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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long! (link)
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It deffinately sounds like he crossed a line. You're gonna have to sit him down and explain that if he wants to jeep a relationship with you he can't post both of your personal lives or experiences. I know you won't want to lose him so just make sure you're calm and make sure he knows you love him but if he keeps doing this it hurts you too much to stay with him. Does he know you've been crying? If that's not bothering him then he has issues that need fixed. I hope I helped, goodluck!!
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Do guys care if a girl's bra matches her panties?
Mine rarely do and my friend recently informed me that matching them is as important as matching regular clothes. Is that true? D: (link)
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The only time it would even matter a little bit is if you're gonna show them off (meaning if you're with a guy). But even then it's not that big of a deal they just prefer that but it's not like he'll turn you down if they don't. :)
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He really was perfect for me. But I had just got out of a relationship and I wasn't ready. So I messed everything up. Anyway, we broke about two months ago. And we had dated for a bout two months. (He dumped me, of course) But he said he stll wanted to hang out and be friends and stuff. and he said maybe we can try again later. but i said no (even though i didn't mean it) and at one point he told me he still loved me. but we never hung out or anything, and eventually we just stopped talking. Then a few weeks ago he said Hi (through a text) to me but i didn't answer because everytime he talked to me, i would always jump up and be there for him, so i wanted to make him try a little harder.. so he said it again two days later and i didn't answer. now it's been about three or four weeks and he hasnt said anything. I dont know what to do. Hes not the type of guy that wants the girl to be all upfront and say 'omg i want you back im tired of these games' stuff. That just pushes him away. Its not like he was my only boyfriend, ive had a few, but he's just different.. i really want him =/ i wish i wouldnt have taken him for granted =/ (link)
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so why didnt you answer the second text?! you should have answered that one because since you said no when he asked you out agian, he thought you were just not intersted in him anymore and hes not going to try and talk to you if he thinks you wont even answer. i know i wouldnt either. the good thing is he texted you twice meaning he really does want to talk to you and he wasnt just bored one day looking thru his contacts.
why dont you text him with a simple "hey" then if he doesnt answer wait a few days and try it agian bc now he might do the same thing you did. if you still get no answer the second time you text him then let it be. theres no harm in trying but you have to put in a little effort otherwise hes gonna think you arent into him anymore and that doesnt sound like what you want. please take my advice bc i know what your going thru! and dont let him slip thru your fingers. talk to him before its too late!! good luck! hope this helps!
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18/f
This could also be under "love life" but I value my friendship with him even more, so that's why I chose that category!
I did something terrible! My best friend in the world, who's the most honest person I know, and has liked me for approximately 6 months, deserves someone so much better in his life. I've had a crush on him on and off (and yes, we have kissed) but I never started dating him because I'm a stupid manipulative girl who just likes to flirt with other guys too much for her own good.
Not only have I toyed with this amazing boy, hurt his feelings, and pretended to be someone I'm not.. I have now also lied to him.
I guess I just wanted his attention because I told him that I lost my virginity and that it was a terrible experience, I even ended up fake crying in his arms (this is a big deal because I know it hurts him, upsets him, and makes him think so much less of me). But wait -- it gets worse. I told him that the reason I did it was because this other girl he liked for a while told me stories about things he said to her (which is true, but it happened several months ago and I claimed that it happened just a few days ago).
Then I tried to come clean and tell him I made it all up but he doesnt believe me! Because I was crying so hard, and shaking, and the story seemed so genuine he just will not believe that I lied.
At the end of the conversation he said "Stop pretending it didnt happen! THAT would make me stop talking to you. I would never forgive you.. it's so messed up."
What do I do? I don't want this great friendship to be ruined by a lie, but I know I have to tell him the truth because it will come out. There's going to be so much heartbreak.. WHAT DO I DO?
I know it's all my fault, I know I deserve it, I know after this story many of you would want me to suffer, but please.. please force out any ounce of sympathy you have for the situation and help me. He's the only guy who's ever cared about me like this.. I think I love him (as a friend or more, I'm not sure.. but that's besides the point).
