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Heya People my names Katie but my mates mainly call me Kate,♥ i live in England in a town called Wolverhampton which is near Birmingham. ♥ I support Chelsea and my fav player is Frank Lampard. ♥ Im 14 i know you might be thinking im not asking a teenager for advice but i have bein through alot of things in my life and i love helping people and have got alot of advice to give.♥ Feel free to ask me anything i dont bite!♥ I love music i woudnt stay its my life because i like to live life to the max i will do anything for a dare and im always laughing when im around my mates, ♥ even if its something random i dont care =). But yeah i coudnt live without music ♥ like any other teenage girl i love boys! ♥ Unless your like a lesbian or something, which i dont have a problem with my older cousin is Gay and hes one of the best people to be around ♥ I love Frank Lampard he plays amazing football and hes gorgeous ♥ I guess people say im a "Tom Boy" Because i love Football and dont really dress in "girlie" clothes all the time ♥ Im not a "chav" i dont go around causing fights, and i dont have a grudge against emo's ♥ Even though i have had a few fights at school in my time but..who cares =)

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how do i know if he's with me 4 sex or not

Im guessing your boyfriend is pushing you to have sex...Seeing as hes your boyfriend i think you should be HONEST with him, tell him you want to take things slow and if he has any RESPECT for you at all he will agree. But if he doesnt then im sorry but its got to be said YES he might be using you for sex, and hes not worth it, sure you can do better! But DON'T let him push you into things you DON'T want to do!

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ok so i have this boyfriend. weve been together for almost 11 months. My dad is in the navy so we will be moving soon. We've been getting into a lot of fights latley, like we never did before but they have just been coming one after the other. The most recent one is about this other girl that he let her wear his sweatshirt (this girl talks meanie stuff about me btw) even after one of my good friends told him not to and that i'd get mad. he didnt even tell me and when i mentioned it he got mad. So im wondering why is he getting mad like this?

Maybe your boyfriend is feeling hurt because he really likes you, and the thought of loosing you is horrible (because your moving away), i guess he is getting mad because he THOUGHT you felt the same, and he might think you would do anything to stop going...thats probz why hes being so snappy with you lately. The girl whos flirting with him probz knows your moving away and thinks she will flirt as much as she can with your boyfriend and when you go he will be all hers. Im sorry if you're hurt by this but i only think its the truth...

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Okay I like this guy and we've been going out and like he really really likes me too and my parents dont like him for some reason and i dont want to break up with him and my friends dont want me to go out with him anymore and want me to break up with him to but I rele dont want to what should I do ? and this one person said if i love him stay with him but the thing is tht my parents caught me alone with him and they dont want me neer him and i want to spend some time with him on my b-day wich is tomorow and i have no clue wht to do ! please help me ..... thank you

xoxo vanessa

Hey vanessa it seems you have a common problem, my parents don't like my boyfriend either and the reason for that is because hes older than me. I just ignore my parents its my life, ask your parents why they have a grudge against your boyfriend and tell them that you really like him and he really likes you to so they should be happy for you seeing as they are your parents and SHOULD want you to be happy...i think you should tell your friends the same, maybe they are JEALOUS of you having a boyfriend that actully likes you? I think that you should go ahead and INVITE your boyfriend to your party. Because at the end of the day its YOUR party and you can invite who you want, DON'T let your friends INTERFERE its your party! Hope i helped

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Okay let me start out by saying that im 13 and the middle child in my family. Well, my mom and me used to get along all the time..like she used to be my best friend and ever since i turned 13 everything my sister (7) does..gets blamed on me. When my sister once called 911 to see what would happen when i was in the shower, the police came to my house when i was babysitting her, and i got blamed for "not watching her." When duh she should know better not to do it. i hate getting blamed for everything. what can i do to help the relationship between me and my mom..and not get blamed for everything?

I guess its hard being the middle child in your family... How about you and your Mom go on day trips together i duno erm how about the cinemas or huge shopping spries? Just so you and your mom and have some quality time together without no annoying brother or sisters! Good Luck

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Whats the name of the song that goes

She wore an itsy bitsy tiny weny yellow pokla dot bikini that she wore for the first time today

Also who sings it??

