Hey Guys... im not gonna be on for a while...sowwie :( if you need anything i will check my emails as often as i can butt im not ignorin you okkay? lol LoVE yoUu!!my name is Ashley but everyone calls me asher or asher beth, i am 16 years old, i live in louisiana...!*SUPPORT VICTIMS OF HURRICANE KATRINA!* and i am a pretty lovable person, i like to make people laugh, i have lots of friends, i am pretty outgoing, im really nice and i wont be a sarcastic wen im talking to you about advice..if you wanna talk sum more im on MYSPACE AWL THE TIME!!! lol..its crzy! if you wanna noe more just chEck OuT My wEbsitE or EMAIL ME!! x3 asher beth....
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14/f, canada.
okay i have liked this guy since kindergarden (like on off over time) so we used to talk ALOT and were i think pritty good friends, soo half way through the last school year we were still talking a bit and now its like im non-existant, i know he likes this other girl, but i still really like him unfortunatly im soo shy, but i can talk to guys and everything, its just like im not able to show my emotions, its wierd and i cant really describe it, so im wondering what i should do, and i know your probably gonna tell me to just say it up front, but thats not an option, im so shy with that kind of stuff that ive never had a bf and 1 time this guy asked me out and i just completely froze up and then just walked away, so i really dont know how to let him know i like him :( (link)
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i noe...i used to be soo shy it was really painful, but i got over that. do you really wanna just sit and wait for some giy to come along? i mean in my opinion i would tell him how i feel and see waht he says...mayb he likes some other girl beacuse he mite like you and got tired of waiting you noe...just ask. he is a nice guy right? i really hoped i helped! mwahh!!!
x3 asher beth
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how does a doctor check for a hormone imbalance.
i've been reading in magazines that excess hair and an irregular mentruation cycle after 6 months of having your period are signs of a hormone imbalance that can be treated. i am thinking that maybe i have this, but how does a doctor check for this? and how is it treated?
thank you. =). (link)
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well number one...dont always beleive whts in magazines. sometimes magazines do no research and just need an article to make people go nutz over. secondly your probally in your teens? harmonal imbalance is ALWAYS messed up for about 4-7 years after you first started your period. sometimes your cycle wont get in balance untill after you have a baby
http://www.webmd.com/content/article/4/1680_51512.htm
i looked that up for you hoped i helped
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Is this something wrong with me?
It's not a constant thing, but I have some real problems with anger at times. For example before.. Mom and I were in the car and I was crying.. been bogged down by stress, friends issues, and a recent breakup. Then I totally lost it because I felt she wasn't listening to me. I started throwing everything everywhere and kicking and screaming, telling her to listen to me. she tried to act all "calm" about it and even tried to change the topic and ignore what I was saying. I got mad and told her to stop being calm and lose the tone. I got even madder, and then something snapped. I put my fingers in the car window, and pushed the button up until my fingers got caught and kept doing it till I screamed in pain. I also bit hard into my hand in anger and the marks are still there.
I have never done anything like that before. Mom and I haven't spoken since. I feel terrible about what I did. I have no idea what got into me. Is there something wrong with me, or was this just a one-off thing, like losing control for a moment? I feel really ashamed because my mom is good to me, and I went and did something like that. What should I do? Is this a serious problem that requires serious help?
