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Okay there is this boy, of course. He has been my friend for a while now but lately he is really flirty with me and stuff and everyone sees it so i think he might have feelings for me. I'm kinda staring to ger feelings forhim to, but then today i find out that my friend likes him. She doesnt know i know and she doesnt know that i might have feelings for him. I really wanna take it further but i dont wanna hurt my friends feelings since now i know that she has liked him for a while. what should i do? (link)
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well I think since you like him and he likes you then your friend should understand that she cant have him since he likes you.I also think you should tell her that you like him and see if shes really your friend and if she'll understand
hope i helped :)
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my face is so ugly. i have bad skin even though i've been using proactiv for almost 3 yrs, (i'm 18) i have laugh lines, my cheeks are fat. any tips on how to make my face prettier? i get so jealous whenever i see ppl on tv like kristin cavalleri (link)
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first of all do you think all these girls on tv are how they really look in real life, half of these girls look really bad underneath all that makeup. so dont go comparing yourself to all those girl because trust me with a little makeup and some photoshopin you'll look way better. and dont ever call yourself ugly because no one is REALLY ugly. some people just take better care for themselves. i bet you with a little make up you'll look beautiful.
and let me tell you something else personality reflects on looks. so if you dont love yourself no one will love you. you gotta be confident to look beautiful. smile more often and see what a change you'll have!
and btw laugh lines are concidered beautiful to some people.
beauty is different in alotta of peoples eyes. some guys like tall while some may like short. so if your're ugly to someone you make be the most beautiful to someone else. dont ever think youre ugly because you're not
were all beautiful in our special ways ok :)
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lately, i haven't felt very sexy. I used to have the biggest sex drive, but lately, I don't get excited like I used to. Whats wrong with me? (link)
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babe the reason you probably feel this way is because your probably depressed about something.
maybe when you take your mind of some of your problems you may feel more exited.
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Last night I fingered myself.. tryin to orgasm.. i could only get tha tingly feelin down therr.. i'm gonna be home alone in a lil bit.. and i really want to orgasm.. i want to have tha feelin..and i was also at my freinds house earlier and we werr evedroppin on her sis.. and he sis had tha dog lick her pussy.. it looked like it wuld feel good.. but its kinda gross.. and i dunno wanna hear shit get a man.. i juss broke up from a long term.. and am still upset.. i dunno wanna move on yet.. but i'm horney now.. any advice! plz drop 1 then!!!
thx,
elly! (link)
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okay first of all im goin 2 comment on the dog lickin thing , that is GROSS ! and very unclean!
so id stick to playing with myself if i were you.
now if you wanna orgasm and get that feeling try playin with your clit. its the sensitive thing between your pussy lips. it feels really good and it gets you an orgasm faster. your should try that i promise you an orgasm, it never fails :)
hope i helped!
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I am 14 and my boyfriend is 17 me and my boyfriend kind of had sex but nothing happend just like his thing didnt go in my thing like we just kissed with are clothes off..And now I asked him if he wants to have sex and he says No he doesnt want to hurt me. Me But I really dont understand we kind of did it before and I really really love him and he loves me and all What do yall think about it (link)
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maybe he really doesnt wanna hurt you some guys feel like when they take away a girls virginity theyre doin something wrong and dont wanna hurt her. I also think youre too young to have sex. its good to wait for the right time. and if you ever end up doin it. use a condom because you might not know if hes clean or not.
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How do you get out of an abusive relationship when you have no money, no close friends and nowhere to go? (link)
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try to find someone else who would treat you better and when you do break it off with the one that abuses you. im sure you can find someone who wouldnt hurt you that way.
i hope you find someone
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how do i tell a girl who i lost feelings for that i want to break up with her when she is still crazy for me? (link)
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i think you should tell her the truth. tell her any guy would be lucky to have her but you just dont feel the same way she does bout you. tell her she deserves someone who loves her the same way she loves you. hope i helped
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What dose it mean, what will i feel and what is an orgasium? i realy need to know. (link)
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masturbating is when a guy OR a girl pleasure themselves by touching their private areas.
and orgasm is when you reach the pleasure climax.
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Okay so my friend asked me to go to wisconsin with her and her family this weekend and here i am all pumped up for it. I ask my mom and her answer is " NO." . Yup, thats all she says. NO. No reason to back it up. Which ticks me off might i add. She doesnt let me go anywhere. No concert,mall, or six flags. IM A FREEKIN TEENAGER FOR GODS SAKE. I am old enough to know not to go in strangers cars. I am old enough to know not to take "candy " from people i dont know. I AM OLD ENOUGH! She gets on my nerves. I have no clue what to do.
Oh, and shes those kind of moms who likes to IGNORE YOU while your talking which obviously donts help! UGHHHHHH. I NEED ADVICE. PLEASE!
thanks ill appreciate it.
depressed Deana. (link)
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i know exactly how you feel but shes a mom and you gotta know that the reason she does that is because she cares.
just tell her how you feel about how she treats you and when she doesnt listen, tell her about it, tell her you never take your time to listen to me. make her feel a little guilty.
prove to her you are resposible, help her around the house, do her chores etc.
hope i helped
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why do guys like girl on girl so much. i mean i kinda get it. but i was just looking for an explanation. hopefully from a guy. thanx! (link)
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well im guessing its because the thought of one girl turns them on so 2 girls 2gether doubles it i guess... u get me?
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im getting so scared to go away to school. how do people do it?! i hate being home but going away scares me so much. im going 5 hours away n i am so excited sometimes but other times im scared to death. how can i handle it? any help wud be soooo much appreciated! i dont know who to talk to about this..
