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personality/looks
First and foremost, may I say that I am not trying to be conceited. However, it is apparent that almost EVERY guy I know looks at me, sees I'm sexy, assumes I'm easy, and thinks he can get in my pants. This has become a real problem for me. I feel as though no one sees me for me. Nobody sees past what I look like. I don't want to stop being sexy, not that I even try. I think I have a great personality- I'm fun, I'm chill. I will NOT downplay my looks in any way. To me, that doesn't solve the problem. How can I get guys to see me for me?
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When you talk to them, try to take the attention away from your body and on your smarts or movies, get them thinking and talking as well. They should start seeing you for real once they get to know you a little more. hope i helped!
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Firstly not all lads are like that maybe you just havent bumped into the right bunch..When you meet new people give off the impression that you want to get to know them and if they respond in the same way you know your getting somewhere. If not then they are not worth it. You do not need to change your looks your right you shouldnt have to change for anybody but if you think it is making people act differently towards you let them know how you feel, give hints that you are NOT easy and make it CLEAR. Good Luck Hope This Helped =] x
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be TOO urself, do things that you wouldnt normaly do infront of guys. be yourself. tell the guys how you really feel and see how they react to that.
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ASK ONE OF THE GUYS TO HANGOUT.
go do something that you enjoy to do. if they see what you like they might forget about the whole look thing.
EXAGERTAE HOW YOU FEEL.
maybe then they'll get the hint that it's not all about looks, but whats on the inside.
good luck!
hope this helped!
-Brooke :D
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