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Hey I'm Melinda & I am 15 years old; october 15th. I am currently single but my heart is taken. I live in West Haven, & attend West Haven High, there I am a sophmore. I love my friends, there amazing, & they are always there for me when I am at my lowest & i love them for it. I love shopping; Hollister, American Eagle & a&f. I love summer & vacations, & taking pictures with your friends is the best. I love Laguna Beach & the Hills; me & my friends can bassicaly have a conversation about it like we live there. I love being a dork with my friends. I'm always laughing & smiling, I always try everything at least one time. you only live once. I love The Notebook, its my favorite movie, & I also love Zoolander, I know almost all the lines to that movie! I listen to all kinds of music; rap,rock,techno, & country. ♥




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ok does it hurt gettin your belly button pierced? ive heard some ppl say it does & some say it doesnt.. im kinda average when it comes to pain tolerance & ive had my ears pierced 6 times one of which i did myself but does it hurt like reallyyy bad ? and when you change the ring tha 1st time is it hard to do or does that hurt? & will they instruct you on how to? thx so much!

nope, i have my belly button periced, and its quick & easy.. it feels like a pinch, & its simple to change the rings & it doesnt hurt, & the person who peirces it will tell you everything on how to clean it, when to change it and all that.
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I am getting an MRI scan soon for my head (jaw). Would I have to take out a belly button barbel? It's some type of surgical metal I don't quite remember what type. Is there anyway I can keep it in? I have had the piercing for a couple of months but I still have a month to go before I can take it out or change it and I really don't want to mess with it.

Thanks!!

well, i had MRIs before, & you have to take out any metal, so yeah you would have to take it out.
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there's this guy i liked since the fourth semester and i decided to tell him how i feel. problem is, i dunno what to say to him exactly..any suggestions????? 13/f

tell him from your heart, that might sound stupid just say what you like about him, guys love confidence in a girl.. some suggest are..
first get him alone... font have friends around..

be lyk i think im starting to lyk you a lot

or tell a friend that you lyk him

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so ive been dating a guy for a couple months and he just recently said something really mean to my friend while she was working causing her to run of work bawling. i dont want a guy that talks shit to my friends. is it wrong to break up with him for it? please answer..

i would suggest talking to him first, be like thats my friends & i care about them.. & if your going to talk to them like that then i dont know if we can see each other, but first here what he has to say, if hes an ass about it totally dump him; theres other BETTER guys out there; trust me
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does anyone no the code to hide myspace friends ?

yeah go here

http://www.mygen.co.uk/index.php?page=tutorials§ion=hidefriendscomments

& it tells you either to hide friends, or comments, or if you want both..
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Can you shave your legs using soap and will it give you razor burn?

yeah you can shave your legs with soap.. something really good & its cheaper & better then buying those shaving cream is mix the soap & your conditior.. it works very well.
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Me and my ex-boyfriend (first love) might try to try it again and see if it works this time. I still love and care about him. But there's another guy who I like and he likes me as well and wants to be with me. He hasn't caused me nearly as much pain as my ex (actually he hasn't caused me any) but I don't know who to choose or what to do? I love my ex even though it's been over a year since we broke up, but I also am starting to catch feelings for this new guy. Please help me . I will rate

well love is stronger then like.. but are you sure your ex has the same feelings as strongly as yours.. & if he hurt you a lot & this new guy hasnted then maybe try the new guy.. thats kind of a tuff situation.. but i would probaly end up with the new guy, maybe hes 10xs better.. & if your ex really likes you and if its true love then you guys might end up together in the future.
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Ok im a guy But I really like to dress up in girls clothes from the inside out. I am very submmisive and like girls to tell me what to do no matter how humiliating it might be. I am inside and out a Sissy!! If a girl orders me around i feel i have to comply with her orders.
After all she is the Boss.
My question is Why are some guys like this?
I feel i cant stop being a sissy and doing as im told

well.. im not sure if you can stop that, because it is YOU... & its your personatly.. & if your such a "sissy" then harden up a little.. & no one is the boss.. if you dont want to do something then dont because your, your own boss.. & talk to these girls & say how you feel.. & im not quite sure why some guys are like this.. hope i helped...
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Ok so I'm 16/f, and I feel really weird because most of my friends have done something, and I've barely even kissed.
Everyone I meet is always like 'how can you still be a virgin?' and it feels a bit uncomfortable.
The things is that I always hear older people say to keep it, that they regret doing it in the first place, but why? My friends dont seem to regret it. And almost no guy would go out with someone who's not sexually active. At least no guy I've come across thinks differently.
What should I do?

well i think the best thing is to wait, there are a lot of people that are virgins & not too expericed.. i acutally think its better, i mean would you rather have sex with someone you dont like to much.. or have sex with someone you love & care about & then the first time can be something very special, dont let you friends pressure you to do anything.. & if guys wont go out with you because you are a virgin then most likely they will only use you anyway for ass, there are sweet guys out there though that arnt like that & im sure you will find someone.
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To make this short.