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yea know wht u mean. i get lyk that all the time. my mom doesnt always listen so i try to do something that gets her attention like banging my head agaisnt the wall or cutting myself. but this really helps. wen your mom is in a good mood sit down and calmly explain how you feel, tell her that you dont feel like she is listening to you. if you express your fealings in a calm manner, she will understand better, it really works. shes your mom shell love you no matter what
it depends..honestly if it keeps up or you get outburst more than 4 times a week you should prbally need help
i was diagnosed with bipolar disorder that mite be what it is
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14|Female...For about two years ever since I found out my dad cheated on my mom...my life has been completely different, i use to feel really confident about my body but now i dont, i feel over weight and ugly (even though im 89lbs)I also have really bad trust issues now..I dont want to be like this anymore I want the old me back, My mom says the best way is for me to talk to someone about it but I cant talk to her because I know that it will upset her about the dad thing and I cant talk to my older sister because she will think im just going through some teenage stage...my mom suggested I see a therapist but i dont know if I want to or not because it just seems weird telling a stranger my feelings...and also I know they cost alot of money so I dont want to just waste money if I am going through a teenage stage but I dont think it is just a teenage stage...Im just really scared I am going to do something crazy if I dont tell people how I feel. So my question is...should I see a therapist or not? (link)
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take this from someone who has been to 5 psychtrist, its better to express your feelings. it helps alot. i understand not talking to your mom is hard but try and fill her in before its to late. it may hurt her, but she is your mother and she loves you, shes probally wondering why you wont talk to her...mayb u can leave a few details out but talk to her. if you still feel the need to talk to sum1 else, then id get a theripist
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My hair is brown with blonde streaks, but i want to change it for summer, please tell me how you dye your hair with kool aid and tell me how much it works i mean how well it works , like if it gives off a realyl good color, or is really weak ...and can you dye your hair with hawaiian punch? (link)
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no hawaiin punch wont stay and neither will kool aid sorry ive tried and it dries the crap out of your hair...but Loreal has this really exotic colors like pink and vibrant red...go to your local store and go down the hair coloring isle and look for a ORANGE package..its Loreal and looks like an orange goldfish bag
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I gained wait over the summer. But not a lot. Only maybe a pound or two. But I feel like my stomach is flabby and I can make it more fit. How do I get a six pack (or somewhat close to it) by september second- when school starts?
f/13 (link)
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http://exercise.about.com/od/abs/
GREAT WORKOUTSSS!!!
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I know nothing about cars.
I'm turning 16 soon and my parents are going to by me the car I want. I want the Pontiac G6 hardtop convertible.
They just need to know how much it is.
This is what it says on the site:
Base MSRP $21,365
Invoice Price $20,190
Which price is it? Or is the price the both of those combined?
How much less is a used car usually?
This is the car:
http://www.smartcarprices.com/(5rsty355ysim2055r1yrh055)/Quote.aspx
Please help! Give me any info you can.
Also:
-Is it a safe car?
-Can I get it with 4 doors?
-Is it at all possible to get it in pink?
-Can cars be painted?
-If so, about how much does it cost?
Thank you so much!! (link)
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Okay i went to the Pontiac website and its says the car 28,490 soo iff YOu found a car for around 22,000 you should take it while you can.
http://www.pontiac.com/g6convertible/specs_viewall.jsp
i looked taht up for you...
it wont come in 4 doors, sorry :(
IM TURING 16 TOO WOOTNESS!!!!!!
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Okay…..^_^ this might take a while. Well, at camp, on the second day of the time we were there, Abby and I were sitting on a loveseat during this camp activity thing. Everyone was told that they had to sit in the middle, (which is where we were sitting) So, Mikey gets up from the back and looks around for a place to sit. He looks straight at me and sits down INBETWEEN me and abby. We are sitting there, and my heart was kinda pounding. Anyway, he starts to poke my leg…. and so of course I had to poke him back. So we went on like that for awhile. And then he laid his hand on my leg for like 5 seconds and smirked at me…. almost like a challenge…>.> so I had to do it back of course. So then, we went on like that forEVER and it was almost like the nervous game but I stopped. And then I elbowed him in the side, and it was funny!
Okay! NEXT DAY! WOOOOO…Okay, I was in crafts with abby and kirstie and Marissa. And Mikey was in Ping-Pong, which is in the same room. Then I finished my craft, and he had lost at ping-pong. I walked past him to go talk too abby and he stops me. He’s all….”sit on my lap” and I was all…O_O no! and then he was all…. Please? And I said, No, cause I’m not a slut. So he asked me to sit on the arm of the chair. So I did for like a minute. But then my butt started to ache so I got up and moved into the chair next to him. Then he started to show off, and he rocked back and forth in the chair he was sitting in, and flipped it backwards on purpose. He was sitting like that for a while, but then he was uncomfortable, cause he couldn’t get up. So he asked me to help him. So I tried…. for like 2 seconds, but got bored so I gave up. Then he was whining and whining and stuff. Then he stopped and looked at me and was all, “hold my hand…” And I was all “._.;;;;;” But I did, ^_^ and then he said that I had really soft hands which made me laugh. Then abby and kirstie helped him get the chair up, but he wouldn’t let go of my hand.
