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pressure
Hi,
okay so my boyfriend is 3 years older than me and we've been going out for 4 months. He keeps pushing me into doing things. About 3 or 4 weeks ago he pushed me into having sex and i didnt want to because of pregency and stuff. He made me and all of a sudden i was having sex with him. i keep trying to talk to him telling him that im not ready to have sex and stuff but he wont listen. we used protection but im scared of becoming pregnant. I really need help to talk to him and having him listen to me. please. thanks.
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Any guy who will do that, probably needs to be castrated.
But that is my opinion, and I tend to think old fashioned.
Seriously though, we would you want to be with him when he is making you do things you don't want to be doing? Especially sex.
My opinion? Get rid of him, I gaurantee you can find a boyfriend who would be more than willing to wait for you when it came to sex. The one you got now is a jack (my term for any guy who is a combination of alot of things ugly and bad) and needs to be dealt with.
My two cents, you should consider what I and the other columnists have said.
I hope I helped.
-Ryan
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Why do you love him? Why do you stick with him if you are not happy with him? And if he did not listen to you in the past, what makes you think he will listen to you in the future?
Cj
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Does he know that what he did could result in as rape? Most people imagine rape as violent and loud and etc but really, it's forcing someone to have sex who doesn't want to.
I don't know if that is really the case for you but I just felt like saying it =P.
If he won't respect you for your privacy and won't listen to you dump him. He might just be wanting to have sex all the time and that is not a good idea. Protection alone can't give youa 100% guarentee that you won't get pregnant. No matter what he says, don't give in. Tell him that if he doesn't start respecting your wishes and privacy, you will break up with him.
Don't feel the need to have a boyfriend or to please him all the time. You've just gotta have your own privacy and space
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he sounds like a jerk no affence
he sounds like his only using you for sex because if a guy loves you then he would wait until your ready talk to him and if he still forces and pressures you if iwas you id dump him seriously
sorry if it wasnt much
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Since he's 3 years older, he's obviously had more experience with sex than you have. I can't imagine how many girls he's slept with if he's forced you into doing it. No guy should force you. It is your own decision to lose your virginity. If any guy forces you to do that, then dump him and go find a guy that can appreciate you for you.
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