So I started talking to my ex and we were getting along and we were just going to stay friends. Well, I see this guy I used to know he's a year and half older. He's a saufmore I'm an eigth grader. He hugs me and keeps flirting w/ me and hitting on me. He hints he wants to go out, but he's really perverted. I think I like him though. I don't know if I should go out with him, he's said some...umm bad stuff. My mom would kill me if she found out, but I'm not too worried, I'm not the goodie goodie type. I'm kinda afraid if I go out with him I'll do a lot more than I want. I mean one of the first things he asked me was how far I've gotten and what I'd say if he fingered me, and I said I dont really care {ik i'm so freaking stupid}. Now my ex asked me what I would say if he asked me out and I pretty much said yeah w/e no it's just bc you can't go out w/ this one girl and he said no she still wants togo out but nvm. Are all guys perverted at 15?? Is it ok? There aren't that many good guys that I really like. I mean he's nice and everything just really really perverted...please people my age answer this! I don't want mom's opinions sorry and all!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kellyy answered Sunday July 2 2006, 11:33 am: Well, from the looks of things, yes, he just wants to use you. If you are afraid to go out with him, then dont. About guys being perverted at 15, im sorry to say, but most of them are, in fact all of them are. Sometimes nice guys can be decieving, if you want my advice, i wouldnt go out with him, he seems like a bad person to go out with. My reason is because he will force you to do something you will not want to do.
xostarbrightbaby answered Sunday July 2 2006, 1:38 am: Sounds like he`s using you. yes, most guys can be perverted. No it`s not okay for a guy to be like that because once he gets what he wants he will leave you. Please don`t get into a relationship like that. I know you don`t want to be hearing this but it`s the honest truth and you will get hurt if you get involved. sorry. ♥ [ xostarbrightbaby's advice column | Ask xostarbrightbaby A Question ]
aShKnOWs answered Saturday July 1 2006, 4:43 am: Well okay, from my point of veiw...id say dont go there. You are too young to be getting involved with perves. i know you dont like to think of yourself as all that young but hes going to want to have sex...trust me..he sees your young and he thinks he can get some that way, but guys are so much more attracted to the virgins and nice ones REALLY trust me im a junior in high school and i see freshman sleep with seniors and the rest of there high school can be a living nightmare..REALLY! Baby, i know he might seem nice and all right now, but maybe two weeks from now he might dump you for your best frends you know? I hope you dont, really.
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