Brian Hyland sings it haha i love this song!

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I want to see a scary with my friend (both 14/f) I'll probably rent, because most movies that are out right now i've seen (the only one i can think of is Lady In the Water)

Two Questions
**Are there any other scary/horror movies playing right now
**If not, what are some good ones that you can rent?

The most scary movies i have saw are the ring 1 & 2 and the grudge is scary i guess and Final Destination 3 its not that scary but i love it =)
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well i found out that this guy likes me and ive liked him for ages but he never knew that. well anyway weve been txtin each other and chatting a lot and he know that im interested b/c i told him i liked him when he sais he liked me. well this was like a month ago and nothing happened. he hasn't asked me out or anything. we were going to meet up to go to the cinema but he sed he couldnt go at the last minute b/c he was grounded. so is he interested or not? i just feel like hes messing me around and i really dont want that but i dont want to give up on him if he is just shy (which i hear he is) so is there hope or not?
please help

Don't get turned of by him, you hear hes shy so probz he is, maybe he is shy because he hasnt liked any girl like you before and is scared of messing everything up and loosing you forever??
Text him or Phone him or something and tell him that he doesnt have to be shy around you, and that you like him anyway and nothing can possibly change that, tell him to just be his self! Good Luck =)

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WELL my friend is way over weight...and she wears a 2 peice, and she looks really sick in it. She's really just embarassing herself by wearing it. How do i tell her this!? Or should i just let her embarass herself?...Help..its really sick!!

I know that2 deep down your friend knows shes "obese", but she doesnt want to admit it, she obviously has a high self consions about herself and you woudn't want to spoil that. Its good that your looking out for your friend but if you think shes embaressing herself then tell her, but in the nicest possible manner e.g i dont really think thats your colour or even better take her to a shop and find something you think is her size and say ooh id totally wear this,or wow it really brings out your eyes. And your friend will agree and hopefully buy it. Don't make your friend upset, she might not want to think of her self as a obese person which helps her self asteam. Good Luck

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if you took a pregnancy test and it came out positve can you still have your period every month or does it mean you lost the baby

For one thing a pregnancy test CAN'T go wrong it always gives a POSITIVE answer...
My friend was telling me about her auntie who still had her periods when she was pregnant, she said the doctor said that the reason for this was because the baby was light in her womb. I don't know if it was the truth or not but it does sound like it can happen.

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is it safe 2 masturbate???i mean can you get any thing like aids or something like that from doing it???i masturbate maby once a month and i just want 2 make sure its safe!!

Masturbating is safe and you can do it how many times you wish. But incase you want to put something up your hole to masturbate with make sure its CLEAN so you won't get infection. And no you can't get aids.

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Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years and at the beginning of the month, he broke up with me, and he said we needed a break. We were broken up for two weeks and then FINALLY we started to go back out. Now, yesterday, he told me that maybe our break wasn't long enough. He told me that we just needed to be friends for a least a month and that he loves me, but I'm not sure he does. How can he keep hurting me like this and still love me? A month is a long break, I just don't know what to do. But, Please help me out.

To years is a long time to be with someone. I guess you and you boyfriend are in love because of the amount of time you have bein together. But sometimes people need a break from each other. He obviously loves you because he hasnt said "ooh your dumped", and hes let you down gently and its not like your not going to get back together is it? Don't be harsh on yourself he probz just wants to spend mroe time with his friends.
Having a break from a reletionship can be a good thing because then you will both realise how much you do love each other and how much you want to be together, don't worry its normal and dont be harsh on yourself, he probs just needs more space.

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Alriiight SO. Theres this guy I reallyyy like and hes like totally sexy. Weve gone out before, and I dumped him for another guy. I totally regret it because the guy I dumped him for I also broke up with. I want to go back to the first guy and I think he is a little mad at me. I dont remember his number because I never put it in my phone, and he hasn't gotten online in forever. I dont know what to do. I really miss talking to him, so if he gets on what should I say to make him forgive me? I have said like I love you again and I broke up with the guy I dumped him for but we dont seem satisfied. I really want him back! What should I doooo? Thanks in advance! lol

Go and see the boy you want to get back with in person, so then he knows your being serious. Tell him straight that you miss him and that the boy you dumped he for turned out to be a complete jerk and it made you think how good of a boyfriend he was and how much you like him. That usely works for guys. Good Luck!

