Question Posted Saturday September 16 2006, 11:59 am
ok well here's the thing. my friend has totally made some stupid choices recently. I know that shes getting older and im also not her mom. but 14 is too young to be out having sex with people especially considering her past with health issues. god knows what else is going on (drugs? drinking?) I dont' know who to go to for help, my friends have told me things too but I can't take the depression i've developed over this. I knwo this problem is common and people view it differently...but I'm scared for her and have run out of resources.. :(
14 is too young to be having sex indeed. Being a 15yr old mom isn't too fun either. Did or does she have a traumatic childhood or something like that because that could steer her into those bad things.
If she won't listen to you, warn her that you will set up a meeting with your counslor at your school to talk about this matter. I mean if she might be doing drugs, she may overdose without knowing it. It's better to lose a friendship then the friend. [ ductape_n_roses's advice column | Ask ductape_n_roses A Question ]
hilda32 answered Saturday September 16 2006, 6:30 pm: WOW !!!!!!!!!
first of all your a GREAT friend talk to her and explain how you feel and tell her the consequences and if she dosnt lisiten just say to her when you get hurt or if something goes wrong dont come up to me because i warned you and im your friend im scared and i dont want to see you get hurt maybe you can also talk to a teacher or some close to you
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