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i get really shy around a guy i really like??
hey guys well imma a well spoken person and well i hav a huge crush on this one guy ~n~ like well when i am around him i get really shy and i have butterflys in my stomache and when i am about to say something i have nothin to say....how do i stop bein shy around him?? and how can i make those butterflys stop holdin me back??
-penguin
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Take a deep breathe dear. Even though he seems so great and perfect remember: he still has flaws just like you! Enjoy the butterflies! They're fun while they last and shows that you like him! =] About having nothing to say ask him how his day was, share a funny story, talk about where you are or what you're doing! =] Don't worry he doesn't think you're dumb! He probably feels shy. Whenever you feel shy remember the other persons human too and has just as many flaws and awkward moments as you! No ones perfect and everyo one always feels weird so don't sweat it! =] Hope I helped!
Much love,
Amanda
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~Dear Penguin~
i hope this advice i give you will help. when i'm around my boyfriend i get really nervous and stuff andi start studdering and i get all these butterflies in my stomach to. I always think of him as a friend and that we're just trying to have a good time and get along and sooo i hope this helps cause it did for me.
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well just dont think about it, try & be confident, & just talk to him like you would talk to one of your friends then sooner everything will be easier.
♥ me
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Confidence is the key.
It's pretty normal to get butterflies in the stomach whenever the object of our attention is around.
But a little--no, make that just 'plain' Confidence can go a long, long way.
Try to act casual around him as if you have 'nothing special' for him. Try doing this for several days to 'condition' yourself. And when you have already mustered the courage AND the Confidence, start a little conversation with him.
Then make it longer on the next...
and the next....
and the next....
;)
Who knows? He might just have a 'thing' for you, too....;)
Hope I helped you a lil' bit!
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