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i have this cousin who is 15 and im 13 and he is so hot and he has been checking me out and i was wondering (we are blood related) what would happen if we made out or worse.

If you want to get in a reletionship with your cousin then go for it, it may help your reletionship seeing as your so close! All the people that are saying dont't have sex your baby will be like a retard and all of this are chatting COMPLETE BOLLOCKS!
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13 Female.
School starts in 10 day's, and I want to come back with a splash. I'm getting braces tomorrow (finally) my hair's grown and taken an adorable shape, and my boob's have gone from being a 34B to a 36C. I've done alot of shopping and my face has cleared up.

Now I want that personality to go with it. You know, friendly, outgoing, confident, cute, and flirty. I'm sick of being too loud, or too obnoxious. How do I tone myself done, to be the calmer, cooler, collected girl I am? Thanks!

Heya i think every girl will dream to be like you, you seem more confident about yourself so i think you will have no problem in changing your personality to the way you want. Just make new friends and believe in yourself! Thats the best you can do, before you no it you will have boys lining up to date you.

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I've been having this horrible pain, about 5 inches to the right of my belly button. It'll come for about 30 seconds, then go away. But it`ll hurt so bad it forces me to sit down.
(its not period cramps, it hurts much worse, and its totally different, plus I had mine last week)

And now, I feel faint, really hott, and super dizzy. When I was at the movies I was nauses (sp?)
What could be wrong? Please help, I feel horrible!

Have you had sex? If you have u think you might be pregnant...
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I was goin to bed downstairs with my parents room being upstairs, when i finally was in bed i heard a scream, so i got up wondering what was wrong then i heard all these sex noises moans and such, i was freaked out, wouldn't you be? so i called my 19 year old sister and she came home to comfort me. I couldn't sleep even after they had stopped, it was stuck in my head.
The next morning i was discusted, but still decided to talk about them about it, all they said was "we are in love you should be happy that we are still together in so in love" i go "i'm not...it's discusting to me!" they just said "you should get over it" now i can't get the noises out of my mind and i keep picturing them doing it i know they are in love but i still think it is really discusting i mean blowjobs, kissing, naked! that is what is stuck...please help me to be relived of that!

I was in the same shoes as you once! If it makes u feel any better i'll tell you the story...i was about 8 (much younger than you are) my parents had a metal head board so it banged on the wall LOUDLY! I thought someone was breaking in down stairs, so i went in crying to my mom and dad, little did i no id see my mom bouncing on my dads penis Bad Mistake!! She told me they was "having a cuddle". I have a older brother whos 18 now, he was drunk in bed so nothing he could do, that image is still in my mind today, but atleast now i can tell my mates and laugh about it for hours! Trust me, i make sure im fast sleep before they go to bed in future! In the mean time try to relax yourself when you have thise noises in your mind, have a warm bath with a few candles. You will get over it in no time, jus like i did, and trust me one day you will look back and laugh about it =)
Hope i helped!

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Ok so this is kinda embarrssing but I fart allot. Its really bad.
Does anyone know what could help me?

Maybe your drinking to much fizzy pop and the gas is repeating on you. Or maybe you should eat and drink slower! Don't worry farting is nothing to be embarresed about. Its nature and even some boys think its cute =)

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k i got this friend we been friends since school. Then a found out she lied to me about tons of stuff. During summer break she calls me to tell me she was sorry. We are friends kinda. Do you think I made a mistake by taking her out.

Their is this saying, once a lier always a lier. But if you think your friend is truly sorry and she promises never to do it again, then i guess everyone desirved a second chance in life...

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why did i bleed having sex with my bf even though its not my 1st time?

There is lots of reasons for example, you could of closed up because you havent had sex in a long time, your hymen may not have popped the first time, your bf's penis might be bigger than the boys you had sex with before so your hymen has stretched.

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i took a ept pregnancy test and it came out positve could the test be wrong

Its very rare that a pregnancy test is wrong, but just in case take another test! Good Luck =)

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