I've had sex for the first time with my ex boyfriend even though he has a girlfriend...well i got sick of being the other woman so i told him that he either has to be wit me or her well of course he picked me but to my suprise the reason why he picked me was so we'll have sex and of course like a dummy i did it...well i thought we were together or going to work on it so the next day i waited for him to call me and he never did...it's been 3 weeks now and i've realize wat an asshole he is...i'm totally getting over him...i know hard to believe but it's true...but wat i'm wondering should i ask him why he or how could he do this to me or should i jus leave things the way they are? Thanks in advance!
He's probably trying to run away from you that's why he didnt call you. So what makes you so sure that he'll say sorry?
Leave things the way they are. If he has a conscience, he'll come back some day and apologise. If he never comes back, ignore the bastard cos 10 years down the road he'll probably be suffering from some STD or AIDS for hooking up with girls just for sex. These kind of people will get their retribution some day.
People will never ever admit their mistakes when you try to tell them their faults. Let him discover his mistake by himself. Take this as a lesson learnt. Be postive bout it cos you've learnt to be smarter and not to trust everyone so easily. [ clarayow's advice column | Ask clarayow A Question ]
evil-devil12 answered Saturday July 1 2006, 9:00 am: no , if your sure that he used you dont call him. you know what he did you dont need any answers! so just act like you dont care about him and avoid him in your life! he is sooo not worth it! find a guy who really cares about u!
karenR answered Saturday July 1 2006, 7:32 am: You already know why he did it. He told you what you wanted to hear so he could get sex. He got it
and now hes left because he is an asshole.
aShKnOWs answered Saturday July 1 2006, 4:28 am: Aww sweetie im sorry that happend. I know its soo hard, expecially since he was your 1st and he left you. Sowwie but i think you should move on. Dont worry about it, he is such a looser and you deserve better! So justt movee on kk? i noe you want answers just think he might try to swwett talk you and use you agian. You already noe why he did it he is a looser...dont regret what you did just look at as a learning experience and try to save yourself for the next guy. And no1 has to noe you did it if you noe what i mean...its gonna be okkay i promise!
tRuEe_lOve answered Saturday July 1 2006, 3:11 am: wow he sounds like such a jerk.. & thats good that your getting over him.. well i would call him saying why he would do that & just tell him how you feel, but.. if you do call him and he says sorry and wants to hang out, dont.. because then you might get your feelings back for him & it would be harder, so i would just call him & be like why you would do that.
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