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Im the single friend, alone and surrounded by relationships.
So first of all I'm a sixteen year old junior. I have my tight group of friends, 7 other girls, who I'm practically always with. I am pretty well known around my school, not for anything bad, I just am involved in a lot around my school. I have no problem meeting or talking to people, I'm not socially awkward. The problem is that recently my friends have ALL been in relationships. We all have jobs and sports, so schedules conflict. But when they dont, they all hang out with their boyfriends. Its not that they've never been in relationships before, but now they are all in relationships at the same time. I'm extremely alone. I've never been in a relationship, never been kissed. I have been asked to dances, which leads no where except the boy grinding on me, which is not enjoyable. I've been told that I'm extremely attractive, really funny and fun to be around. I'm blonde, medium height and skinny. My eyes are blue/green, they change color, and I dress cute/fashionable without putting my whole body out there. I am really athletic too. I dont portray myself as desperate cause I'm actually somewhat confident. I get crushes and normally the guy ends up liking me too. Then he meets my friends and he starts dating one of them. Three of my friends boyfriends are guys I liked who I introduced them too. I would like to know, what i should do. I cant see my friends anymore and I can't get a guy to like me. My life has basically become work, school, studying, and ice hockey. I'm not satisfied. Please help.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
sorry but thats pretty bitchy of your BEST FRIENDS to go out with guys that you like! i mean seriously.. thats a total no no. and THREE of them. you should totally confront them about that! tell your friends you feel left out and you want to hang out with them too. suggest a girls night out or something with just the girls and no boyfriends.
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if you want flirting tips:
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-and just make eye contact, count to three, then look away.
-look them up and down then do a cute smile, like you approve or think hes hot
-when you walk by, turn your head to him to show he really turns heads
-another good way to get a guys attention is to get closer to him, if he's at a table don't sit at the other end or across from him, plant yourself in the seat right next to him, scoot closer even. if hes standing just stand a bit closer to him while you talk than you would normally.
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if you want to spend more times with your girlfriends, visit them on their lunch break, or organize a sleepover, i know it might seem young-ish but it works. hope i helped!
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