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intercorse doesn't feel good.
when i have sex it doesn't feel good, like my boyfriend and i have been together almost 6 months and decided to do it. but when he asks if i like it or it feels good i lie because i don't want him to think it's his fault.
is there somthing wrong with me?
what should i do about it?
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Try rubbing your clit, or get him to.
Also maybe more 4-play before sex.
You know, fingering, hj, and bj.
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It's perfectly normal for some women to not like penetrative sex. A lot of women can only orgasm by rubbing or massaging their clitoris. It isn't his fault and it is okay for you to tell him that intercourse doesn't get you off. But tell him that you want him to get his jollies but he will have to give attention to your clitoris for you to get yours. Or, you can use a vibrator, your fingers or his fingers to caress you during sex so you can get off too. If this doesn't work and you still can't orgasm, even though you're aroused, you should see a doctor to make sure everything is okay.
Hope this helps!
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well the reason could be because ur nervous i mean the first time for me didnt feel good at all but when u start losening up it may start 2 feel better for u
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use alottttttttttttt of lubercation. condoms rub and they hurt real bad for me anyway. it could be that i don't kno wif it was your first time or not.. but if it was then it's going to hurt for another 2-7 times that you do it.. it's because your vagina isn't used to stretching that much but don't worry hun it'll get better.. just give it time.. and if it still hurts then i would go see a doctor something could be wrong and that's why it gets so irritated if you need anything else ask <3
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There's a not feel good because of pain and discomfort, and not feel good because of lack of lubrication or not feel good because of movements.
Which is it? Or is it a combination of those?
If you are very young, it could be partially an emotional not feel good. Sex is over rated and built up as an all time big thing and fantastic...and when you first begin experiencing sex it's like "that's it?" and "what's the big deal about sex?" attitude.
Inexperience.
I don't condone sex with teens, but you need to be adequately lubricated to have a smoother and easier action.
Tell him. Don't wait for him to ask and do not "fake it" because faking it only solidifies his thoughts that he's doing good and satisfying you too. How can he correct anything if he thinks there's nothing to correct?
Be candid and talk and experiment until it does feel good. Then it can only improve for the two of you mutually.
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