THEN, , we had swimming. I went down to the pool, but I didn’t know he was going to be there, and I didn’t want to swim cause I had my cloths on, and I had my period. BUT, he kept threating to push me in and I didn’t wanna get wet so I sat next to the lifeguard. The lifeguard was all, “If you touch her and push her in then I’ll get pushed in to and I WOULD NOT be happy…*glare*” (cause she was holding my hand so he couldn’t get me.) ^_^ Heehee, anyway, so he just stood over me and dripped water on me, and splashed me, AND HE WAS SHIRTLESS! …*Drool* but then I got bored so I wen’t and put my legs into the water in the shallow end with kirstie, and It was nice and we were sitting there and I was all ahhhhh. But of course, he had to come over. So he walks over in all his wet shirtless glory and is holding a Frisbee. He dips the Frisbee under that water and all the sudden splashes me. I sat there very quietly, and he said…”You can hit me if you want…” and I was all…”I’m not going to hit you…. *and then I jumped in the water fully clothed* I’M GOING TO KILL YOOOU!” Lets just say he ran away like a little girl, lol.
Then since my group was with his for the next activity which was ultimate Frisbee, he pretended to be sick and sat on the sidelines and watched kirstie and me. We were doing handstands and stuff and it was fun. After that, we were walking back past the rec hall, and he ran up out of no-where and just grabbed my hand. It was like…*Mikey appears out of no-where* *snatch’s hand* I got very scared, but I let him hold it! ^_^;;;, then some random kid was all, “Hey Mikey! Is that your new girlfriend!” and I looked at Mikey and went “EWWWWWWWWWWW” and walked away. ^_^ Heehee, oopsie? Then after that, there was just random flirting and him throwing stuff at me and being adorable, and stuff
Then when we got back home and stuff, kirstie randomly asked him why he kept hitting on me at camp, and he said its cause he likes me!
Okay,my quistion is, do you think he likes me, and i'm wondering if i should date him, cause he is in rehab right now....and after camp he made out with some other girl. WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?!?!?! (link)
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wow this was my bedtime story...lol i think he likes you...im quessing your a preteen or young teenager...well guys at that age have a really weird way of showing that they like them so there way of flirting is weird...ask him if he likes you...you never noe!?
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Ok so I'm 16/f, and I feel really weird because most of my friends have done something, and I've barely even kissed.
Everyone I meet is always like 'how can you still be a virgin?' and it feels a bit uncomfortable.
The things is that I always hear older people say to keep it, that they regret doing it in the first place, but why? My friends dont seem to regret it. And almost no guy would go out with someone who's not sexually active. At least no guy I've come across thinks differently.
What should I do? (link)
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I know alot of people have anwered this question but im kinda in the same situation
heyy...im 15 years old and me n my boyfriend have been dating for two years..weve never had sex..he is sooo supportive of that too. Only you can know when you are ready, you might be scared and all but if you DONT WANNA dont! YOu dont wanna waste your precious virginity on just anyone. People are soo jelous of you sweetie its okay and if they make you do other crap you dont wanna THEN LEAVE THEM...wouldnt you rather be hated for who you really are of be loved beacuse your sum1 your not...?
hOpe I HeLPeD! AnYtHInG eLSe?
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth...ADD ME
lOvE aSheR *MwAh!*
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i am aware germaine greer has written book's called "The boy" and "The beuitful boy" is there any difference between the books ??
also do they actually show nude bhildren ????????
thanks sam
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I looked it up and i went throu all the books and there was only one called The beautiful Boy. im sorry. Ive never read the book so i couldnt tell you but i looked it up on google and there was nothing really that showed up about naked boys in the book. if there was naked pictures there would be some when i searched for it. I really am sowwie..
hOpe I HeLPeD! AnYtHInG eLSe?
