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HelloO every one

well im hilda =]=] im a just a teenager tryinig to live her life and i love helpiing poeple so if anyone need help ask il be glad to helo you =]=]
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All right, my friend and her boyfriend (they're both 16) have been going out for about 8 months now, and neither I nor my friends have seen much of her at all. Honestly, we get to talk to her for more than 5 minutes about once every couple weeks, and it's really getting us all down. We've tried talking to her, but it's practically impossible because she gets defensive and then drags us into an argument, instead of talking and understanding. I understand that now she's got a boyfriend who she cares about we're not going to see as much of her, but it's been taken to an extreme.

I just really don't know what to do about it. I'm really close to her, and it's getting me and my friends down. We don't want to lose her, but it's frustrating that she's dropped us for a boy. (link)
First of all ive seen this happen many times they get to attached to ther boyfriend then went its over they run back to you so just tell her that just say we dont want to you to get to attached we donbt want to see you upset and if he does hurt you your gonna run back to us and tell her you miss her you want to at least spend a few hours with use if she starts an argument leave what goes around comes around =]

[xOo]tC Keep Smiling =]


recently i was chatting to my mate (crush) george, and he was trying to guess who i fancy and i sed what classes he was in of mine and he knew the guy i fancied his name was george (theres bout 4 georges in my year at school). anyway so that left him and the guy i liked before*. he said to me is it george davies* because it can't be me...thats the bit that got me confused.
so anyway im pissed off at my mate because she told george that i liked him but she said not to tell me he knows. so she told me that she told him. and now he dont know that i know he knows, confusing i know. but im just really confused of why he said "it can't be me". and also tomorrow i have four lessons with him and he's guna say something to me about tonight.

how should i act with him? is really my question.

thanks ALOT
xxxxxx (link)
Just act normalif you like some tell them i know it embbarsing but at least you did knowq he knows he might even like you so dont worry bout thing just smile and act calm=]


right now i really dont like the way i look...

i was wondering if you guys could tell me what you think of me HONESTLY!! i dont want to hear like pity answers (ill rate well even if you say im hideous!!)

heres some random pics of me from facebook:
http://photos-048.ak.facebook.com/ip002/v60/162/44/1223791587/n1223791587_30189048_5121.jpg
http://photos-101.ak.facebook.com/ip002/v54/74/80/1223791338/n1223791338_30173101_3546.jpg

so can anybody tell me what they seriously think of me?
and make up hints?? or tips??
THANKS FOR THE ADVICE!! (link)
loOl im not a boy imhonsetly i think your beautiful =]


okay i have two guys who are in love with me which its my boyfriend Justin and my best friend Sean, well like I've been going out with Justin for almost 10 months and I've known Sean for about 4 or 5 years. Well i know that Sean and Justin doesn't like each other because Sean doesn't like the way that Justin treats me and like Justin treats me fine, he doesn't do anything bad, but people are scared that iam going to get hurt or anything and i talked to Justin about that he said that he ever would hurt me in any way and like i don't know like my mom think that Sean is the one for me , but Justin is really i don't want to go out with my but friend you know that would be awkward you know, i don't know iam just lost, i' have two guys who are in love with me and i don't want to make a bad chocie of picking who you know because my mom doesn't like the way Justin treats me either, and i don't understand why they don't. He told me he would do anything bad to harm me... i just don't know i need your help.




thanks lauren (link)
Well sionce your going out with justin you love him thats why you dont realize what he does
and sean you have known a couple of years so you should know what his capable of and you know he wouldnt hurt just ask you self who do you like being around with
who makes you laugh
who makes yopu go crazy and happy all the time
and dont just say the boyfriend think abotu sean to ask your mum for more advice =]

[xOo]


ok so i really like this guy but i dumped him cuz he was going to dump me but i still want him but hes going out with one of my good friends even though she said she wouldn't i think shes a backstabbing slut but shes my good friend and if she likes him i want them to be happy but i am still in love with him what should i do get him back and how or leave like it is him being happy and me being so lost and sad





luv ya like a sista (link)
I've Been through thwe same
dosnt sound like she thought about when said yes i mean if she was a true friend she wouldve told himlet me think about ti and think about the consequences talk to her tell her were ment to be friends did you think about me and if she knows you still like hiim tell her and if she dosnt care then liek you said Yup Shes a SLUT lol =]