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oh i know exactly how you feel you'll feel like this at first but when you get to college you'll see how different it is than high school. trust me i felt the same way. if you wanna talk more dont hesitate 2 mail me hope i helped
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First and foremost, may I say that I am not trying to be conceited. However, it is apparent that almost EVERY guy I know looks at me, sees I'm sexy, assumes I'm easy, and thinks he can get in my pants. This has become a real problem for me. I feel as though no one sees me for me. Nobody sees past what I look like. I don't want to stop being sexy, not that I even try. I think I have a great personality- I'm fun, I'm chill. I will NOT downplay my looks in any way. To me, that doesn't solve the problem. How can I get guys to see me for me? (link)
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be TOO urself, do things that you wouldnt normaly do infront of guys. be yourself. tell the guys how you really feel and see how they react to that.
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okay. you know how for pictures and videos...there are things like tinypic, photobucket and imageshack? well...is there such a thing for your own mp3s/sounds? I have googled this for like days...I can't find anything. Or, whatever I find doesn't work :| suggestions?
I didn't know what topic to post this under (link)
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if you mean downloading free music, you should try multiply.com
its like myspace and facebook exept you can download songs from other peoples sites..
you just go 2 search and write the name of the song. hope i helped...
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when i have sex it doesn't feel good, like my boyfriend and i have been together almost 6 months and decided to do it. but when he asks if i like it or it feels good i lie because i don't want him to think it's his fault.
is there somthing wrong with me?
what should i do about it?
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well the reason could be because ur nervous i mean the first time for me didnt feel good at all but when u start losening up it may start 2 feel better for u
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Hey ima 13/f and i these dreams at night ware ima lezbian and dont get me wrong or judge me okay. But i dont think its just my dreams i think its accualy getting to me i think im a lezbian and like for some odd reason i have the erdge to touch other women and i have tolled my friends well kind cuz im afraid that if i tell them that they wont wanna hang out with me anymore but please help me
Love,
think ima you know....:( (link)
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girl you're only 13 so you cant be very sure at this age...lemme tell ya sumthin there is nothing rong with finding girls attractive and maybe the reason your feeling this way is because u saw something related to your dream the day before but doesnt nessesarily mean your a lesbian. and if you ending up being sure your a lesbian dont worry bout it because its very normal im bisexual and its absolutly normal all my friends know it and understand and love me the way i am if your friends didnt understand it they are not real friends trust me.
hope i helped
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okay, for about a month or two now, i've lost alot of weight for some reason. i don't know why, because i've been eating way more than normal. also, i've been more tired than i am usually & i get tired easier when i'm exercising or something like that. i've had head aches alot of & on the past month too. & for about two weeks, i've been getting these random bruises on my arms & legs, but mainly just my arms. i haven't even done anything to cause them, so i don't have a clue what the heck they're from. any idea what this could be? (link)
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i know you really dont wanna know this but this maybe something very serious and am sorry am not one of those people that tell you it could be nothing because it sounds like something is really wrong please check a doctor i know its scary and i know u may not wanna tell your family bout it but if you dont go now it may get harder to cure. the earlier you go the easier it will be to cure.
even tho there is a possibility that it may not be serious, there are alot of reasons why u may be losing weight, mayb cause of stress. i dunno :s but 2 me it sounds very serious so go to the doctor as soon as possible,
good luck
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all right,
i have a stomache buldge,
and really thats the only major thing i hate about my body.
i'm in a fitness p.e class,
i lift weights, i run,
i've in a dancing class thign with my school,
where we dance downtown and stuff.
I do sit ups,
I do push ups,
I try to eat healthy,
I need help?
I dont know what to do to get a flat tummy,
honestly what really works.
I want to atleast be thinner by next year.
I want motivation,
not people saying its not possible.
Please give me advice on what to do,
because I really feel like I've been tryig but nothign is helping me lose the buldge. (link)
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hey i know im not gonna help but i have the exact same problem i have a perfect body but the bulge is ALWAYS there. i dunno maybe its heridatry :S i know i didnt help but i just wanted u to know theres someone who feels EXACTLY like u do
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ok im 13/f and i dont want you to think that im a freak but lately i have been having these really weird dreams and they are about girls making out and having sex.
last night was the seconds time that this has happned. i dont like girls. i like guys. what is wrong with me? (link)
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dont worry girl its normal i have these dreams too. and your just in a critical age so your really not sure abut your sexuality yest bt its no problem i wouldnt worry about it much so you take care :) rate my advice :) luv ya
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I've been thinking about it a lot... and i've been dating this guy for over a month now and he's always saying, "we'll figure it out or 'we'll' do this and 'we'll' do that" Does the fact that he includes "we" mean that he wants to take it to the next level or at least sees us as a couple?? When I told him that this other guy was bothering me to go out with him he said that I should tell that other guy that I'm seeing someone... does that mean that "we're" a something since he's being kind of showing ownership of me? erghh why are guys so confusing X_X (link)
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yea it means ur a couple. thats how guys think...
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I'm going on a date tomorrow and I would like to impress my date. Nothing big like prom but something cute? my hair is a mess and I dont know how to tame it :P my hair is layered and kinda thick. It's shoulder lengthed hair. Maybe a bit shorter than that. I also have short bangs. I'm not sure what to do.
I can't curl it right, because it has these KINKS in them. Unless you can give me tips to help me.
I have a curler & hair straightener. Lots of hair products too. Gel, spray, straightening gel & curl amplifier
Pictures would be good.
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try straightning it, and make ur bangs straight, light makeup, a little lipgloss, a it of eyeliner...dont make it look like you tried too hard...goodluck
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