Question Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 10:57 pm
ok so this guy recently asked me out. I said i wanted to wait a while. But the thing is, my best friend doesnt think i should date him. But i do really want a boyfriend. (my best friend is a boy and im a girl just for you to know) Hes best friends with this kid and he says he only goes after the "hot" ones. Should i follow my heart and go out with him anyway?
Or listen to my best friend?
Im leaning more towards listening to my best freind. Where will this bring me?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? XoXoXoXo77 answered Sunday February 10 2008, 3:08 am: did you ever think that your best friend may like you? maybe thats why he doesnt want to you to go out with his friend. its definetly a possibility. the best guy friend always falls for his best girl friend. and your best friend is obviously giving you a compliment by saying his friend only goes after the 'hot' ones because hes calling you hot then. i think you should just listen to your best friend. you dont want to lose him as a friend. you can just tell the other guy you dont want a boyfriend right now. dont have a boyfriend just to have one. trust me, its more fun not having a boyfriend. i had a boyfriend ALL last year and after i broke up with him i had so much more fun. you can flirt with whoever you want and stuff. its great. unless you really really really like this guy that asked you out..then i would just say no. good luck girlll [ XoXoXoXo77's advice column | Ask XoXoXoXo77 A Question ]
queenhearts answered Sunday February 10 2008, 2:50 am: Your best friend is just looking out for you. He's probably worried
I say talk to your best friend and ask him why you shouldn't date the guy. Good reasons though like how he treats a person or his flaws. If he cheats, whatever. Or ask him who the guy has dated before then ask that girl and see what's the deal with him. [ queenhearts's advice column | Ask queenhearts A Question ]
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