[xOo]






what are some websites that you can order fake chanel or other [fake] designer bags off of?! i'd prefer for prices to be $60 or less ! :] (link)
Ebay =]


what do guys fo when they flirt? like give me some lists and examples on how to tell if he's flirting. (link)
- Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.
-He watches your lips
- He might act weird around you or seem very nervous
-looks at your lips.
-laughs at what ever you say.
-complemts you on your look and your hair even though it's the same everyday
-smiles alot
-touches your hair
-chooses you over his friends

loOl ii found half of them on a website Hope ii HeLped =] !!!

[xOo]


Okay so I like this guy, I've only hung out with him like once or twice. But wow.. he is like super cool. We used to talk everyday on aim. Now it's only once in a while... How can I make him notice me.. Cause we don't go to the same school. (link)
Hey
YoOh ShOuld Tlk about things that use bOth Like
you could ask for his number he might giveit to you just talk about things that makes use laugh im sure he will love you for your personality =]

[xOo]


Hey,
What does it feel like when your drunk?
I know that's kind of a wierd question, but I'm just curious.

Thank you! (link)
Hey
i have never been drunk but myt cousin is drunk the timelol and he tells me he said you do random things and you dont know what your doinglike sing lioudley dance crazy say stupid thing stuff like that and you feel pretty sleepy lol
thats what he told me

[xOo]


do blind people have dreams?? (link)
YUp blind people do dream What they see in their dreams depends on how much they could ever see. If someone has been totally blind since birth, they only have auditory dreams. If someone has had a measure of sight, then that person dreams with that measure of sight. they still dream as though they can see, colors included. For people That are blind, peoples faces are just blurs or how they imagine they look. To them, someone like there parents looks forever 30.


[xOo]


im subscribed to cosmogirl, the magazine..and in it there's a contest you can enter... the pet beauty contest. the only way you can enter is on a website, this website: www.cosmogirl.com/petbeautycontest. i've tried to enter several times but every time it says this page can't be found! or something. it's really starting to bug me. is it just my computer or what?! ok, i'm thinking it might be the size of the picture or something. it says "Your photo submission MUST be a JPEG file no smaller than
3" x 5", no larger than 250Kb and with a resolution of no less than 300 DPI." how can i make sure it's the right size and if it isnt, change it??? i know theres only a slight chance of winning, but you never know, and you can win a nintendo ds, and i really want one! thanks =] (link)
Go One PAINT Put the pic there Then make it smaller adn try it everytime till you get it right
tahst what i do


i wanna get over a heartbreak ive been heartbroken for about half a year but i could never forget about what we had i thought was real and then we started school we were single but like the following month w=he went out with some other girl we stopped talkin but he came back to me and it was like that for half of school year till xmas vacation we stopped talkin it was good for me but now hes with a new girl that i thought it was my friend ive gone tru so much that i wanna get over him so badly ill do anythin im not sayin that im pretty but its kinda hard for me to meet new guys cuz im 15 lookin 12 thats bad help me please i dont wanna cry anymore!! (link)
Hey Hun !!!

ii Went Through he same Thing exactly i thought it was perfect everything I waNTED THEN HE DUMPED ME AND ILIKED HIM MORE THEN HALF A YEAR =[ but what i did was i hung around him like we talked alot and we became bestfriends and then you just dont see him as a boyfriend anymore
2)Do soem thing you love try to make your self busy
3)Talk to some-one that makes you laugh like crazy and smile at the same time
4)you dont need that loser trust me
im sure you got friends that love you adn adore u =]


I didn't know what category to put this in.
Hope that's k.


What's a good/free photo editor??

