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how can i tell whether or not my bf is using me, or if all the kissing & stuff is out of affection? weve been together 5 months, and the farthest its gone is like fingerin n stuff, and thats the most experience for either of his... but still.. i mean maybe im just afraid of being used? he doesnt pressure me into anything...
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Well, there are 2 possibilities:
1. He is.
2. It is all in your head.
I think I will just deal with the second one since there is no way for me to know what your boyfriend is thinking and because the second one is my specialty as far as advice goes.
Do you guys ever just hang out? I don't mean kissing, or stuff. I mean doing nothing but just giggling together and enjoying each other as friends? It is really amazing how much a night like that can cement a relationship. Share some interests. If he is a good pal, chances are you guys will get along better, and you won't be so worried about him using you.
Also, if he was really out to just use somebody, he could find someone sluttier and get her in the sack in under 5 months.
I hope it all works out. Tell him if he breaks your heart, anonymous advice giver will break his face.
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The truth is that there is no way to absolutly tell what your "BF" is thnking. Most of the time if you question his affection than it isnt true.
I dont know what else to tell you.
On the other hand though, there are times that girls just get a little confused and stressed. Stress can honestly make you start wondering what is happenin in yor life. I mean I say if you "love" him then try your best to make the relationship work. Every minute counts, every word makes a difference, and every kiss means the world. Always remember that.
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If you feel this,just make sure it only goes as far as you want it to go.If he is he wont like it,if he isnt using you then he will be ok with "no"
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