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My name is Chelsea Lynn but everyone calls me Glamour. I chose Tragic Glamour as my name because its been my name on myspace for over a year and i came up with it as a clothing line name 2 years ago and thought it was beautiful. Tragic: for the tragedy and pain you feel throughout your life that makes you stronger and survive through this life. Glamour: because Glamour is a way of life, beauty, fashion and a constant popularity contest we almost always seem to be in and rarely win. It makes us weak but builds us up in the same breath.
I've always been very good at giving advice. I'm like my friends personal therapist :) I'm very loveing, compassionate, creative, bold, twisted, smart, funny, funky and fabulous. I'm a makeup artist and aspiring clothing designer, model and I have an upcoming magazine called Glam Rock Magazine. I have a website: www.glamourfabulous.com Yes I'm on myspace. Who isn't now a days? (besides my lover) I'm technically single but I'm dating someone. I've loved, lost and learned. I constantly feel like I'm living in Fight Club and Reality Bites. I'm a christian. I rebel. I have an addictive obsessive personality but I'm extremely well grounded and learn/hurt easily. I do all I can to help people.

advice

Ugh ok so everyone says that making out is so fun and stuff like that. Well i'm 14/f and I have had my first kiss and stuff but it was only a pucker on the lips. I want more then that with my bf but I'm so scared I'll be like a bad kisser or something stupid like that. i also don't know how i would start making out with him bcuz i don't think he would expect me to do that. i'm not like prude or anything i just need to know what to do!! i'l rate 5s!

Does he know you haven't done much? If so try this, talk to him about kissing and say really sweetly that you'd love to kiss him but you think you might be bad at it. Then be like, wanna teach me? Be all cute and he'll think its really sexy and be like, yeah of course, practice makes perfect. Hehe


Good luck doll!

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my bff spends WAY too much time with her bf!! She said she would even out the time she spends with both of us but she hasn't. This is her first bf. We have gotten in a lot of arguments about it and she has even lied to me when doing something with him. What am I supposed to do?

That always seems to happen when friends get bf's. Try really planning things, like sleepovers and stuff. Even go to the movies with her and her bf all as friends. Try to get involved and if that doesn't work sit her down and tell her how you feel really calmly to avoid arguments. If nothing changes after that give her space, eventually they'll break up or shell get sick of him and need some major girl time and then the time will even out natrually.

Good luck sweetheart. I know its hard but I have faith you'll get through it!

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I love your layout where did you get it?

I used the your space setting with a hot pink color scheme and the background is a picture I found on the internet. If you want ill show you a few of my background pictures and let you use it :)

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Alright. Well. I Found Out In The Beginning Of The Year That My One Friend Alicia Said Something Pretty Hurtful About Me To Our Other Friend Jasmine. Well, Alicia Said Something About My Weight && It Was Mean. I Didn't Bring It Up Then Because I Was Too Embarassed && Stuff. But, Should I Just Forget About It? Or Bring It Up Now (Not Like Get Mad, But Ask Her About It)? Or Is It Too Late && I Just Should Let It Go? I'll Rate && Give Feedback. Thanks!

Ask her about it! Its never too late for that sorta thing. Sure if you would've brought it up earlier you would be more entitled to get mad about it but if you ask her calmly and casually now without getting all mad the convo will go smoother.

Good luck sweetheart!

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what brings out green eyes?

Browns, blues, turquoise eyeliner and black.

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I'm eighteen years old, and female.

This morning, I just had anal sex with my boyfriend for the first time. I was allright during, and it was fully consentual, but now, several hours later, I can't shake this feeling of guilt.

My question is, is it common to feel guilty after a sexual act? If there's any advice that you can offer, I would appreciate it. I'm feeling ashamed of myself and I don't want to let my boyfriend touch me sexually ever again, and I really want things to be the same as they were before.

It is totally normal. Question though.. Have you talked to your boyfriend since? A lot of times people feel guilty for the reason that they think it will be different between the two of you after. Give it time and act like nothings changed. Eventually it will feel like nothing has changed. If that doesn't work, you might wanna talk it out with your bf. But I think it will get better for you soon.

Good luck sweetheart

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is walking cardio or aerobic exercise? i want to lose my stomach flab because whenever i do crunches, they never work and i have been doing them for like 3 monthes and 5 times a week. so if i walk around my street and stuff for like 20 mintues.. would that help me lose that stomach fat ? if so how long will i be able to see results?

if walking doesnt help lose stomach weight, what can other than running and diet?

Do more than 20 mins. Like 30mins. It will help. And its a cardio workout to walk. Then I suggest you do carmen electras aerobic striptease. Its a fun and easy way to tone up every part of your body especially legs and stomach.

