I just recently (2 weeks ago?) lost my virginity,
and now I've been noticing my..er.. smell.. more. (16/f btw) is that normal?
Also, when my boyfriend and I have sex, sometimes he doesnt actually go inside me? Is that something that he'll just figure out how to do on his own or should I help out?
Secretkeeper18 answered Thursday May 24 2007, 5:18 pm: well as for your second question i have this problem also. if you help.. its alot easier on you and better too.. he wont mind.. and even if he does then that retarded because you are helping him out..
Bucket answered Thursday May 24 2007, 1:46 pm: I think it's normal -- that's the way it happened with me. I think it sort of kick-started those hormones and whatnot. If you have a problem with it though, you can try Summer's Eve feminine wash and wipes and whatnot. Whatever you do though, don't douche!
As far as your second question... I'd suggest helping out. If he hasn't realized this yet (which just means he's as inexperienced as you are), then he might not realize it any time soon. I had this problem with an ex... and I er, took the bull by the horns, so to speak. If you guide it in there yourself, he probably won't feel like an idiot AND you'll actually be having sex, haha. =] [ Bucket's advice column | Ask Bucket A Question ]
x0advice4y3w answered Wednesday May 23 2007, 11:24 am: Sometimes the smell can be a little stronger, so that's normal.
If he's not going in you it's not sex? You need to tell him! Who cares if he feels dumb. I'm sure he'd feel dumber if you never told him. So just say, "Baby. The hole is right here." [ x0advice4y3w's advice column | Ask x0advice4y3w A Question ]
XoXoXoXo77 answered Wednesday May 23 2007, 12:19 am: well if he isnt actually going inside you.. then its not sex. you should probably help him out a little and show him like where it is.. hah [ XoXoXoXo77's advice column | Ask XoXoXoXo77 A Question ]
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