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hmmmm.
okay. me and this kid have a history. we've dated on and off. but he's the only guy im fully comfortable with.
he asked me if id have sex with him.
and i want to .. bad.
but at the same time. this is gonna seem weird. but i get really bad ingrown hairs and their red and gross. i dont want him to think i have some weird disguisting disease .. i'm not sure how to go about it. i've avoided all stuff like this so i dont have to tell anyone. its embarassing and ugly.
so its either dont do stuff. or do it like udner blankets wit the lights off. i dont know ..
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Razor bumps are hard to prevent, they are almost inevitable when you shave if you have sensitive skin (and skin in that region is more than sensitive.) Try not to shave daily, because that irritates your skin. But here's something that will help you short term - before you meet with this guy, apply Visine eye drops to razor bumps. They will disappear in about five minutes. It's harmless, and it helps.
However, if I were you I'd really consider waxing instead of shaving. The reason why we shave our pubic region is because we want it to look good, and if it doesn't look good, we should try something else. If waxing isn't an option for you, let the hair grow and trim it short. Shortly trimmed pubic hair looks decent and isn't something you would want to hide by turning off the lights when you're making love. DON'T continue doing something that makes you feel self-conscious about your body.
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About the ingrown hairs, you should go to the doctor, to see if they're infected. That could possibly be why they're all red. He can give you something, either a cream or an antibiotic, to help you with that. But other than that, you should buy a new razor, or use Nair for bikini line, or go get waxed by a professional. They can pluck out the ingrowns when they're finished with the wax
Hope this helps!
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Well, if you're "fully comfortable" with him, like you say you are, then why can't you just tell him something like, "I have these stupid ingrown hairs because my razor is gay; I really need to buy a new one." Or something like that. If he cares about you, he'll understand.
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Well, for future reference, if you're talking about pubic hair, after your hairs grow out, always shave in the direction they're going. This will help prevent ingrown hairs.
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Why don't you just tell him. He doesn't have to look down there or you could do it with the lights out, but I think you should tell him because if you don't it might backfire, like after you two are done and he hasn't seen it yet, he may glance down and see it and freak out thinking somethings wrong. He could leave or get mad before you get a chance to explain. Then when you do tell him, he may ask why you didn't tell him to begin with. You don't want him to resent you for it, so just tell him. He most definitely will not mind.
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Well do what the people below you said.
BUT, if your planning on having sex soon before they actually go away then do it under the blankets. If he tries to eat you out or something like that I'm sure he wont care. If he asks say it's razor burn? He shouldn't care.
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Before and after shaving (if you do)
use a skin peeling. after massaging that in for a few minutes get baby oil or something and leave that on over night. (best to wear old panties X3)
...do the peeling 3-4 times a week and the oil as often as you can.
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