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I want to lose at least 20 pounds before summer

am i waaaay to late to start a diet right now? will it be like impossible to lose 20 pounds before june 1st?

Do weight watchers strictly and buy carmen electras aerobic striptease and the weight should melt off. Its all a matter of having the willpower to keep it off...

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Lizzie Gracie and Nermonie are in a big fight. Nermonie and Gracie are on the same side. Nermonie got a hold of Lizzie's diary and photocopied the page that had all the guys she'd love to date on it then made flyers with her biggest secrets and that list and handed them out to everyone in our grade. It didn't stop there. Nermonie and Gracie made a rumor that Lizzie and her sister masterbate together and finger each other. Everytime Lizzie walks down the halls all the guys hold up a finger and say " Hey Liz, we worship you, " or something like " Finger your sister latley? " Its gotten way outta hand. I asked gracie what her deal was, and she said " Nothing, Lizzie didnt do anything. I just dont like her" Lizzie is my best friends, and I wanna help her. She cries everyday, shes sucha strong person, and very sweet to everyone, but with everyone giving her the dirty looks, holding up the fingering sign, talking bad about her to her face she just cant take it.


I wanna know what I should do to help, everynight I called her and she cries to me for hours about what somebody did to her that day. How can I end this, she never did anything. Please help

Wow. Its like your living in the movie mean girls! I give your friend such props for being sooo strong.
Well there's two choices. Conspire together for revenge and beat them at there own game. Maybe find a mutual friend who's mad at what they're doing to your friend and have her help. Or you could take the high road and do nothing or tell the principal or bitch those girls out in front of EVERYONE. Just to show everyone how stupid they are. Tell they're secrets to everyone in front of them.
This situation has gotten out of hand and needs some serious damage control. Something drastic needs to happen to stop it so I, personally, would do the flyer thing back to them with secrets or incriminating photos. And then I'd bitch her out in front of everyone. But that's just me.

I hope everything turns out for the greater good and I know some horrible karma is gonna come back to those girls. Tell your friend to stay strong and even some chick online is behind her all the way.

Good luck sweetheart.

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I'm 15/f, and my mum has a lot of problems including alcoholism which I won't go in to, but she split from my dad when I was 7.
They never told me why but by the time I was 11, I'd worked out she is gay. It scared me so much, I convinced myself I was insane so I wouldn't have to deal with it. And no-one else knew. Then, about 18 months ago, my mum told me and my brother that she's gay. It hurt to hear it out loud, but was a bit of a relief too.
We've never ever spoke about it since, but I know she has a current partner, and she's becoming more... open with her partner in front of me. Which I can't stand. I can't tell her how this gets to me, I just can't bring myself to mention her sexuality, it hurts too much. What can I do, apart from walking out everytime they're together?

Darling I know its tough and it kills you inside but it will hurt more if you don't deal with it out loud. Talk to your mother about it. Maybe you two together can talk it all out and hear eachothers feelings about it and maybe even reach a compromise like she won't bring her partner around you or something else. The conversation will feel devastating at the time but if you bottle it up it will explode later in other ways.

I send all my luck and support.

Glamour

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i was just wondering if this happened to anyone. my bely ring got infected prob cus i touched it and changed alot but i switched mi cleaning stuff to bactine i was using sea salt before n the infection went away but i liek burned it and it just never healed after that and so i went to a piercer n they told me to take it out and get repierced but the hole is taking forever to close. n i went to a different piercer n they said i woudl have to forget about it for awhile till it heals. im just wondering if anyone has had this happen or knows anything abuot hwo logn it take or if thre is anything i canput on it

My situation was my belly ring got really infected and my body rejected it to the point where it wore through the skin. It took two years to almost fully heal from that. I'm afraid your gonna have to wait like a year or so till its just a scar. Then they'll have to peirce the scar tissue.
I know that's majorly frusterating cause you want it now, like I did, but you will probably have to forget about for a while. Try getting another peircing... That's what I did. I moved from the belly ring to an eyebrow ring to my now monroe.


Good Luck doll.
Glamour

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http://www.focusas.com/Depression.html
That's the site that I found the depression symptoms on! I've had all except the last 3 and the running away one. I'm relly scared and I don't want to tell my mom because she has alot on her plate right now and I don't want her to knoe. My mom has depression too I think and they did say it could run in families. She had it when she was 28 or 30 and now I have it wen I'm 14! I don't want to have it forever and I would relly appreciate any possible help!! Please because I don't want to grow up morbid

My mom has depression. So does my grandma and great grandma. Its hereditary. Most of my friends have it too. If you leave it untreated it could get really bad. My mom spent 5-7 years of my life asleep, laying in her bed, crying from depression. I really suggest you talk to your mom about it and go to a doctor. Meds for depression really help and your doing fabulous by looking into the symptoms and everything.