Please you guys, please.. I need you to tell me what to do because I just don't trust myself anymore. (link)
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print this out and give it to him. i dont neccessarily disagree with the person who first gave you advice but i do think that if you ever want your relationship to grow with him that he needs to know the truth. wont you just regret it if he never knows? this lie is a big one to just let drop. your desicion but it sounds like you want him to know with all your heart. and honestly i think it sounds like you like him more than just your best friend.
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okay i know this may sound kinda stupid but,
what exactly does PDA mean?
thanks in advance :) (link)
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it means Public Display of Affection. the guy who used wikepedia probably doesnt know that that site is put up by any and every one. not approved by anything to make sure whats up is correct. but it probably does mean that too but more commonly public display of affection. he is refering to the pda for like a job or something.
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15/f. okay first off im a teenager so body image is something that really matters to me. everybody tells me how skinny i am and it always make me mad. and i guess since im not like everyone else guys dont like me cause if it either. im like 5'4 or '3 and i way like 96 lbs. well are there any ways i can like gain weight? or like any stores or style i could wear to kind of fill out my shape. i wear like to wear tight pants and stuff but it hard to find the right pair, i wear like a 0 or 00 long. oh and everyone make fun of my long legs :/ so yeah . well any store for like smaller people, or any tips i would be really greatful for. thankss (link)
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alright girl...im 15 too...weigh 96 pounds and am like 5'4, i couldnt believe i was the one reading it and not typing it!! but i learned the hard way that you cant gain weight...sorry...but think of how small you are and why you have remained it! because of your matabolism...i know you dont wanna hear it but its the truth, take it from me! the only thing is i dont know if you eat as much as i do (this is after i tried to gain and it didnt work). i eat a lot because im hungry, not because i wanna gain weight anymore. find a friend or 2 that will have your back when someone makes that remark...i have my friends that will, and i also have friends that thought i was annorexic and spread a rumor, but thats the past, they didnt mean to spread it. only advice i got: tell the people who tell you your too small or annorexic to fuck off...works like a charm...yes i know i kinda cus but hey it works...
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i shaved my legs for the first time yesterday using venus breeze. is that a good thing to use? i hear some people can get bumps and all that stuff. i was taking a shower then just shaved off the hair.. im black, and my mom says the razors affect black people differently than whites so im hoping nothing bad happens to my legs... and is it weird to shave your arms? like can i use the venus breeze erazor to shave my arms and armpits? and will it look weird? cause its kinda embarassing that i'm a girl with the hair on my arm.. its darker than my skin and sticks out to anyone who's near enough to me to see. so help? (link)
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The Venus Breeze is a really good razor to use. And its perfectly fine to use on your armpitts...
most people will get some ingrown hair...don't worry about it!
I highly recomend using a shaving cream. I like the Skintimint gel. It keeps your skin feeling soft. And HELPS to protect aginst getting cuts and razor burn.
Don't shave everyday...that gives you a higher chance of razor burn, and cuts even if you use shaving cream. Shave when its a little longer than a BIT prickley.
I just thought I would tell you that when you shave your arms it will start to grow back darker and even MORE noticable. Ask a beauty stylist about what you can do about the appearance of the hair on your arms...I know they have creams that make it less noticable but you still have your hair on your arms. When My friend shaved her arms no one noticed at first but then even after it was shaved and not prickley you could see little tiny dot like things on her arms where the hair roots were and where the hair was going to come in after it was shaved. Plus....When people touch your arms they'll feel the prickles and it would feel like a buzzed head, like when you touch a guys after it was buzzed. ( if you know what i mean ) i really don't think you should shave your arms...
I had a friend that did that and now her hair looks worse...a lot of people thought it was weird that she did that.
hope i helped!
milly203
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What are some good colors of make up to wear at the beach/pool?
I have medium brown hair with a hint of blonde. And my eyes are blue, gray, green.
Any makeup ideas are greatly appriciated. (link)
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Here is a site that tells you exactly what will match your skin tone and eye color.
