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Trying To Help.
I can't help what I do..
I'm tired of people telling me there problems, and acting like I have none. I'm always in the middle of everything. I lovee my friends I cant live without them but thry expect me to be perfect, and always be on the side and I can't.
It's multiple cases, couple break up, a fight happens over the weekend, people aren't friends anymore and they tell me. I say oo that sucks and give my opinion and say where this might've gone wrong.. and they expect me to be on there side.
I refuse to chose sides. And they get mad at me..
Soo I think last week I snapped! Call it PMS, call it me being bitchy but I couldn't help but tweakk on everyone who came to me with problems.
So people (friends) that I know mean wellstart asking questions. Questions I can't answer. And I know there trying to help, but I don't need them getting into the middle and trying to fight my battles. There trying but they wont succeed. I'm a lost coase. beyound help.
I don't know whats wrong with me.. one day ill be soooooo happy, flashing smiles to everyone and its contagious.. Next day you dont want to be around me. I can't handle peoples voices and bitch about everything. Weird this is i know I do it. and i try to nipp it in the butt and stop it from happening.. but it does anyway.
I've tried starting the day before again. Mimiking some of the things I did the day before.. make fun of me or not im desperate, Im moody...
I have my own problems.
I can't be on every side, I can't have my own opinion without someone being like WHAT!...
I cant be me.
I dont blame the people around me..
Hmm. My brother got in a car accident. Walked out scotch free. Day after get's a DWI and I frove him outa the house. I knew he was drinking, I knew it wasn't safe but i went on and On... he blamed me for my Dads heartattack.
I knew he did tat because he was drunk but i could just walk away. No. I threw every little think about him I hated.
Like him calling me Katie-Kat... It was cute when I was 7. Now just annoying.. But yesturday I wouldn've cared, you know. One day nothing can dent me.. you can't tear me down from them cloud that comes and goes. The next day when I hit the ground Ill point it out adn how it annoys the hell outa me.
I know its not PMS. I KNOW>>>>
Stevens come to me about Olivia.
Olivias come to me about Steven
Ariele come to me about how Steven and Olvia are going out.
Cole came to me about liking Ariele.
im tired of the stupid drama.. I dont say that to there faces... but when im in this distructive mood.. I cant garentee i wont haul of and beat someone..
how am I going to explain there moods. Or what I say to people. ill think oo shouldvent said that in my head but my mouths flying..
GRR HELP
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Its what teenage life is all about its drama...but if you are really upset about this and need certain and about you drinking and the heart attack thing tell your parents or just try and relax the situation by ignoring it and pretend you cant hear them for about a week or two...then when you feel you've relaxed a bit start talking to them again and just tell them you cant take sides because your stuck in the middle and just tell them your all their friend and its impossible to take sides
As about the whole gossip thing dont get involved or just leave them to gossip because you cant take control of everyones life can you? Exactly! Its their problem
Hope I helped
Signed
Rainbow
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Just because people are asking for your opinion doesn't mean you have to share it. If you want to listen then continue to do that, but when they ask for your thoughts just say that you don't really know what to say but you hope things work out for the best. If you don't want to listen to their problems at all then say that from the beginning. Cut them off. Say I know you're having a rough time right now, but I really don't want to be in the middle and I hope things work out for you. Then change the subject. Good luck!
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what you should say to all of them is i know how you are felling i just dont care i have enough problems without having to deal with yours so please if you dont mind could we change the subject and if they cant accept that its their problem not you .peace and love the gaurdian
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Everyone needs advice and someone to vent to. Just say "You should definitely ask her/him" when someone asks you what someone else would think. And calm down. If they're really that annoying, don't be friends with them, and if you want to, them deal with it.
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