Thanks =) (link)
http://www.imageeditor.net/

ii LoOve iit =]


i am a 17 year old girl, and i have a really awsum relationship with my boyfirnd, i love him so much i have been with him 4 2 years (the best 2 years of my life), he moved to cornwal 3 months ago and when he moved i was very low for about a month, i worry about him so much and i really just want him to move near me again, i worry about the worst heppening e.g. me splitting up with him. i recently had a dream i kissed a girl and this made me horny thinking about it the next morning, the strage thing is that iv never had a bisexual feelings bofore ever! and i would consier myslef being very straght, and i have a good healthy sex life with my boyfriend, and im worrying about this dream so much i keep on worrying that im bisexual, when deep down i no im not, but im worrying about it so much, and keep on telling my self im bisexual! its sounds so silly and im getting down about it, cos i dont want to think like this and i jsut want things to go back to how they were before, please help (link)
hey hun

well i cant just say its a dream ok if u have had the dream more then once well who knows why dont you test your self around girls and look when your near them see how you react maybe the dream is because you miss your bf and you want to think of something else just dont let it get to you just yet like i said see how you react when your around gielrs like if you get hormone sor get weried feelings tell me how you go =]

[xOo]


15/f
My ex and I went out for 11 months. I really thought I loved him but then one morning I woke up and realized I didn't even like him anymore. So I dumped him. That was way back in June. I'm pretty that he still likes me. Now I like him again and he's all I think about. Right after I dumped him I realized how annoying and how mean he was so I don't want to get involved with him again. I really need a good way to get over him and get him outta my mind. (link)
Heyy !!!!

Well do fun things hang out with your friends go shopping or something your really into dont listien to any sad songs cause they make you think i liked a a guy for a whole year adn then we started hanging out alot and then suddenly i didnt like him anymore because we got to close adn i couldnt see him as a boyfriend i dont know if that would help but it helped me and if he still likes you and you like him to then tell hiim i guess

=] tC Smiles=]


which one cleans my teeth more efficiently, flossing before or after brushing? (link)
after brushiing because the brushing take some away and if there still some elft you use dentalfloss


I have a BIG crush on this boy he is really cute and when I found out that this other girl likes him I got so mad and i still am.....also He talks to me sometimes and to her too but the problem is that she is prettier than me? Me and her are playing hard to get but she doesnt know that I like him she only suspects it and i want to know..........How can i get him to notice me and talk to me???????????????????? (link)
First of all he gonna realize your playing hard to get and you need to stop because he will play ahrtd to get like you are second of all stop with the jealousy you cant make a guy like you really but if he alks to both of use thast good enough but if you start to push it to the edge she will start telling him lies about you to make him hate you so just let it go and wait trust me


Hope i helped =[


does anyone know any sad, goodbye songs for when your best friend is moving away? (link)
Nickleback have great songs =]


Hi,

okay so my boyfriend is 3 years older than me and we've been going out for 4 months. He keeps pushing me into doing things. About 3 or 4 weeks ago he pushed me into having sex and i didnt want to because of pregency and stuff. He made me and all of a sudden i was having sex with him. i keep trying to talk to him telling him that im not ready to have sex and stuff but he wont listen. we used protection but im scared of becoming pregnant. I really need help to talk to him and having him listen to me. please. thanks. (link)
he sounds like a jerk no affence

he sounds like his only using you for sex because if a guy loves you then he would wait until your ready talk to him and if he still forces and pressures you if iwas you id dump him seriously


sorry if it wasnt much


ok well here's the thing. my friend has totally made some stupid choices recently. I know that shes getting older and im also not her mom. but 14 is too young to be out having sex with people especially considering her past with health issues. god knows what else is going on (drugs? drinking?) I dont' know who to go to for help, my friends have told me things too but I can't take the depression i've developed over this. I knwo this problem is common and people view it differently...but I'm scared for her and have run out of resources.. :( (link)
WOW !!!!!!!!!


first of all your a GREAT friend talk to her and explain how you feel and tell her the consequences and if she dosnt lisiten just say to her when you get hurt or if something goes wrong dont come up to me because i warned you and im your friend im scared and i dont want to see you get hurt maybe you can also talk to a teacher or some close to you


sorry if it wasnt goOd enough but iit was tough lol




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