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my best friend and her boyfriend...
hey! well i have a problem...my best friend has this boyfriend that nobody likes and personally me and him hate each other but for some reason she still goes out with him..god who knows why. but im not gonna try and break them up because they have like twice and they keep gettin back together. well whenever we are by cute guys she always flirts with them when she has a BOYFRIEND. a couple nights ago we picked up her guy friend kevin and when he was walkin up to my car she was like ohh look how hott he looks! and she always lies to her boyfriend..like he called when we were with kevin and she is like im just with kristen (me)! and nobody else..and hes like no i can hear someone else..who are you with? and shes like nobody..and when she gets off the phone she continues to flirt with him. also when i was at my cousins she has this really cute neighbor and he came over for a bit to chill with my cousin and then she was like all flirtin with him and jumped on him because she wanted "shotgun" and wouldnt get off of him! i dont know it seriously bugs me and im like ohhh you were flirtin with him! and i tried talkin to her and sayin you have a boyfriend..if you flirt with other guys then why are you still with your boyfriend? and shes like because i like him! i dont know she is my best friend..ive tryed talking to her..she just bugs me when she is around guys! ...what do you think i should do in this situation?
i will rate 5 for anyone who helps
thanks.
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stay out of it!!! i dont get along w/ my best friends boyfriend either not because i dont like him we just have nothing in common. she flirts alot too. chances are she has noooooo clue shes flirting alot of people dont my friend doesnt and i really dont notice when i am either. besides, its not like you and her boyfriend are really friends if they break up your responsibility is to your friend not to him. just stay out of the way, and be there for your friend if those 2 break up. i dont understand why it would bug you if your not his friend the fact that she lies to him sometimes shouldnt bug you either and if she told him she was hanging w/ that kevin person he may have gotten mad. if it really bugs you that much, sit down and talk to her about it. good luck!
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I know exactly how ya feel.
I would tell her what she does,
and how it bothers you. And maybe say
something like "how would you feel if
your boyfriend flirting with alot of
otherr girls all the time". Hope i helped=]
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i understand that shes your best friend..but no one deserves that. try talking to her again, and if she STILL doesnt get it, you should tell this guy whats up..maybe he'll even find out for himself that she isnt a loyal girlfriend.
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Talk to her again. Tell her she shouldn't be doing that to him.
You could set her up I guess if she's not listening to you.
Have her boyfriend come by and see how she acts around these guys.. because if you try to get into it, by telling him she's doing that.. he may not believe you.
But you should give him some proof.. like letters? a photo? record something?
I'm pretty sure he has an idea of what she's doing but he doesn't have proof. So he can't accuse her.
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Hey honey,
If she is truely your best friend, it would be highly disloyal to say anything to her boyfriend about it. Friends always come first, and it just isn't your place to get involved. Yes, what she is doing is wrong, but besides telling her how you feel about he actions...there isn't anything you can do. She get what's coming to her eventually, you can count on that. But besides letting her live and learn, just be there for her to talk when she needs you. That's is all you can do.
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okay well don't break them up you may hate her boyfriend and stuff but tell him what she is doing and stuff and i don't want to be harsh or anything on your friend or anything but she probably has a slow self esteem problem where she needs to have guys flirting back with her and she needs to learn how to treat her boyfriend better i should now because i used to be the same way even though i am turning 15 trust me it happens she may be mad at you for a while but if she is a real friend then she will forgive you for trying to help her even though she shouldn't have been mad at you in the first place. My friend Kristal did the same thing with me she told my ex the truth and he broke up with me i found out who told him and i got like really really mad at her but then i found it in my heart to forgive her cause number one she was my best friend and number two it was the best thing for me. Me and Kristal are still the best of friends and i don't treat any of my boyfriends like that any more. I may hug my friends that are guys cause 3/4 my friends are guys but i try really hard not to flirt anymore. Everybody flirts with someone even though they are going out with someone i should now becuase my friend kristal even does it and i have to remind her that shes doing it. If your friend gets mad at you for trying to help then she's isn't really somebody who cares about you or any body else she is hurting.
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Hey... it sounds like your friend doesn't have a good relationship with her boyfriend, i know you know this, but maybe you could try to point this out to her. She says she's with him because she likes him, but yet she lies to him and goes around flirting with other guys behind her back. It sounds to me like you have already pointed this out to her, but maybe you could try a different approach? It might make her mad, and probably isn't the best idea, but if you get desperate and I mean like REALLY desperate, you could try telling the guys she flirts with that she has a boyfriend. I'm sorry about how you feel.. i hope I helped a litte!
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