As for your eye color changing just put the one it is the most...thats what i had to do....
here's the site:::
http://www.covergirl.com/tips/showTip.jsp?tipId=141&categoryId=101
http://www.covergirl.com/tips/showTip.jsp?tipId=150&categoryId=102
http://www.covergirl.com/search/sitesearchresult.jsp;jsessionid=DJHOSEQNVEIQHQFIAJ2OVEQ?
the site I got all this from (obviously) is www.covergirl.com
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Yeah so I'm like the only one in my grade who thinks Corbin Bleu is hott and stuff. I'm in 8th grade. Everyone thinks he's a fag, and yeah I'll admit he does kinda act gay but I'm still in love with him. Do you guys think he's hott/gay? I wanna see if I'm like the only one my age who's obsessed with him! Haha. (link)
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I'm older...but i still think he's cute.
but I'm not obbsesed over him either...I don't have posters but I wouldn't say he's ugly.
And I REALLY don't think he is gay.
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does it hurt getting your nose pierced? does it make your nose appear bigger or smaller? around how much does it cost? thanks im just wonderingg =] (link)
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It won't make you nose look smaller or bigger. I don't know how much it costs but I don't think it cost $60 if you're in the U.S. at least. But It probably won't be cheap.
Most people when they get it done don't like the big loop. If you're a girl I would think it would be a turn off to most guys...depending on the type...I would just go with a little stud. Those are cute!!
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Ok I usually tweeze my eyebrows and at one time I was waxing them every 2 weeks and it seemed like the hair didnt grow as fast, but I hate having to pay 5 dollars to get it done each time. I have my own waxing kit but doesnt work as good. I have also heard about threading, what is that? And what is the best thing to do? (link)
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NK-QzPLgUTo
That is what they do to your eyebrows. I think it would be good. You should go with babycakes advice.
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ok so basically umm i started smoking and well i just wanted to know cause i wanna be healthy and live for quite a long time and be able to play with my kids when i have kids and grand kids and possibly even great grand kids so if i smoke not even that often just every once in a while will that be able to happen at least be able to run around and play with my grand kids and i know smoking is addictive but i mean yeah (link)
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Ok...
so if you smoke now every now and then it will turn into all the time. And when it does you will be shortening your life span because it basically kills your lungs. QUIT WHILE YOU CAN!!!!!! My Aunt has been doing this since she was 12 and didn't do it all the time but it turned into an all the time thing. You should see her now. She's about 45 and you can tell its really catching up with her. She has to take so many pills.
(she's tried to stop but can't she's been doing it too long)
She has to get her 2 front teeth filled and cleaned all the time because thats where she holds her cigerette and it has worn them soooo much.
My Grandpa died of lung cancer when I was 5 I don't remember him well. My younger sister was 2 when he died she doesn't remember him at all.
If you want to be able to see you grandchildren or great grandchildren you NEED to stop. You should quit anyway. It will be really hard to quit but you need to!!! (plus think of how much money you will save if you quit...it adds up!)
http://www.helptoquitsmoking.net/How_Much_Money_Do_You_Save_.html
http://www.quitsmokinghelp.net/smokers_lungs.html
http://www.cancer.org/docroot/PED/content/PED_10_13X_Guide_for_Quitting_Smoking.asp
PLEASE QUIT SMOKING!!!!!
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I got fitted at Nordstroms today (bras on sale!) and I found out I am a 30DD (but they didn't have any there in that size) or a 32D (but it doesn't fit as well as the 30DD). I got 2 32D's, but I'm trying to find more.
Now we all know it's impossible to find 30's. Especially 30DD's. And its also impossible to find 32's bigger than B's. (I wear 32C's now and I only have 3 bras because theyre so hard to find).
I only went to Nordstrom because of the sale... but where can I look to find bras for my odd size that aren't insanely expensive (I am willing to pay a little more if I can find my size)?
I'm desperate! (link)
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Actually, JC Penny's has DD bra's. And like the person below me said you might need to order them online.
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13/f. so i know the fashion for most girls, is kinda tight jeans around the thighs and then lose ins done on the knee down. well im really skinny, i wanted to know if any stores sold pants like custom made, or for skinnier girls, because i want to wear my pants like that. the only way is if i wear very very shot capri's which end up looking like tight shorts. please help me.
