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I think im a lezbian!!!
Hey ima 13/f and i these dreams at night ware ima lezbian and dont get me wrong or judge me okay. But i dont think its just my dreams i think its accualy getting to me i think im a lezbian and like for some odd reason i have the erdge to touch other women and i have tolled my friends well kind cuz im afraid that if i tell them that they wont wanna hang out with me anymore but please help me
Love,
think ima you know....:(
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I've lived a long time and i once had a friend who was lezbian well two and i would advise you to not be a lezbian because that was first not how we as people were intended to be. god gave us vagina's and dicks for a reason. i would resist these urges and confide in not all your friends but just one friend who you trust the most and who has and will always be there and tell them your dilemma and ask them for help.
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there's nothing wrong with being a lesbian. but just like everyone else said you're young. you probably don't even know what you want at the time. you can want to experiment with different things and are curious. nothing is wrong with that, we ALL pretty much go thru it. if your friends are true friends you should be able to tell them anything and telling them wont change anything. just see how things go. if you continue having these dreams, and want to touch girls for a long time then try it sometime if you can. see if you like it, and if you don't maybe your not. AH. i don't know sorry. good luck?
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girl you're only 13 so you cant be very sure at this age...lemme tell ya sumthin there is nothing rong with finding girls attractive and maybe the reason your feeling this way is because u saw something related to your dream the day before but doesnt nessesarily mean your a lesbian. and if you ending up being sure your a lesbian dont worry bout it because its very normal im bisexual and its absolutly normal all my friends know it and understand and love me the way i am if your friends didnt understand it they are not real friends trust me.
hope i helped
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Well, first, there's nothing wrong with being a lesbian. Even if you are, all it means is that you're attracted to women, you don't become a different person because of it.
But, here's something to think about. At your age and even up a few years, hormones are raging and we get strange dreams. We also get the urge to experiment. You're 13 years old, you don't have to label yourself right now.
Just go with the flow and sooner or later you'll know for sure.
And also, if your friends are actually FRIENDS, they won't stop talking to you over something like this.
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Sometimes girls have dreams about other females, its normal. Do you have feelings for other girls, would you want to be intimate with them {kissing}, are you attracted to them. You might just possibly be confused, since your so young, so dont jump to tell your friends so soon. If your friends dont support you in your decision if you are actually a le<b>s</b>ian, then they arent good friends. Here are some sites to help you out even more. Hope I helped! Happy spring!
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-Brina
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Try flirting with guys and see how you react to it. if you like doing it, then you are deffinatly not a lesbian. But afterwards try flirting with girls. Just figure out with one you like the best and go for the guys, or the girls. but if you like both of the then just go for both and say your bi.
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