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth
lOvE aSheR *MwAh!*
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So I started talking to my ex and we were getting along and we were just going to stay friends. Well, I see this guy I used to know he's a year and half older. He's a saufmore I'm an eigth grader. He hugs me and keeps flirting w/ me and hitting on me. He hints he wants to go out, but he's really perverted. I think I like him though. I don't know if I should go out with him, he's said some...umm bad stuff. My mom would kill me if she found out, but I'm not too worried, I'm not the goodie goodie type. I'm kinda afraid if I go out with him I'll do a lot more than I want. I mean one of the first things he asked me was how far I've gotten and what I'd say if he fingered me, and I said I dont really care {ik i'm so freaking stupid}. Now my ex asked me what I would say if he asked me out and I pretty much said yeah w/e no it's just bc you can't go out w/ this one girl and he said no she still wants togo out but nvm. Are all guys perverted at 15?? Is it ok? There aren't that many good guys that I really like. I mean he's nice and everything just really really perverted...please people my age answer this! I don't want mom's opinions sorry and all! (link)
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Well okay, from my point of veiw...id say dont go there. You are too young to be getting involved with perves. i know you dont like to think of yourself as all that young but hes going to want to have sex...trust me..he sees your young and he thinks he can get some that way, but guys are so much more attracted to the virgins and nice ones REALLY trust me im a junior in high school and i see freshman sleep with seniors and the rest of there high school can be a living nightmare..REALLY! Baby, i know he might seem nice and all right now, but maybe two weeks from now he might dump you for your best frends you know? I hope you dont, really.
hOpe I HeLPeD! AnYtHInG eLSe?
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth
lOvE aSheR *MwAh!*
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Ok so I have these weird marks on the back of my legs...like upper leg...they're purple and thing but they look really weird and i want them to go away...what are they and what can i do about them? (link)
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Call me retarted but it might be a strech mark. If you loose just like a couple of pounds they fade..Maderma works to on strech marks...and sun..helps um fade too...but yeahh i think thats what it is...
you can look up stretch marks up on yahoo...i would send you some of them but sum of them are just plain gross...lol
hOpe I HeLPeD! AnYtHInG eLSe?
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth
lOvE aSheR *MwAh!*
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Hi. My name is Molly. I have experience with guys, I do. But I was wondering whether there was anything I could do to make my guy feel better while we are making out or something. Is there any place that they like to be touch or like tickled, other than the obvious. If you could answer this fast, that'd be great. and Im not weird. (link)
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Umm guyz like it wen you pull on the back of there hair and kinda moan...not orgasming or anything just let a little moan out or you could claw gentley at his back act like he is a greek god!
hOpe I HeLPeD! AnYtHInG eLSe?
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth
lOvE aSheR *MwAh!*
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To make this short.
I've had sex for the first time with my ex boyfriend even though he has a girlfriend...well i got sick of being the other woman so i told him that he either has to be wit me or her well of course he picked me but to my suprise the reason why he picked me was so we'll have sex and of course like a dummy i did it...well i thought we were together or going to work on it so the next day i waited for him to call me and he never did...it's been 3 weeks now and i've realize wat an asshole he is...i'm totally getting over him...i know hard to believe but it's true...but wat i'm wondering should i ask him why he or how could he do this to me or should i jus leave things the way they are? Thanks in advance! (link)
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Aww sweetie im sorry that happend. I know its soo hard, expecially since he was your 1st and he left you. Sowwie but i think you should move on. Dont worry about it, he is such a looser and you deserve better! So justt movee on kk? i noe you want answers just think he might try to swwett talk you and use you agian. You already noe why he did it he is a looser...dont regret what you did just look at as a learning experience and try to save yourself for the next guy. And no1 has to noe you did it if you noe what i mean...its gonna be okkay i promise!
hOpe I HeLPeD! AnYtHInG eLSe?
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth
lOvE aSheR *MwAh!*
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As weird as it sounds I just hate dealing with people.
Sure I do have friends, and I can make friends with people after a while. But I'm so anti social sometimes. I want to start working, but the only reason why I havent gone out to get a job it's because I'm shy and because I mostly dont want to talk to people.
I mean, even with my neighborhood friends [who i met trough my cousin] I dont even want to talk to them because i'm embarrased that I'll bore them or something.
I hate going out when it's not with childhood friends.
