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i need your little help here
okay i have two guys who are in love with me which its my boyfriend Justin and my best friend Sean, well like I've been going out with Justin for almost 10 months and I've known Sean for about 4 or 5 years. Well i know that Sean and Justin doesn't like each other because Sean doesn't like the way that Justin treats me and like Justin treats me fine, he doesn't do anything bad, but people are scared that iam going to get hurt or anything and i talked to Justin about that he said that he ever would hurt me in any way and like i don't know like my mom think that Sean is the one for me , but Justin is really i don't want to go out with my but friend you know that would be awkward you know, i don't know iam just lost, i' have two guys who are in love with me and i don't want to make a bad chocie of picking who you know because my mom doesn't like the way Justin treats me either, and i don't understand why they don't. He told me he would do anything bad to harm me... i just don't know i need your help.
thanks lauren
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Well sionce your going out with justin you love him thats why you dont realize what he does
and sean you have known a couple of years so you should know what his capable of and you know he wouldnt hurt just ask you self who do you like being around with
who makes you laugh
who makes yopu go crazy and happy all the time
and dont just say the boyfriend think abotu sean to ask your mum for more advice =]
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Ooh my... >.<
I would suggest talking to your mother about this. Ask her why she's concerned about you going out with Justin, and tell her that you love him and trust that he won't hurt you.
As for Sean, don't string him along (not that you would do this, I'm just letting you know) because it's cruel. Tell him that you like him as a friend, and you don't want to ruin your friendship with him by dating him.
The important thing is to be honest, both with Sean and your mom.
Oh, and if Justin starts abusing you or treating you like you are less than a human being, get out of that relationship immediately! If your mom is concerned about you, she may be right about Justin. He sounds nice, but be wary of his behavior.
Hope this helps! ^_^
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Okay, well stay with Justin for now and if anything --even the slightest mistreatment comes at you, break it up with him. Sean, you've known him for so long, why break such a fragile friendship?
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