Question Posted Saturday September 30 2006, 12:51 am
my school has a secondary dance coming up on friday, and i don't know what to wear! i want to wear a skirt (not pants) if i can help it, but i don't know what i could wear for the top? maybe a dress??
also, i'm new to the school and i know there are guys that like me in my year. i'm scared that they are going to ask me to dance, and i have never EVER danced with a guy before, so how can i not panic about it?
:S
please someone help me!
thanks :D
crack_is_wack answered Sunday October 1 2006, 3:26 pm: It's good to keep your outfit casual and comfortable, but still a little different from what you would wear to school.
For your make-up, try dramatic eyes and natural lips. Lots of mascara!!! And bring a purse (this one is awesome: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)) and put in your mascara and lipstick/gloss for emergency touch-ups.
You could wear your hair in a high ponytail with sidebangs, or down and wavy. Dress it up with a headband if you want :)
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About the nervousness:
Don't worry, it's totally normal to be scared about dancing with guys. If a boy asks you and you want to dance with him, take a deep breath and ask yourself what's the worst that could happen. And remember, if you're feeling panicked, think of how scary it must have been for the guy to ask you. He might be jst as nervous as you are, if not more.
And if a guy wants to dance with you in a way that you aren't comfortable with, it's okay to tell him no and walk away.
MelLeDisko answered Saturday September 30 2006, 11:39 am: Well since you're going to wear a skirt, as do most girls do at the dances, just wear a cute tank top or a ( i call them beaters ) these things:
Haha, and then maybe you could wear also a cute jacket over it, too!
I wouldn't really want to wear a dress unless it's going to be a formal dance cause like I said, most girls just dress in a skirt and a t-shirt or cami top if it's just a regular kind of school dance.
As for the dancing, it's perfectly fine! Slow dancing is a piece of cake. All you have to do is just put your arms around his shoulders and then sway back and forth a little, haha. As for fast dancing, since kids now-a-days I wouldn't techincally call it dancing though, just sit there and shake their butt, basically. What I do mostly is just sort of stand there and sway back and forth to with the music, because most people at dances tend to start there and talk anyways, even while they're dancing, so I don't go all over the place dancing, haha.
rache answered Saturday September 30 2006, 7:11 am: well when i go out on satuardays and people who i dnt like ask me to dance i panic....just follow then move till u feel calm again then try to act natual...i hope that helps and you will look kool whateva you wear [ rache's advice column | Ask rache A Question ]
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