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Ex best friend bringing drama with her.


Question Posted Monday December 31 2007, 10:58 pm

Ok, so for a while my friend has been really weird towards me. She likes a guy that used to like me, and she felt threatened or something. So she's been a bit bitchy towards me. This guy cannot stand me, we always fight.

So he obviously decided to have a bit of fun and screw up the friendship with this girl.

He told her I backstab her and all this crap (Please note, this guy lives on the other side of the country and he's some random on the internet) and she believed him. Heyy what happened to "Friends are forever boys are whatever" hey?

Anyway she decided to instantly believe him and not even ask my side and keeps sending me nasty emails and myspace comments. I'll delete and block her, it's too easy.

However we share mutual friends, so it may get a bit sticky.

But the question isn't how to react to that. The question is:

She obviously wants me out of her life. Yet she keeps bringing all this drama on =\ I just want her the HELL out of my life, how do I get her to just give up and move on, and date some stupid psycho guy that lives on the other side of the country.


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Rainbow answered Tuesday January 1 2008, 7:03 am:
Hi,
I believe that she shouldn't of dated this guy over the internet cuz it can be way dangerous and second of all just ignore her : dont reply to her nasty emails, dont reply to her comments keep in mind that if you do that for a few weeks she'll eventually give up
Act like she's not your friend because if you know she's doing all this to you she's obviously not your friend at all.
Try and forget about her and all what reminds you of her.

Hope I helped

xxooxx-Rainbow x

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lovelessknightsX0X0 answered Tuesday January 1 2008, 1:24 am:
Shes doing this to get a reaction out of you. If you dont react, then she will give up eventually. My ex-bff got mad at me over a guy and started talking shit about me just to get me mad at get other people mad at me. When i didnt react, neither did the people, and she eventually stopped and wanted to become friends with me. We are close now, and about this guy, dont worry, he will be out of her life soon enough. When she calms down tell her what the guy did. Hope i helped!

xoxo paige <3

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AngelofMercy answered Tuesday January 1 2008, 1:12 am:
The best suggestion I have for you is to ignore her and her antics. Eventually, she will give up and go away. If you act as if it doesn't bother you, she won't get that kick out of it. Good Luck!

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