well, first of all you shouldn't be self conscience about how you look. If they don't like how you look then that's their problem. Also there is no specific size for your nipple. If it is concerning you the you should go see a doctor. Finally you can get a shaving cream/lubricant to help with the burn. hope I helped!
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First and foremost, may I say that I am not trying to be conceited. However, it is apparent that almost EVERY guy I know looks at me, sees I'm sexy, assumes I'm easy, and thinks he can get in my pants. This has become a real problem for me. I feel as though no one sees me for me. Nobody sees past what I look like. I don't want to stop being sexy, not that I even try. I think I have a great personality- I'm fun, I'm chill. I will NOT downplay my looks in any way. To me, that doesn't solve the problem. How can I get guys to see me for me? (link)
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When you talk to them, try to take the attention away from your body and on your smarts or movies, get them thinking and talking as well. They should start seeing you for real once they get to know you a little more. hope i helped!
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Soo the other night i went out with some friends..and i met one of my friend's brother. He really didnt talk to me the whole night until after i left one of my friends texted me and said that her bro said i was real cute and he wanted to get to know me...soo he wanted my number. Well i gave to her and its been a couple of days and he hasnt called or texted me..i dont know if he either forgot or what..what should i do..and what do you think? (link)
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Well it could mean he's really shy, considering he didn't speak to you at all when you went out. So give him another week, but if he hasn't called by then, give your friend a call and find out what's going on, whether he still like syou or not. hope I helped!
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okay. me and this kid have a history. we've dated on and off. but he's the only guy im fully comfortable with.
he asked me if id have sex with him.
and i want to .. bad.
but at the same time. this is gonna seem weird. but i get really bad ingrown hairs and their red and gross. i dont want him to think i have some weird disguisting disease .. i'm not sure how to go about it. i've avoided all stuff like this so i dont have to tell anyone. its embarassing and ugly.
so its either dont do stuff. or do it like udner blankets wit the lights off. i dont know .. (link)
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Why don't you just tell him. He doesn't have to look down there or you could do it with the lights out, but I think you should tell him because if you don't it might backfire, like after you two are done and he hasn't seen it yet, he may glance down and see it and freak out thinking somethings wrong. He could leave or get mad before you get a chance to explain. Then when you do tell him, he may ask why you didn't tell him to begin with. You don't want him to resent you for it, so just tell him. He most definitely will not mind.
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Hi. If I delets a friend from my Yahoo Messenger list and Hi5 would the friend know they have been deleted? Thanx! (link)
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I'm pretty sure. You will be deleted off of their mailing list as well. =]
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theres this guy i really like and hes been flirting with me my friend but i already made out with him and were hanging out this weekend to make out again. what can i do and say until then to make him want me.. like how do i act? i really like him. do i act like a tease if so how? (link)
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Like you could dress up or if you don't mind acting slutty, you could dress that way. That will most likely get his attention. You could also play hard to get. Guys always want what they think they can't have. =]
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my friends step brother is 25 and my friend is 13 ... he is 100 % philipino and my friend is half ... well he lives in the house with my friend and well ;awhile back like a few months ago she only told me a few things that happenedsuch as he was forcing her to touch his penis , and play around with him and other dirty stuff like that .
well her sister told my older sister that she got molested.
and i was wondering , does that me he put his penis inside of her , or did just playing with his penis also count as molestation ?
i wanna know
im scared for her
because my sister found out that she was molested and im not sure if i understood !
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Anything forced from a man or woman is considered molestation, though forced sex is obviously rape. So yes, that was considered molestation. Sorry to hear about that, it's really sad/scary.
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i need a really fun exciting birthday present for my mom. but its soooo hard getting her stuff: she doesnt use/like/wear the following -
make up
perfume
jewelry
music (ya shes really picky)
watches
cookbooks
clothes (she hates a lot of things)
shoes (SHE has to pick them out)
gift cards (she wont even let me buy them for my friends)
kitchen utensils (anything from silverware to bread machines)
pillows
stuffed animals
jars of macoroni
basicly she doesnt like a lot of things. =/
i am making her a birthday card though, but i want a store bought gift to go along with it.
i cant ask her what she wants, becuase shell say she doesnt need anything.
i want to get her something fun, maybe a bit useless, but something that she will really enjoy.
any random ideas?
*i already thought of making a video of our family and a scrapbook, but we dont have any pictures and videos.
just a tiny bit about her: she homeschools me and my brother (no gifts saying teacher, please!!!)spends 6 hours of her day drivng and watching my brother do gymnastics (his gym is 1.5 hours away) so i was thinking to get her something that will amuse her while she watches my brother.
i am willing to spend up to 100 dollars.
thanks!!
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well, you could do something homemade like a painting, but if you need something that will keep her amused, you could go with a cd player and headphones with whatever type of music she likes. She can listen to her music with missing what things your brother does. Good luck! =]
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