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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]
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whats it mean when a girl is wet?
is it mean dischage or something?
idk... just curios
it means they're horny.
and they want sex.
How do they pierce it? And I know it hurts...and I am 14/f....and do you think I should wait? I want one really bad because I just got up the confidence to buy and wear a bikini and I want one to complete the package...and do you think that it is trachy or slutty? all adivce is welcomed! Kthanks =]
they pierce the top of your belly button with a needle. my friend got it done and she said it didnt hurt very much. it probably hurts less than getting your ears pierced.. if you know what that feels like? you dont have to wait if you dont want to. i dont think its trashy or slutty. im 16 and i really want my bellybutton pierced. but my parents wont let me. ha. as long as your parents give you permission then its fine. if it will give you more confidence then go for it!
hi,
so this week my school has off
& both of my parents work
so i am at home doing nothing really
its boring &
i was wondering if anyone had any ideas of what
to do at home since I can't drive yet .
T H A N K S !
well maybe you can have your parents drop you off at friends houses before they go to work. or you can invite some friends over/ walk to a friends house later in the day. maybe at night when your parents come home they can take you somewhere. anyways, if your friends come over you can watch movies, play games, go on the computer, do an art project, play in the snow, etc. (all of this you can do by yourself too). if you cant have friends over maybe you can like reorganize your room or make cool stuff for your walls like a collage or something. you could get ahead in your homework too if your teachers give you a syllabus.
I've been going out with my current boyfriend for a little less than a year now. He still loves me, but I don't think I feel the same way about him anymore. I've been thinking about this for a few weeks, and I came to the conclusion that I had to break up with him, but still try to be friends. That worked great in my mind as long as I didn't see him or talk to him. Now I need to figure out whether I should go through with the breakup.
Not only do I have to do that, but I need to figure out how to break up with him. I have never broken up with anyone before, and this is my boyfriend's first relationship. I really don't want to hurt him, but If I decided to go through with it, I'd like to be able to see other people (which I'm sure would be awkward no matter what)
Anyway, HELP!
this same thing happened to me over the summer. when you go out with someone for that long, its not gonna end good. you seem like you're kinda doubting if you should break up with him or not.. thats how i was too. like when you see him or talk to him it makes it harder to do. but if you really dont have feelings for him anymore then its not really fair for you to keep going out with him. you need to sit him down and talk to him about it. do it IN PERSON. i know its harder that way but it will make him feel like you care more. honestly, you probably will end up not being friends for awhile or it will at least be awkward to talk. eventually you might be able to become friends again though. xo good luck
i dont understand the instructions on this tip:
You put the end of the pen on the right corner of your mouth and hold it with your teeth.Then hold the other end of the pen with your right hand. But while doing it have no eye contact with him, and keep your head perked up. I have no idea why but guys think its sexy and it makes you look atractive. Go get em girls!
so basically chew on one end of the pen? is there a picture or video of this? haha
im pretty sure its saying just to put the end of the pen in the right corner of your mouth and bite it, but not chew on it. just keep it in your mouth. and keep your hand on the pen. i dont understand why guys would think thats sexy though? maybe because the girl would have something in their mouth? okay good luck...
Ok so my 2 friends and I went to this party. My one friend named Sam liked this guy a lot. he was cute and she kept on taking picturs of him. Things were going great. But Sam had to leave and so did I. The day after my other friend who was at the party named Chels went up to Sam and said that she danced with the guy. Sam got really mad and told me about it. Then Chels called me and said it was only one dance and someone told her to. I don't know who to believe because Sam sometimes makes things bigger than they really are. Then Chels said she didn'tknow Sam really liked him but it was obvious. I don't know if Chels wanted to make Sam jealous or if it just was a dance. Sam said she was going to spread a rumor saying Chels was pregnant. She is really mad. I called Tammy who was at the party to see what really happened. She said Chels didn't ask him to dance but they danced for 5 dances. Who do you think I should believe? How do I find out the real truth? Also how do I stop Sam from spreading rumors about Chels?
okay i would believe tammy because she had no idea what was going on with this problem, so she wont be biased one way or another. dances arent that big of a deal. but your friend chels was pretty bitchy to ask that guy to dance. if i were sam i would be pretty mad too. tell sam that getting back at chels isnt the right way to handle it. theyre fighting over a guy, and thats just stupid.