I've had sex for the first time with my ex boyfriend even though he has a girlfriend...well i got sick of being the other woman so i told him that he either has to be wit me or her well of course he picked me but to my suprise the reason why he picked me was so we'll have sex and of course like a dummy i did it...well i thought we were together or going to work on it so the next day i waited for him to call me and he never did...it's been 3 weeks now and i've realize wat an asshole he is...i'm totally getting over him...i know hard to believe but it's true...but wat i'm wondering should i ask him why he or how could he do this to me or should i jus leave things the way they are? Thanks in advance!

wow he sounds like such a jerk.. & thats good that your getting over him.. well i would call him saying why he would do that & just tell him how you feel, but.. if you do call him and he says sorry and wants to hang out, dont.. because then you might get your feelings back for him & it would be harder, so i would just call him & be like why you would do that.
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ok well i like this guy who my friend went out with. she has had numerous boyfriends since they broke up like almost 2 years ago and i dont think she still has feelings for him. i dont want to ruin our friendship over a guy but i dont kno how to bring it up when talking to her. help!

okay well first talk to her be like so who do you like, & when she asks you be like i think i like someone, and tell her not to get mad & be like i think i like your ex, & are you mad & ask her is it okay if in the future if you and him do go out & if she dosent like it i really wouldnt push it because friends are more important then guys and the saying is true guys come & go but friends are forever hah.
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okay i got a camera phone for my birthday and i would lie to get the pictures from my phone to my computer. Is there a way that i can tranfer them from my cell phone to the computer without too much costs?? the cell phone is a Kyocera
thanks
katie

hmm.. i think the only way is, like your sending a text message but instead send it to your email.
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what does knock on wood mean?

its bassicaly like a superstition & if you say something you just go knock on wood..
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I am starting to hang out with new people, usually I would be outgoing with my firends, no matter who it is, but since my new friends are popular,I"m having trouble. How do I be more outgoing. These girls are very outgoing and if you're to shy you'll not be friends with them any longer!!! HELP!!!

the most important thing is be yourself, dont change how you act because your with people who you dont think will like you for who you are, in the long run they will screw you over. but just talk, act as if you known them for awhile or just act how you will if you were with your friends. im sure you have a great personatly!
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Hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my sister moved in with my 4 year old niece and my 2 year old nephew and now they are sleeping in my room since we only have a 2 bedroom house and now iam sleeping on the couch and they are sleeping in my room and I don't think that is fair and when I talked to my mom about it she said I was being selfish am I being selfish?I have no privacy whatsoever and I think as a teenager I need all the privacy I can get and I have none how can I get more privacy?
please help me.

that deff is not fair, i mean its your room not theres,& your sleeping on the couch, your right you doo need privacy as a teenager, just talk to whos sleeping in your room & say its bothering you... just say on how you feel hopefully they will understand & listen. goodluck!
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I wanna wear thongs but i'm like afraid what my mom would say. not really afraid but idunno how to ask her! because i remember one time she told me like she was christmas shopping with my grandma lol and they were buying me underwear? lol yeah nd my gramdma picked up a thong [by accident] and my mom was all freaking out like its a thong!!.. i mean i'm 14 i'm going into high school. but i dunno how she'd react if i told her. and i dont know how to tell her. soo do you have any ideas??? and like i was thinking about going to the mall with my friends and buying one without her knowing but that would be a problem because my best friends dont wear them and like i don't do the wash! l0l yeahh =\ so how should i bring it up??

my friend had the same problem, she bought the thongs w/o her mom knowing & she used to wash them in like the bath tub, haha.. but yeah i think you should tell her, just say its a piece of underwear, & its not that much of a big deal, say you wont wear it like some girls do & make them show.. but i wouldnt go buying them with your friends without your moms premission because eventually your mom will find out & lose trust & then she wouldnt want you having them at all, so i would just ask her.
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i heard laguna beach was going to come out with a new season in august is that true?

yeah, laguna beach is coming back, but this time with lc's little sister & her friends, it looks like a lot more drama & hot guys.. heh cant wait! :o)
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I'm 15 and female and my b/f is 20, but I'm fixing to turn 16. My mom likes my b/f but my dad doesn't. They are currently filing for custody of me even though i don't want to live with my dad. The thing is that I may have made a huge mistake. I engaged in sexual activities with my boyfriend with my consent because I love him. We have been dating for nearly two years. The thing is that my mom has just informed me that the only way the can take me away from her is if we have had sex. I don't know what to do. Please, I need advice badly.

omg the same thing happened to my friend * kinda * shes dating some with the age length too, expect the mom doesnt like her bf but i would just say dont tell your dad you done anything sexualy, i know its bad to lie, but if you dont want to live with him then i guess you have to.
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Sorry if this is in the wrong category... it seemed to be the best fit.

Anyway, for the past few days my left eye has been really itchy. I don't wear contacts or anything like that. It feels like there is an eye lash that fell into my eye... it's that exact same feeling, but there is nothing in it. The feeling is not there 24/7 either... it probably feels that way every 4 hours or so, and I can't stop rubbing it when it happens which makes it itch and bother me even more!

What's wrong, and how can I fix it? Any ideas? Thanks so much in advance! :)

well dont rub it.. if you have any eye drops put them in your eye & if you dont have drops then put a warm cloth on your eye & hold it there for a min or whenver it feels beter.
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hey guys well imma a well spoken person and well i hav a huge crush on this one guy ~n~ like well when i am around him i get really shy and i have butterflys in my stomache and when i am about to say something i have nothin to say....how do i stop bein shy around him?? and how can i make those butterflys stop holdin me back??
-penguin

well just dont think about it, try & be confident, & just talk to him like you would talk to one of your friends then sooner everything will be easier.
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