Good luck sweetheart.

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I really like this guy but I found out he likes one of our other friends.

I'm not sure if she likes him, but she's doesn't seem to be discouraging him...

I don't know what to do.

She doesn't know I like him.

I only told our other friend. (since she kind of guessed so.)

But now I've stopped hugging and walking too close to both of them. I can't smile around either. I get a sick feeling.

I don't want to get in between them if they want to have a relationship.

Should I just avoid them? And not go hang around them at lunch and in between classes and after school?

I don't know.

I feel a lot better when away from the two but then all of them will think I hate them...

I've been in this situation before doll and I have to say I regreted soooo much not telling him how I felt. He may like her but it doesn't mean he's married. It seems like you wanna avoid the whole thing and that's what I did, and in my case they ended up being very happy together but, I always regreted not telling him how I truely felt. What's the worse that could happen? He doesn't feel that way? If he doesn't, act like everythings ok and brush it off. Then you can both move on and stay friends. If he does than you two could end up being one anothers true love. But you'll never know by avoiding it all. Avoiding it could cause a loss of communication and friendship between you two which gives her an advantage if she kinda likes him.
Just tell him how you feel. You'll feel better knowing than guessing and secretly hurting.



Good luck sweetheart!
Glamour

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WELL I know this may be kind of wierd but, I like this girl. I met her Online and that's it. We talk everyday and flirt all the time, She's even told me she likes girls also. I told her I had a crush and she wanted to know who it was and I lied to her saying it was my OTHER friend, but it was really her. I feel bad but not at the same time because...I don't know how she'll react. I keep dropping hints and everything but either she doesn't get it or doesn't want to get it. I'm a mess about this..cuz I really do like her. What should I do??

Be straight up with her! Be like, yeah I really like this girl she's amazingg, and when she says really who? Say YOU.
Be sweet and be honest. There's nothing sexier than that. And plus, you know her from the internet right? That is the easiest place to say things you wouldn't normally say flat out in person.
Communication is key in every relationship and trust me, weither she likes you or not, it will be so much better knowing than guessing.

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i have not had my period in 4 weeks and 6 days is that bad?

I'd wait a week or so before I'd worry. If you haven't gotten it by then I think you should go buy a pregnancy test.

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how do i flirt sucessfully with a woman. i am a green leaf when it comes down to flirting. mst of the time my attempts fail me, i want to be able to make a woman laugh and attract her some how. im almost 7ft tall. that at times hinders me to. your tips and advice are very much welcomed. thanks

Start with a compliment about something unique. Like her eyes, eyebrows, clothing, hands, etc... Then if she says something back sweetly, engage in a conversation with her and maybe some of her friends as well. That should get your foot in the door...

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my boyfriend wants to give me a gold diamond ring and i told him no but he said he is going to buy it any way should i let him i will feel bad though cause he is wasting his money on me but he said he is not but still he talks about getting me stuff but i say no then i say i am going to get him things and he says no can anyone help me on how me and him can buy eachother things without the guilt? plez help fast he is gonna get the ring on wednessday

Well you gotta figure out why you feel guilty if he gets you stuff. If its because of a money issue, you shouldn't feel guilty if he doesn't find it a problem. And he probably feels guilty by taking your gifts because you say no to his. Does the ring have meaning? Like a promise ring or more? I say don't feel guilty and make it an issue if he doesn't. And if he doesn't want you to buy him gifts, make him gifts. Show him your heart.

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i know this sounds kinda weird but im 13/f and im starting to get like pimples and stuff on my back(ew) and ive got a dance coming up and its got kind of a low back line. is there anything i can do to get my back to clear up? thanx i rate high!

if you use st ives apricot scrub body wash or facial wash on your back and moisterize with olay quench body lotion it will clear up and not dry up and youll look flawless and silky smooth!

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hey, I have light brown hair, fair skin, and hazel eyes, and i want to start wearing a little eye make-up. Any suggestions?

it depends on how your eyes are. like are they deep set? bulging? etc etc... usually id recommend some black eyeshadow along the lash line and some great mascera like maybelline sky high mascera and some black eyeliner on the bottom.

any other questions id loveee to answer!
Glamour

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HELPPP....im 14, im 5'6" and i weight bout 120 (give or take a few pounds) i wanna know some ways to tone up my body before summer, mostly in stomache area and thighs, any help would be great thanks...xoxo

a realllly fun way to tone up is using Carmen Electra's Aerobic Striptease. TRUST ME it works!

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