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How to choose between the one i like n the one i love
Me and my ex-boyfriend (first love) might try to try it again and see if it works this time. I still love and care about him. But there's another guy who I like and he likes me as well and wants to be with me. He hasn't caused me nearly as much pain as my ex (actually he hasn't caused me any) but I don't know who to choose or what to do? I love my ex even though it's been over a year since we broke up, but I also am starting to catch feelings for this new guy. Please help me . I will rate
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yeh i kno its hard getting over your ex i was in teh same postion but you agve hima chance and it turned out bad now tehres nother guy give hima chance to he might turn out better trust me cuz once a guy dumps you he will do it again they think its a game but the guy that you liek u dont kno his bf materials so give him a shot ir ekon =]=]=]
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Hi, ask yourself these questions:
Who has the qualities that I want out of the man? e.g. humour, kindness
Which one of them really feels the same way as I do about them?
Which one do I feel I love the most?
Do I know what love and lust is? And if so, who do I feel the love for?
Don't confuse the love for lust thing. If you want an honest opinion I think you might as well have another crack with your ex. Who know's things might work out better the next time round. If you begin a relationship with the new guy, it gives you another chance to meet someone totally new. It works either way but you can't choose both of them. Who does your heart really go out for the most? Do you want to:
a) Have another crack at it with your ex?
b) Start all over again and meet someone different?
If you answered a) then you still want to have a shot at things with your ex. If you answered b) then you want a fresh new start with someone else. Answer them very carefully and it should help you to decide. Asking ourselves questions can give a more clearer understanding of what we want and can help us in some cases make the right choice. Work it all out, wether it's doing mindmaps or brainstorms. It helps alot. Daniel.
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I think you should go out with the guy that never hurt you before & give him a chance. My ex-boyfriend (( who was my first love, too )) & I went out twice but he always ended it even thought I still loved him & he broke my heart. We only went out for a few months but I decided to get over him because if he keeps hurting me, then what's the point of keep going out with him & being upset after every break-up. Then my boyfriend now came along & I learned to love him & I got over my ex. I know I love my boyfriend because he never hurts me & he's just good to me. I've been with him for over a year. If your ex hurt you before, then he'll more then likely hurt you again. You can always learn to love the new guy.
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Its not really about like and love. Choose the one that you think will give you the most respect and treat you the best. you can always learn to love the new guy and if the old guy loves you then chances are he will wait for you if you end up wanting him more. Just listen to your heart.
Good luck.
♥ Me
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choose the one that you think will respect you and treat you the best. if you think your ex-boyfriend is going to be a jerk to you then go with the other guy. but if you think you have stronger feelings for your ex-boyfriend, go with him.
follow your heart =)
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Always choose the nicest guy! While it's quite natural to have feelings for an ex, it's not a good idea to act on those feelings. If you broke up for a good reason, that should be a good enough reason to stay apart. If you get back together it will be okay for a while, but it hardly ever stays that way.
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I would go for the ex-boyfriend. You know that you love him && you know what he is like. You should go with your ex-boyfriend because you love him. The other guy likes you but you dont know if he will stick around for as long as you would like him to. Your ex-boyfriend is willing to try the relationship over again.
Never leave the one you love for the one you like. Because the one you like will leave you for the one they love.
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well, you're first love is always going to be your first love. you'll never feel the same about anyone else because he was the first one to give you the feelings you felt. my suggestion is that you get to know this new guy a little. just talk to him and see if he has true possibilites for you. but, you're always going to feel stronger feelings for the first boy! so, get to know the other one and if you think your first is better, which you most likely will. i say, go for it!
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well love is stronger then like.. but are you sure your ex has the same feelings as strongly as yours.. & if he hurt you a lot & this new guy hasnted then maybe try the new guy.. thats kind of a tuff situation.. but i would probaly end up with the new guy, maybe hes 10xs better.. & if your ex really likes you and if its true love then you guys might end up together in the future.
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THis is a tough chocie for you to make. I am going through the same thing, but I would choose my ex. If you still love him then you two definitly have good chemistry and in order to fall in love and stay in love over a break up well... you definitly got something there. The question is was it worth all the pain. If you had a chocie to start over again knowing how it ended would you do it? Are you able to smile because it happened and was good when it lasted. If you anwsered yes then I would go back to your ex and try to work things out. If you anwered no, or things don't work out go for the new guy or someone else, when trying to move on you need to get around and date, see whats out there. Hope I helped! <3
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