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Q: WOW were like soal mates(like friends)wow if you where a capricorn i would die.anyway there this boy at my soccer camp his name is patrick.he is really annoying in that annoying 13 year old boy kind of way/really ignorent and he almost never passes the ball(ball hogger)and almost eery body their feels the same exept for his friends who are just as stupid as him but i think i like him.i dont know im weirdly attracted to him.but im not sure if he does which he probably dosent and today are last day of camp and im not sure what i should do.please help!thanx

Start talking to him as much as you can. And if you have a screen name ask him if he has one. If he doesnt maybe ask him if he has an email. Or if you would want you could give him your number.Thats what i would do. And if you really wanted to know if he likes you , you could have a friend from camp that you trust ask him. Hope that helped you. If you have anymore questions feel free to ask me.

Oh and im not a capricon , im an Aquarious lol.

Q: I have a verizon wireless cell phone, and for the past two days I haven`t been able to send picture messages to my friends, and I haven`t been able to send any pictures to PixPlace cause it said it couldn`t connect and the message failed. Has anyone else had this problem and what should I do?

Im not completely sure. But you parents COULD have blocked sending pictures and or text messages. Cause talk tothey can the cell phone company and do that. I tried..hope it helped=]

Q: does anyone know any sites i can get to any website? for example, kproxy.com, stealth-ip.com? my parents blocked myspace and it would be nice to have other ways of getting in! even with kproxy.com im limited to what i can do on there. for example i cant post up a blog i have to ask my friends to do that for me. give them the password and everything.

I dont think theres anyway for you to still get in after they block it. You have to know how to unblock the site to possibly get on there. But if
you really want to get on i would suggest a friends house or maybe a library near you.
hope i helped =]

Q: How do i know if a guy likes me without asking him? i think we like each other but i don't want to get stronger feelings if he doesn't even like me, if you know what i mean!

What i would do is start having a conversation one day and randomly ask him who he Does like.
Its not exactly asking him if he likes you.
Hope i helped =]

Q: Well here is the thing I like a girl in my grade and i have for like 4 months without telling her ( i was nervous) but she liked me for like 2 years i feel like im playin hard to get but i think im right for her, but here is the thing she is moving to Florida soon and i live in Massachusetts i really want to go out with her PLZ HELPP SOON!!!!!!!!!!

I think you should work up the courage to tell her because i think if you dont it will be something you regret. Ask her out! She will be
here for ATLEAST a couple days while you two
would be going out and you could see her. You could also have a long ditance relationship.. i know a few people who do and they say its still great. But others dont like it. But i say give it a shot.Hope i helped =]

Q: how do i get it so i can have the fonts Terminal and Script as my default fonts? Is there something you download? I'm tired of copying and pasting each time a new IM box comes up. Help????

First.. You Go Over to your buddylist.
Second.. you click My Aim.
Third ..click on Away Messages.
Four.. Click on edit away messages.
Fifth..Look to your left all the way over it will have many categorys you can select from.
Sixth.. click on the category that says Font.
Seventh.. Then you click on either.. Font, Font Color or Window Color.

Window color means the color you would like your background. It also previews it so you can see how it will look.

Hope i helped =]

((FeedBack))That is pretty much what your question was and since you say it wasnt maybe you should have been more specific instead of people trying to help you and giving them 1 feedback point when they clearly answered what you asked.mmk.

Q: hey! well i have a problem...my best friend has this boyfriend that nobody likes and personally me and him hate each other but for some reason she still goes out with him..god who knows why. but im not gonna try and break them up because they have like twice and they keep gettin back together. well whenever we are by cute guys she always flirts with them when she has a BOYFRIEND. a couple nights ago we picked up her guy friend kevin and when he was walkin up to my car she was like ohh look how hott he looks! and she always lies to her boyfriend..like he called when we were with kevin and she is like im just with kristen (me)! and nobody else..and hes like no i can hear someone else..who are you with? and shes like nobody..and when she gets off the phone she continues to flirt with him. also when i was at my cousins she has this really cute neighbor and he came over for a bit to chill with my cousin and then she was like all flirtin with him and jumped on him because she wanted "shotgun" and wouldnt get off of him! i dont know it seriously bugs me and im like ohhh you were flirtin with him! and i tried talkin to her and sayin you have a boyfriend..if you flirt with other guys then why are you still with your boyfriend? and shes like because i like him! i dont know she is my best friend..ive tryed talking to her..she just bugs me when she is around guys! ...what do you think i should do in this situation?
i will rate 5 for anyone who helps
thanks.