-a skinny teen (link)
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Wet seal goes to a double zero. I'm small too and have to go there. Delias does too but for me they weren't as tight. If you do go there then try on the "Sophie" jeans the "Baily" weren't tight (at least for me)
-milly203
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my grandma said she would buy we a comforter for chrismas adn i want one that is black white and red. but not like idk how to say it i want it somewhat girly looking.. not so much as depressing i dont mean it in a bad way but you catch my drift. if anyone could show me a picture of two they found that would be GREAT :) (link)
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http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/ref=br_1_3/601-8211662-1176967?ie=UTF8&frombrowse=1&asin=B000CRB500
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I really like that one.
http://www.sears.com/sr/javasr/subcat.do?BV_UseBVCookie=Yes&keyword=&sbf=&sbv=&sbt=&fromSearch=&compare=&Filter=&prodCount=&poid_0=&poid_1=&poid_2=&poid_3=&poid_4=&poid_5=&poid_6=&poid_7=&poid_8=&poid_9=&poid_10=&poid_11=&gridindicator=true&page=&sortOption=&viewItems=80&vertical=HSWR&cat=Bedding&subcat=Bed+in+a+Bag&subcategoryid=-1073994620&catID=&pageNum=&displayTarget=Subcategory&beginValue=&endValue=
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you can look at all these and see if they go with you color skeem
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hi im a 14 girl
well my ex and i broke up about 3 weeks ago and when he broke up with me he promised me that we would still be best friends no matter what happened. well he started going out with another chick 2 days after we broke up. and he wont talk to me like he said we would. and well i told him that he changed and i wanted to know why he got someone new that quick and that it made me feel like i never even matter to him at all and that i still like him. and i told him this the other day but it ended bad. he basically told me he hated me and didnt want anything to do with me. so what i want to know is do i try to be his friend again or just let it go even if it hurts ?
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If i were you I'd leave him alone. I mean you have to face it...he got another girl right after he broke up with you. Let him be. Its going to be hard but you need to. If you do still want to talk to him then you should just say hi to him at school or anywhere you see him no more than that. And he probably won't say it back but at least its letting him know that YOU still want to be friends even if he doesn't. And you never know...he could come to his senses later! (but don't get your hopes up)
Also... a lot of times guys break up with girls by saying we can just be friends hang out like we used to and everything. But they hardly ever will, normally they blow you off, afraid they might have that connection agian and want to date you agian.
I hope I helped!!!!!! just ask me if you have more questions!!
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Hi Milly,
I'm glad to hear you know Jesus. Early teens is a tough age. Your body, mind, and spirit go through many changes, but making wise choices is the key.
Mr. skittles is a hard-hearted, prideful, angry individual who desperately needs Jesus.
Let me explain a few things. God is what's called "the first response". He always was, is and will be.
The Bible says in Genesis 1:1 "In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth."
When God created the heavens and the earth, He created time. Before that, there was no time there was only eternity. Once God created the earth, He created people in His image.
Gen 1:26 says...Then God said, "Let us make man in our image, after our likeness."
Did you notice it said OUR image and OUR likeness? We are body, soul, and spirit. God is body (Jesus), soul (which is what we would call the heart of someone...emotions, mind and strength and the soul reflects our Heavenly Father) and then our spirit, (which is like the Holy Spirit). So God made Adam and Eve in His image perfect just like Him. But God also gave Adam and Eve a free will. I'll stop there for a minute and talk about angels and satan.
Angels were created by God, but they are not created in God's image. However, they have a free will. Satan was the angel named Lucifer; the angel in charge of music. He was noted as the most beautiful angel of them all. Lucifer CHOSE to be filled with pride and decided he wanted to be God. God cast Lucifer down and also a third of the angels when they CHOSE to rise up with him.
So God makes the earth and and everything in it. Adam and Eve are perfect. God says they can eat of every tree except the tree of The Knowledge of Good and Evil (Gen. 2:17). Why did God say that? Because He always gives us a choice.
So back to God created...You probably know the story...Satan tempts Eve. She and Adam sin. God has them leave the garden. If not, you can read it in the first few chapters of Genesis.
The bible says, Gen 3:24 "He drove out the man, and at the east of the garden of Eden he placed the cherubim and a flaming sword that turned every way to guard the way to the tree of life."
Why did God place the cherubim around the tree of life? To protect its purity from the sinful man and woman. The tree of Life in that passage is showing us the cross (Tree) and Jesus (Life).
