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friends and a guy
Ok so my 2 friends and I went to this party. My one friend named Sam liked this guy a lot. he was cute and she kept on taking picturs of him. Things were going great. But Sam had to leave and so did I. The day after my other friend who was at the party named Chels went up to Sam and said that she danced with the guy. Sam got really mad and told me about it. Then Chels called me and said it was only one dance and someone told her to. I don't know who to believe because Sam sometimes makes things bigger than they really are. Then Chels said she didn'tknow Sam really liked him but it was obvious. I don't know if Chels wanted to make Sam jealous or if it just was a dance. Sam said she was going to spread a rumor saying Chels was pregnant. She is really mad. I called Tammy who was at the party to see what really happened. She said Chels didn't ask him to dance but they danced for 5 dances. Who do you think I should believe? How do I find out the real truth? Also how do I stop Sam from spreading rumors about Chels?
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okay i would believe tammy because she had no idea what was going on with this problem, so she wont be biased one way or another. dances arent that big of a deal. but your friend chels was pretty bitchy to ask that guy to dance. if i were sam i would be pretty mad too. tell sam that getting back at chels isnt the right way to handle it. theyre fighting over a guy, and thats just stupid.
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You ask Sam a simple question "Is this REALLY worth fighting about?"
That guy has no commitment to either of them, so why does this really matter? I know she thinks it matters oodles and gobs, but in reality it doesn't.
Inform her that spreading such rumors is called personal slander. She doesn't want to involve herself in such behavior, nor stoop to such low levels. Especially over something so petty.
Maybe they need to talk to each other about this. Why should you have to be the go-between? Why should you have to be the one to sort out their problem?
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