I know exactly how ya feel.
I would tell her what she does,
and how it bothers you. And maybe say
something like "how would you feel if
your boyfriend flirting with alot of
otherr girls all the time". Hope i helped=]

Q: Occasionally I'll just catch a 'glimpse' of a girls chest when I'm talking to her, sometimes they notice, sometimes they don't. Do you think its rude or offensive? I don't do it on purpose, but I do realize when I do it. If most would rather that not happen then I'd try to stop. So what do you think?

Most girls will definately notice if you are looking at her chest.

It depends on the girl.. they might be Trying to get you to or they may think of you as preverted.

But the way i think of it is that your a guy and its only normal for males to do things like that.

Q: hey well i started listening to like rock, punk rock type of music and i really like it. my fav songs are i write sins not tragedies, a little less sixteen candles, saying sorry, move along, makedamnsure, and lots more

i wanna know more though so my question is what popular songs are from dashboard confessional, AFI, AC/DC, the used, underoath ... u kno like that.

i rate high!!

One popular AC/DC song i know is "Back in Black".

hope i helped =]

Q: i have like little little spots, like i dont know what it is, it doesnt hurt but it looks like acne, and its not red. so what is this and how do i get rid of it? and one more question: do biore products work on acne? if so, what are some products that work REALLY REALLY well and gets rid of most acne? thanks so much and ill rate 5's

Are they just skin color bumps?
If so i had one myself, on my face, forever.
It really bothered me and i thought it would
never go away. I had tried popping it like it
was a pimple but it wouldnt budge.. it actually bled when i tried that. But just recently i was scratching my face ( over the bump) and it just like came off.Yes, i know thats kind of gross. But im happy its off now. Im not sure if i really answered your question but i hope i helped =]

Q: i was always told that going on the pill would make your period stop completely (by freinds, not doctors) and lately i've been seeing a commercial about a pill that can reduce your period to only 3 days?? now, is it true that there is such a thing as a birth control pill that can make your period stop altogether, or is that just a myth?

Ive heard of the same thing on tv and i think it may be true. But i also heard its not that good to reduce it to 3 days.

hope i helped =]

Q: Does that acne treatment by neutrogena -actually- work? Because I've used it on my acne and it's making it worse and all dried out. It seems to be making my acne stay around LONGER. i've had acne in the same spots for MONTHS. i dont know how to get rid of it. there's some red spots on my skin, no bumps or whiteheads. i dont know how to get rid of it.

I use the neutrogena and it works for me.
But your skin may be different.

But if your face is getting dried out i would suggest applying some lotion to it.

But if the neutrogena product is irritating your skin i would suggest maybe finding a different one.

Hope i helped =]

Q: I'm planing on making a small slide show.
I was wondering if anyone knew any good love songs?
If so thanks a bunch.

Heres a couple that come to my head..

What Hurts The Most- Rascall Flats
Amazed-Lonestar
Lips of an angel-Hinder

Not sure if these are what you consider love songs but i hope i helped. =]

Q: Hi =)
What are good ways (natural, not products) for my hair to be smooth and healthy? Please suggests things/food that actually works..
I have long thick brown hair that is kind of curly/wavy and it tends to frizz some. My scalp can get greasy but the hair gets a little dry.. I just want some remedies for it to be more nourished and silky. Thanks a lot in advance

I also have brown hair which is rather long.
Im not sure if this would work for you but what i do is instead of shampoo then conditioner i just use conditioner twice. Also make sure you get it al rinsed out well. Then i blow-dry it. And then use a straightening iron. Hope i helped =]

Q: Well i kinda got this girl that i like but then i hang with her brother alot cause he's like my best friend and we always hang out i mean i go camping with his family every year and then i realized that i kinda like his sister and his sister is my age i mean we have so much fun together when were camping and just love hanging out but i dont know how this would set with her brother but i do really kinda like her but i dont know how she feels but some of my friends have said we flirt alot... what should i do? Ask her out or not?

I say you first talk this over with her brother.
Just maybe someday randomly ask him how he would feel if one of his friends and his sister went out.Hopefully that wouldnt make him feel totally weird but you do have to consider the situation like put yourself in his shoes too. Hope i helped.=]

Q: Are energy drinks bad for you? People say after the energy wears off, it all crashes and you feel SOOO tired. And how much energy does it give you? And is Red Bull or Rockstar good brands of them?

I'll rate wicked high.

Some people say they arent good for you but im not sure that there bad for you. When i have energy drinks it makes me like super hyper... it lasts for quit a while with me. The energy drink i normally drink is Monster. Itss wayy good.=]

Q: everytime i try to put a picture on here, it says the filesize was too big. but wen i resize the picture superrr small, it still says that.

what do i do?
thanks.

