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molestation


Question Posted Wednesday May 16 2007, 3:03 am

my friends step brother is 25 and my friend is 13 ... he is 100 % philipino and my friend is half ... well he lives in the house with my friend and well ;awhile back like a few months ago she only told me a few things that happenedsuch as he was forcing her to touch his penis , and play around with him and other dirty stuff like that .
well her sister told my older sister that she got molested.
and i was wondering , does that me he put his penis inside of her , or did just playing with his penis also count as molestation ?
i wanna know
im scared for her
because my sister found out that she was molested and im not sure if i understood !


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Ashumms answered Friday May 18 2007, 7:12 pm:
Molestation is when someone forces someone else to touch his/her genitals or forces someone else to let them touch his/her genitals.

Rape is when the attacker forces his penis inside her vagina. It is also possible for a woman to rape a man if he is aroused, but it's not very common.

Hope this helps!

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www_google_com answered Thursday May 17 2007, 7:17 pm:
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If you can find the guy that did it on there, he's in deep shit.

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holahayley56 answered Wednesday May 16 2007, 9:05 pm:
Anything forced is molesting. you should tell a responsible adult, immediatly.

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geegollyHOLLY answered Wednesday May 16 2007, 12:31 pm:
Anything forced from a man or woman is considered molestation, though forced sex is obviously rape. So yes, that was considered molestation. Sorry to hear about that, it's really sad/scary.

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ammo answered Wednesday May 16 2007, 8:30 am:
Being molested can be everything your friend said that had happen to her. If he had gone as far as having sex with her then it would have been known as statutory rape (having sex with someone who is a minor and underage whether they gave permission for the at or not) and not molestation. Molestation basicaly is known as sexual abuse in any forms be it non-consensual, forced or psycological.

I feel bad for your friend for having togo through something so horrible and the fact he has not been caught so far (it happen to her sister and now it's happening to your friend as well so he's moved on from one sister onto the next) and it will more likely continue until he can be stopped.

If she wishes to do something about it I would strongly advise seeking professional help to deal with this as well as her getting help to deal with and with mental and physical trauma she may have suffered from the abuse. Contacting the police would be a very good start as they will be VERY helpful and will protect her from him, so she shouldn't be afraid of seeking out help. If she is not able to or is afraid to seek help you may be able to do so for her especially if you fear for your friends safety. She may get mad at you for trying to help but in the long run better to have your friend mad at you than to have your friend suffer more abuse at this sick guys hands. This is and has to be your decision though (as well as your friends) because as much as I would love to try help more than just writing here I am unable to. You won't be alone though since the police may back track on where he's been staying before and discover it's not just happen with your friend and her sister.

You and/or your friend may alsofind this site very helpful so please do check it out. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)

Good luck and do let me know please how things go.

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