The heart of God can not look on sin because He is holy. So He sent His Son Jesus to cover our sin with the sacrifice of His blood. The blood of Jesus now covers those who believe.
Mr. Skittles admits he does not believe, so he belongs to Satan. Mr. Skittles words are filled with hateful pride against God just like his father the devil. Satan holds people in bondage to their sin. Only a repentant heart can break that bondage. I pray Mr. Skittles heart turns from the evil that binds him before it's to late.
Your doubts are thoughts planted in your mind by Satan, but because you have the blood of Jesus covering you, he can't do anything without God's permission. God allows temptation and uses it to grow us up in the faith. The temptation itself isn't sin, it's what you do with it that determines whether it's sin or not. You are seeking truth and that is VERY good. Don't give in to Mr. Skittle's ranting. It's a ploy from Satan to lure you away from your relationship with God. Satan knows he has lost you to Jesus, so the only thing he can do is try and get you to make bad choices.
The bible says, in James 4:7 to resist the devil and he will flee. Satan cringes and absolutely hates God's Word. We reading it (especially out loud) is like stabbing Satan with a knife. He will flee because Greater is He who is in you! Yeah! (1 John 4:4)
I'm around if you have anymore questions. (link)
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Thank you, and I will DEFFENATLY ask you if I have any more questions. You really know what you are talking about. Although, "Satan was the angel named Lucifer; the angel in charge of music. " This sounds fake to me, but I know it shouldn't. ??
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hey ! im a girl that's 14 ! well the thing is i really really like my older cousin's friend ! and i have liked him for the longest time ! but the thing is i'm going to be a freshmen and he's going to be a junior ! i finally told my cousin about it and he said that his friend has said that im really cute ! and i think my cousin told him the other night ! cuz we kinda flirt with each other when he is over ! well my question is should i go ask him to do something ? like one on one ? (link)
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Heck yes!! deffinatly ask him. The worst thing you could get is a no. You should deff. make that first move. It could show him your not afraid to make a move.
If your a little too nervous, talk to your cousin about it and have you cousin same something about you that would involve you 2 goin out on a date or that could bring it up.
But I really think you should ask him out...in what I've read he sounds like he might like you so in order for him to really get to know you, you guys should do something 1 on 1. You could say something like that when/if you ask him out!
GOOD LUCK :OD try not to get too nervous!
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Okay, so here's my problem:
I have a friend, and she copies everything I do. I know she's doing this because all of a sudden, she's into EVERYTHING I'm into...and she never used to like everything I liked. Now she's like a mini-me and it's annoying. She even tries to friend all the friends I have on my myspace, and she doesn't even know them! Also, sometimes I think she's trying to outdo me. If I go out and get a CD or something, she'll go out and get the same one plus another one I wanted the next day. I've tried confronting her about this, but all I get as a response is "whatever" or "that's not true!". I'm really fed up with this. I'm afraid to end our friendship though, because she doesn't have many friends anyway. What should I do?
14/f (link)
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The reason why she is doing this is because she doesn't have many friends and you do. So her solution to this is to copy you to get friends since you have many. You need to tell her that if she's going to denie that she copie's you then you may not be able to be good friends anymore. Tell her also that she really is copying you, you notice, (she may not know she's doing it either)
She doesn't want to lose you as a friend but she may if she keeps this up (tell her that if possible)
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For the last few days, I've been having a hard time going to sleep. It takes me at least 1-2 hours to finally rest my mind. The cause is I have a restless mind. I think about too much such as School, Burglury and My schedule for tomorrow.
What can I do to get my mind off all these ideas so I can be able to sleep.
P.S. If I can avoid it, please don't say pills!
Age: 14/F
-Thanks! (link)
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I had that problem too.
Try counting backwards from 100 (100 99 98 97...)
Then when that gets too easy count back from 100 by two's (100 98 96 94 92...)
If that gets too easy count back from 100 by three's and so on...
another thing would be to count back from 99 by two's so it's odd numbers which takes more effort so it would also help
While you count back close your eyes...be sure that when your mind wonders from counting back you keep your eyes closed and get back on focus counting back.
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