After you re-sized it did you save the changes?

Q: hello, this is Jackie here. I have a problem. I am confused... there is this boy, I like him and from what I can tell, he likes me. I am 14 and he is a little older. This weekend this boy, my sister and another boy went to a community swimming pool. We sat next to eachother, he put his arm around me, and we held hands. after that I went home and soon I got a call from some girl saying that she was the boys new girl friend and that I need to stay away from him now. and I'm not sure if she's for real, or just being mean? I think that it could be this girl who's friends with him, that I made a comment about me not liking. So maybe she found out and knows that I like him, and wanted to get me back. I'm not sure. what do you think? Please help i rate well

*jackie*

Sounds to me like that girl is jealous.
I think she is just saying stuff to maybe bother you?

I think the boy definately likes you or he would not put his arm around you or hold your hand. But if he is with some other girl now, that makes him a dick.

Hope i helped you out.=]

Q: well the ppl who i thought were my friends always go put and never bother to call me to ever go but then when they need a ride home they always seem to call me cause i can drive i cant stand it what should i do ? should i get new friends and let them know how i ffeel ....Ill rate!!!

I think that you should tell them exactly how you feel. Chances are they dont know its bothering you.Also, If you want to get new friends its totally up to you. Hope i helped ya out. =]

Q: A guy I was with for a year broke up with me. I don't want to mope around the whole summer.
What can I do to distract myself? I've tried lots of things..

Sorry to hear that.

But anyways do things that interest you.
Maybe things such as hangout with your friends, go to the movies, go bowling, or just hang out. I know when im sad i go straight to my friends they always know how to cheer me up =]

bio

-My names Kaytlyn
-Im thirteen years old
-Im going into eight grade
-I have Brown Hair
-I have brown eyes
-My Facorite Color is pink
-I never take off my ring
-My finger nails are hardly ever painted
-My toenails are always painted
-Winter is pretty much my fav. season
-I hate sweating,but my hands are always sweaty
-I hate not being trusted
-I wear a shoe size 8 and a half
-I couldnt live without a mirror
-I always straighten my hair when i wear it down
-I hate blow-drying my hair
-I dont like brushing my teeth, i do it anyways
-I play volleyball
-Im in track
-My socks always match
-Im said to be pretty random
-I like vanilla more than chocolate
-I dont like wearing black
-I love listening to music
-My favorite kind of music is rap
-I wish all wishes came true
-I hate when people try to be someone there not
-Im very gullable
-Im really self conscious
-Earings make my ears itch
-I love writing
-I have good handwriting
-I have two dogs
-I have one cat
-I like meeting new people
-Many people think im shy
-Im Loud
-I hate my laugh
-My feet are always cold
-Im not a morning person
-The latest ive ever slept in was 2:30pm
-I could stay up all night, everynight
-I hate the sound of alarmclocks
-I love blowing bubbles with gum
-I cant sit still
-I get distracted easily
-I speak my mind
-I always have to have the last word
-It takes me a long time to get ready
-I like hearing other peoples dreams
-My favorite pop is root beer
-I loose things very easy
-I forget easily
-My fav Number is 26
-I hate getting my picture taken
-But i love taking pictures
-I hate screamo music,it gives me a headache
-I dont usually eat breakfast
-Blue Moon is my fav kind of ice cream
-Theres no way i could be a vegetarian
-Im scared to grow up
-I like the smell of gasoline
-Neil is my hero
-BP sluches are my favorite
-I laugh alot
-If you loose my trust it takes a lot to get back
-I get confused easily
-I dont like putting on lotion
-I like going on walks
-I hate running for no reason
-When i laugh hard, i cry
-I can cry easily
-I feel bad easily
-I love to just have fun
-I love cinnamon apple sauce
-Taco Bell is my favorite fast food
-I like listening to people tlak
-Im nosey
-I write with my right hand
-I cut ppl of when they talk , but i hate it
-French Vanilla Cappicinno, the only kind i like
-I dont like being talked about, yet i do it
-I sleep with alot of blankets
-I hate being lied to
-I have a fear of dying
-Blood grosses me out
-I hate mosquitos
-I think smoking is Disgusting
-Im an outgoing person
-Me and my friends are crazy when were together
-i sing in the shower
-I hate hotdogs
-Im inpatient
-Im a pretty happy perosn most of the time
-I dont know what many large words mean
-I dont really get along with my parents
-I LOVE Thunderstorms

If you need some advice i will try you my best to help you =]