I want to improve my internet surfing skills.Could you tell me about some good web sites and how you found them?
dont listen to the person below me. wikipedia sucks, anyone can post information on it which means that it's not a reliable source. the teachers at my school don't allow the students to use it.
use google: google.com
use dogpile: dogpile.com
use yahoo: yahoo.com
use ask: ask.com
yeah that's pretty much all you need. i like google the best.
im going to be grounded in like a day and when i get grounded i dont have anything. i cant go outside i cant watch tv. i cant go on the computer i cant go on the phone and i cant have my cellphone. what are some things i could do besides cleaning that will burn up time for about a few weeks to a month????
oh that really sucks. um yeah well you could clean and organize your room, as you already said. maybe make some cool stuff to put in your room.. like some art project or something. you could read i guess. you could do homework. if your teachers are the kind that give you a syllabus you could get ahead in your homework. if you're a girl you could fool around with make up and try different looks and stuff to use when you're ungrounded. again, if you're a girl you could paint your nails or whatever. you can listen to music. you could make up your own song. umm you could go through your clothes and make up different outfits out of them so you have an easier time picking out what to wear. (like try on the different outfits, take pictures of yourself wearing them, and then put them into a book). um you could read magazines. yeah i cant really think of anything else. hope i helped :)
if i stick my finger in my vagina like maybe 2 inches.. it feels like this weird flap thing and like i dont really know how to explan it .. it kinda feels like a bump type thing.. it doesnt like hurt or anything i was just wondering if anybody might no what this is??
it's totally normal. that is like the entrance to your cervix. thats where the sperm go if youre like gonna get pregnant. like thats how they get into your uterus. dont worry about it.
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So first of all I'm a sixteen year old junior. I have my tight group of friends, 7 other girls, who I'm practically always with. I am pretty well known around my school, not for anything bad, I just am involved in a lot around my school. I have no problem meeting or talking to people, I'm not socially awkward. The problem is that recently my friends have ALL been in relationships. We all have jobs and sports, so schedules conflict. But when they dont, they all hang out with their boyfriends. Its not that they've never been in relationships before, but now they are all in relationships at the same time. I'm extremely alone. I've never been in a relationship, never been kissed. I have been asked to dances, which leads no where except the boy grinding on me, which is not enjoyable. I've been told that I'm extremely attractive, really funny and fun to be around. I'm blonde, medium height and skinny. My eyes are blue/green, they change color, and I dress cute/fashionable without putting my whole body out there. I am really athletic too. I dont portray myself as desperate cause I'm actually somewhat confident. I get crushes and normally the guy ends up liking me too. Then he meets my friends and he starts dating one of them. Three of my friends boyfriends are guys I liked who I introduced them too. I would like to know, what i should do. I cant see my friends anymore and I can't get a guy to like me. My life has basically become work, school, studying, and ice hockey. I'm not satisfied. Please help.
sorry but thats pretty bitchy of your BEST FRIENDS to go out with guys that you like! i mean seriously.. thats a total no no. and THREE of them. you should totally confront them about that! tell your friends you feel left out and you want to hang out with them too. suggest a girls night out or something with just the girls and no boyfriends.
hi i am a 16 year old girl looking for help to stop cutting myself. the reason i cut myself is b/c im fat,ugley,and i have a broken hart. i need advice on what to do...?
okay well its good that you can admit you have a problem. you need to stop cutting yourself though. it will just make you feel worse. you need to take action. try to forget about the boy that broke your heart. i know how broken hearts feel, but they heal. sometimes it just takes time, like a few months or so. try to stop thinking about him. cut him out of your life. hes not important and hes not worth you harming yourself. if you feel like you are fat try to eat healthier and exercise more. if you had a boyfriend in the first place im pretty sure you are not ugly. :) good luck!
ok so this guy recently asked me out. I said i wanted to wait a while. But the thing is, my best friend doesnt think i should date him. But i do really want a boyfriend. (my best friend is a boy and im a girl just for you to know) Hes best friends with this kid and he says he only goes after the "hot" ones. Should i follow my heart and go out with him anyway?
Or listen to my best friend?
