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How do you get out of an abusive relationship when you have no money, no close friends and nowhere to go?
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wow, i feel like i'm talking to my own mother.
she was in the exact deal a month or two ago.
police. police. police.
they will put him in jail, and get out of the relationship.
there are shelters you could stay @ temporarily.
i know exactly how this goes, if you need anything else / more advice leave me one in the inbox.
my mom has been through the exact same thing, she's still going through the court & stuff for him.
-ntk<3
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the only solution since you got nowhere to go and no money...is to find a job..in ANY WAY,even if u have to work at a mcdonalds store man,do it.Save up money,keep it in a safe place...and when you do...get the heck away from your boyfreind!!but if you cant wait then youll have to report to the police and that way youll probably have to live in like a shelter or off the welfare...
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I know sometimes it's hard to get out of an abusive relationship, you try to make yourself believe things will get better, but they won't. I don't know how good your relationship with your family is, but they're still your family, no matter what. Go to them.
I applaude you for wanting to get out of the relationship. Because whether it's physical or verbal abuse it's the same every time. They hurt you, then they apologize and beg for forgiveness/make up excuses. They promise you they'll change and that it'll be the last time and that they love you, but they don't stop. It's the same cycle over and over again.
So even if you're not close to your family, go to them, they love you. Maybe go to the police, you may not want to turn them in, but do you want another person to go through the exact same thing you did?
::Jasmine::
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This may seem as an obvious sugestion but Do you not have any family members who could help AT ALL?
If you have NO ONE..not even family members I would call the police as soon as i got a chance, personally.
They WILL help you.after all... this man has committed an assult.
I'm sory to hear that this relationship is hard on you.
Please dont be afraid, once the police know about this, you'll be safe and he won't reach you.
alternatively, you could call the samaritans. they are there for anyone and EVERYONE.
Im not sure which area of thw world you originate from...but here are a few Samaritans numbers and sites:
UK: 08457 90 90 90 (UK) (www.samaritans.org)
USA : (603) 357-5505 (www.samaritansnh.org)
Republic of Ireland: 1850 60 90 90 ( the site is the same for the UK)
Im sure you're not stupid, however make sure HE isn't around when doing so...incase he assults you.
Make sure youre relaxed before you pick up the phone, and call when YOU feel ready.
I wish you the best of luck, and Sweetie stay away from men like this.
I hope life improves for yoou as soon as possible.
Alex
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You call the police. They will take care of it.
There are shelters for women in abusive relationships that they can go to when they have nowhere else.
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go out sometime with out this significant other and try to find someone new. call the police.
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try to find someone else who would treat you better and when you do break it off with the one that abuses you. im sure you can find someone who wouldnt hurt you that way.
i hope you find someone
hope i helped
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