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Question Posted Sunday September 16 2007, 12:48 am

Hi, I'm 15/f. He's 18/m.

Basically, we both got it off our chests that we liked each other tonight. But that we were both second guessing our thoughts for each other, and that things were definitely complicated, his complications I don't know but I told him I liked him AND another person a little. So it's weird.

I think I do want to be in a relationship with him, but I don't know what he wants. Plus I'm scared because he tends to be a little stalkerish.

After we told each other the feelings were mutual, we went back to normal conversation.

What's the next move? What should I do?

Thanks in advance.


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geegollyHOLLY answered Tuesday September 18 2007, 10:29 am:
well, you should be careful about your actions if he can be a little stalkerish. Don't make any moves to make him think you don;t like him or that you're head over heels in love with him either. just take it easy and casual, be careful about your moves. if you have the slightest feelings for him, try and go for it, and if it's not to your liking, then forget it and focus on your other crush, because you don't want the the same thing that happened to katie happen to you. luv holly

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Brandi_S answered Sunday September 16 2007, 9:01 pm:
Well, if he tends to be a little "stalkerish" then that alone is a HUGE red flag.

Yah, you like the guy, but what happens if he starts stalking you? For someone to stalk another is not only creepy, but it is a big violation of personal space. It is also a crime.

Personally? That one thing would completely make up my mind.

ygs-29/f

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