Im leaning more towards listening to my best freind. Where will this bring me?
did you ever think that your best friend may like you? maybe thats why he doesnt want to you to go out with his friend. its definetly a possibility. the best guy friend always falls for his best girl friend. and your best friend is obviously giving you a compliment by saying his friend only goes after the 'hot' ones because hes calling you hot then. i think you should just listen to your best friend. you dont want to lose him as a friend. you can just tell the other guy you dont want a boyfriend right now. dont have a boyfriend just to have one. trust me, its more fun not having a boyfriend. i had a boyfriend ALL last year and after i broke up with him i had so much more fun. you can flirt with whoever you want and stuff. its great. unless you really really really like this guy that asked you out..then i would just say no. good luck girlll
Im best friends with this BOY, but my mom and dad dont know. He always wants to hang out, but everything that has to do with a boy my parents think theres like some kind of bf gf relationship. But honestly, were just two freinds who wanna hang out, best friends. Our moms are good friends too, so i dont think there should be a problem. Were planning on hanging out tomorrow after basketball. How do i tell my parents who havent known about this?
Should i make the moms talk?
HELP
its really not a big deal. just tell your parents that you dont like him like that. i hang out with just guys all the time. its not a big deal. i wouldnt make your moms talk. just tell your parents youre gonna go hang out with him. your moms are good friends so they should be fine with it. its perfectly normal for a girl and a boy to be best friends.
whats it like to makeout?
how do you do it really?
how do you get over being nervous?
okay well its pretty amazing. if its with the right person. most people like it. unless the other person is really bad. you just go with the flow. you kiss them and then you use your tounge. i know you probably feel like you have no idea what to do but its really not that hard. you'll get it once you do it. type into google 'how to make out' that might be helpful. i dont think its possible to get over being nervous. i've made out plenty of times and i still get a little nervous when i do it. its part of the thrill. just dont worry about it and have lots and lots of fun. good luck!
i returned some clothes at Christmas at a store, and really i wanted the money but when the cute guy at the place asked me if i wanted store credit/ put it on a gift card i said yeah. and im going to the mall tomarrow, do you think that if i ask for the money on the card they'll give it to me?
thankss.
no you cant. you should have just asked for the money in the first place.
What does "popped the cherry" and "cunt" and "bumblef*ck" mean?
thankss
popping the cherry= breaking the hymen. usually a sign of losing your virginity.
cunt= a bad word for vagina
bumblefuck= a stupid person
next time try urbandictionary.com
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i hate the winter. but i love the summer.
and i want to go to a college located somewhere were its as hott as it can get in the winter (in the us).
like, california, florida, etc.
got any more places?
& some GOOD colleges located somewhere hot.?
yeah i feel the same exact way.
try pepperdine
the campus is amazing =]
look at the website
Ok, here's the thing. At school I never be myself because honestly, I act really crazy at home and I'm afraid people are going to think I'm weird. What if they start judging me, or they don't like me? Should I just forget what they think and start being myself? And if I do, what if they start laughing at me?
i feel the same way. except i feel like theres not really a way to forget what they think and start being yourself. just make sure you are being yourself around your friends. that is the most important thing. i feel like as soon as i get comfortable with someone i can be myself around them. good luck :) they wont laugh at you.
im almost 16 and have NO boobs at all. it is pathetic and i prob have the smallest boobs of any girl in my grade maybe my whole school. i havnt had a boyfriend in like forever and i know boys are probably turned off by it. do you think guys wont wanna be with me cause of my no boobs? plus is there any way to make your boobs bigger. lol
im guessing that yes, that is the reason why you havent had a boyfriend in awhile. unfortunately, a lot of guys are really shallow and they go for girls with big boobs/butts. you cant really make your boobs bigger but if you gain weight they naturally get a little bigger. i would only suggest that though if you are like REALLY SUPER skinny because then maybe thats why you have no boobs. im sure they arent done growing. you might just be a late developer. just show guys your personality and hopefully they will like you for that. you could also try push-up bras. good luck :)
my bf is not that great of a kisser. hes ok and good with his hands and stuff but when it comes to kissing not so much. he loves frenching but im less into it so sometimes we makeout instead cause i like that better but even not frenching we slobbers! every time we are done kissing i wipe my mouth and it doesnt bother me but it just makes me not want to because i dont find it fun like with other guys. i luckily have kissed guys who were very good at kissing before him so what should i do??? cause its not that fun having him slobber all over me when we are kissing lol thanx!! :]
haha okay well i had this same exact problem with my last boyfriend. i know this sounds awkward.. but talk to him about it. he will get a little embarrassed but if he really likes you he will be willing to correct whatever you feel he is doing wrong. just give him some tips and i promise you will see an improvement :)