I cant even have someone look at me on the streets because I start feeling self concious.
I know it's not Antisocial Personality Disorder because people that have that are suposely aggresive and dont care about anyone's feelings.
What's wrong with me? I just want to know if there's a name for this phobia of meeting new people that I have. (link)
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Look i know its hard but people are attracted to confience, thats why they be a little hesitant. You dont have to change completley,but your going to have to deal with people sooner or later. Your phobia is called Anthropophobia and its a fear of people or society orits Sociophobia- Fear of society or people in general. Its not that uncommon...REALLY and sometimes the sympotoms dont always show up
http://www.medicalgeo.com/Med-Diseases-Sh---Sz/Sociophobia.html
if you think you have those syptoms you should strongly see a doctor..psychtrist maybe...its not bad...i go all the time for other reasons...
if you ever need to talk email me at oliveyoux3@hotmail.com or go to my myspace...and me n u can jus
hOpe I HeLPeD! AnYtHInG eLSe?
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth
lOvE aSheR *MwAh!*
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Okay, so there's this guy [my ex-boyfriend]. I only like him a little bit, but he's in love with me. We're really good friends, and we talk on the phone for at least an hour every day. But he keeps hinting how much he likes me, and it sort of makes my feel as bad I feel flattered. I've tried explaining it to him, but he just says, "So what? I'm not making you love me, I'm just saying that I love you."
It doesn't help that I'm still getting over a different ex-boyfriend at the moment. (link)
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tHIS ones kind of hard. explain that your not really ready to go back out, that you needs some time to explore and such, if he really loves you hed understand...just make sure to tell him not to wait for you...eventually he will move on too...
GoOd lUcK! aNYthiNg eLSe?
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth...add me!
x3 asher beth *mwah!*
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My son - African American - has hair bumps throught his head and at the bottom of his hairline on the back of his neck. He has tried several products to get rid of them to no avail. Someone suggested he use Vagisil. He's been trying that for the past 2-3 days. Nothing happening yet. Anybody have suggestions out there on how to get rid of them?
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You know how they ask you what number to use...like 4,3,2,1 go with2..its not that too close of a shave...thats probally why...maybe try a new babrber?
GoOd lUcK! aNYthiNg eLSe?
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x3 asher beth *mwah!*
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This is a odd question, but when I'm on my period or the week and a half before I feel alot more sexual urges then I do when I'm not. What is wrong or up with that? (link)
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No sweet pea...Trust me. Your hormones are going crazy...expecially when your in you teens. And maybe its a blessing...well you really dont want to have sex during your period...so your bodies probally like...HURYY UP LETS HAVE SEX BEFORE ITS VACATION TIME...yeahh ill go wit that lol.
GoOd lUcK! aNYthiNg eLSe?
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth...add me!
x3 asher beth *mwah!*
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Well I'm developing feelings for a girl, and I'm pretty sure she feels the same way. The problem is, she'll be moving off to college in a couple months. I don't really know what to do, I don't think I'm ready for a long distance relationship at this point in my life. Should I just go for it and make the most out of the time we have? I'm worried more about her feelings than my own.
20/m (link)
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Its hard i noe, but you have to think about if its worth it or not. Only you can decide that. If you really like her tell her...!! You never noe...
GoOd lUcK! aNYthiNg eLSe?
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth...add me!
x3 asher beth *mwah!*
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my the flabby bit of my vagina (i dont no the real name for it) is sort of split in 2 u can pull it apart sort of. Also its really dangly. I used to masterbate by rubbing my vagina on a bed post and it really felt like i was having sex. I am really ashamed of it and i dont do it anymore. could this of affected my vagina?? or maybe even affected the start of my period as i havnt started yet and im 13. And looking at me you would think i had. PLease help because im really worried.
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No. Everythings fine. There really is no such thing as an DEFECTED VAGINA...many people start late anyway...i noe a girl who started wen she was 18... wow i noe...but nothings wrong, and having sex/masterbation is not going to affect your period...you can keep doing the bed post thing, its not harming you...
GoOd lUcK! aNYthiNg eLSe?
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth...add me!
x3 asher beth *mwah!*
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