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what to do if your friend is all over your guy?


Question Posted Saturday September 30 2006, 1:07 am

So school is started again and theres this boy that im getting along with really well. we have soo much in common, come from similar backgrounds, like the same things..its intense. I told my friends i have a bit of a crush on him, so that theyd know hes off limits. I told my flirtiest friend too so shed back off, but shes going full throttle now. I told her i like him, and she said she does a bit too. theres this big dance comming up, formal wear, dinner, the whole nine yards. I said i might like to go with him, and she was like yeah, me too... I dont know what to do because i think if he had to choose...he might pick her..and i dont think i could handle this happening, because its always been my biggest fear even with other guys. what do i do?

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Wheeler answered Saturday September 30 2006, 11:45 am:
What a splendid friend. Why don't you just ask him if he'd go with you to the dinner in a class, or place where your 'friend' isn't? Try to make it sound as friends not like on a date so he won't get to nervous. Maybe he'll even ask you? Good luck!

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Peggys answered Saturday September 30 2006, 8:09 am:
Well obviously she is not that good a friend to is she? Normally I would say you shouldn't let a guy get in the way of a good friendship but she is out of bounds. My advice would be may the best woman win. Go get him. Tell her he's yours and to back off.
Hope this helps
Peggy

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MissBonne answered Saturday September 30 2006, 3:30 am:
What's that saying? You're putting the carriage before the horse? Has it even gotten to the point that he asked either of you out or is it just flirting for now. Guys don't pick up on subtle clues, you need to mention something along the lines that you like to get to know him better.

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