Question Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 11:53 pm
I've been thinking about it a lot... and i've been dating this guy for over a month now and he's always saying, "we'll figure it out or 'we'll' do this and 'we'll' do that" Does the fact that he includes "we" mean that he wants to take it to the next level or at least sees us as a couple?? When I told him that this other guy was bothering me to go out with him he said that I should tell that other guy that I'm seeing someone... does that mean that "we're" a something since he's being kind of showing ownership of me? erghh why are guys so confusing X_X
Maybe he is slipping into the 'couple' mode, or maybe he is just possesive and wishes to have ownsership over you without allowing you to have any say in his life.
We is just a pronoun, like they or she. How else is he going to say "We will go to a movie".
"You and I will go to the movie."
"I am taking you to a movie."
Nah. 'We' is just the easiest pronoun to use. It's lazy language, so don't read into it so deep.
If you think he is starting to see you as a couple for whatever reason, talk to him about it. You will never find out his intentions or perceptions any other way. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
Imperialistic answered Thursday December 21 2006, 3:13 am: Yes, he considers you a "thing" and that means that he wants to exert some sort of power over you. This might not mean that you're a couple yet, but it's somewhere along the lines of it. [ Imperialistic's advice column | Ask Imperialistic A Question ]
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