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Q: I've been using Limewire to download music for some time now. Is it illegal since it's free?
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lime wire isnt iligal but downloading music is iligal
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Q: My boyfriend is going to another country to be with his family. We've been together for just 4 months and i don't know if our relationship's worth keeping or not.
Please help me!
P.S.
I'm fifteen years old, by the way.
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well its never easy but if you dont think a long distance relationship is going to work. then tell him but make a point to stay in contact n b m8s hope it helps kim x
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Q: i dont know what to do
he always says he hates his life and wants to die
there is stuff EFFED up in his life but not to where he should die i mean its not THAT THAT BAD considering his mom died and his dad sometimes beats him. but his dad really loves him a LOT he can just be an asshole to his dad.
hes like 'im going to cut myself like rite now' and all this stuff because it "RELIVES STRESS FOR HIM" i dont know what to say
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cutting is so common now andt does relive stress. you cant make someone promise stop doing it because thats im possible bece you can primise but they can still do it. just there for him and try and help but if you think he is going to comm suicide you have to tell someone good luk kim x
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Q: i had my 13 birthday 1 and a half months ago and my mom threw me a big party where me and my boyfriend slept together for the first time after being together nearly 2 years. after that we agreed not to do it again for a while 'cos i didnt felt ready, i missed my period so i took a pregnancy test and it was posative! i have told him (he is almost 15) and he says he will stand by me what ever i choose but i am so affraid. i feel helpless, please help me :(
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the first thing you should do is tell someone you trust and are close to in your family because no one can hide a secret like that. your family will understand and even thht it might be a shock to them things will calm down. dont just think you have to have an bortion because of your age do what YOU think is right and not wat anyone else wants hope i helped kim xx
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Q: I have crush on this really cute boy named Dan.I've heard rumors that he likes me.I want us to be together but I don't want to tell him that I like him.What should I do?Oh,and I'm 14 and I'm obviously a girl.I'm from Singapore.
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if you dont tell him then hes not going to know so just talk to him and get to know him better and after a while maybe ask him out
hope it helped
kim
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Q: Okay well I'm 13 and I'm in the 7th grade and I'm worried about my friend. Okay shes pretty much drop-dead gorgeous and could get any guy she wants. Well I mean she's not like a slut or anything (Okay she kissed her ex boyfriend(corey) 4 times he was her first kiss ... and then shes made out with her current boyfriend once. ).
Anyways she has had family problems. She has two little sisters and they get favored and her mom pretty much yells at her 24/7 and ignores her all the time.
Then recently, about 2 weeks ago, she went to her neighbors house(AJ) and Corey was there. Well Corey grabbed her and she was sitting on him ..., hes like really muscular so she couldn't get away, anyways Corey started rubbing her body and then AJ's like on top of her and hes unhooking her bra. She finally got away and ran into the bathroom and Corey comes in and he was all like awwl hilary i'm sorry for being a jerk i'll help you. So Hilary believed him and he ended up unhooking it again. This kept on happening she was there for about 2 hours.
So shes pretty tramatized from that and her mom. Well to make things worse her mom was yelling at her Tuesday night and she wasn't really paying attention because she hates being yelled at. Her dad then asked her if she was paying attention and she was like it's kinda hard not to dad when shes screaming at me. Then her dad comes over and punches her jaw(and her neck cracked).
Now Hilary is one of my bffae and I don't know what to say to her to help her or anything. Please help me on what I can do for this situation to help her out.
Ohh and we were going to call child abuse people if her dad hit her again.
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dnt wait for it to happen again you have to tell someone because the longer you leave it he harder it will be to speak out. She should also tell someone about what corey did to her it wasnt right or acceptable.
if her parents are always shouting at her then maybe you shudl suggest to her maybe about talkin to her family about it. there are a lot of people who can help her if it is really getting her down. it will help if she knows if shes got someone there for her so make sure sh eknows shes got a friend
i hope shes ok
kim
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Q: how old should i be to have sex in your opinion (f)?
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the age you shoudl be is when youre ready. becuse some people could be ready at 13 but some may not it depends on the person
kim
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Q: I am a very self concious person and I was wondering if Anyone has tips on how to make a plan outfit look cuter, or more "gangsta lol" Or just better put together and not so plain..?
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acessories make an outfit put a nice necklace and bracletwith an outfit. cute badges can make a plain top better they are cheap and easy to iny most acessory shops ill have them
hope it luks gud
kim
:)
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Q: well my ex and i went out for about 6 months and i got really attached and then she broke up with me at the valentines day dance. well i still have strong feelings for her, but she has a b/f now and im really missing her. well she says she is missing me back and she says she still loves me, but yet she wont brake up with her current b/f to be with me. im starting to fall in love with one of her friends from soccer but i still love my ex more than her friend bu tim getting the feeling my ex is just making up that she misses me, and i told her if she doesnt brake up with her current b/f for me im gonna ask someone else out, but she doesnt know that its her friend from soccer that i like. idk wut to do. plz help me.
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its hard toget over your ex but making her choose isnt a good thing o do. what your asking her to do isnt fair. shes taken which means you will just hav to wait for them to brake up. if you like another girl then maybe you will like her more after time. i think if you dont end p goin out tell her that its her m8
good luk
kim
:)
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Q: i think my boyfriend is cheating on me he went out and bought me a whole bunch of things and i think he does'nt want me to suspect anything when it comes to the phone we used to be alot but not alot if u know wat i mean but anyways now when i try to call him is phone is off or he presses end wich makes it go to voice mail and i call his home phone and i can hear him and another young girl in the backround i can tell that the girl is like 15 around his and my age but his room mate always answers and says he's not there. wat do you guys/grls think is he cheating on me or am i just being paranoed
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your not being paranoid and maybe you should ask him. talk to him about it. let him know youre worried and ask his friends if he has before. there isnt a lot you could do if he was cheating but its your choice but if it was up o me id drop him if hes not treating you right
kim
good luk
:)
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Q: I love knowing that my boyfriend is caring and trusting but I can't help but feel like I need to watch him. I know he likes me and doesn't want to be with anyone else, but I can help checking the comments he gets from other girls on Myspace or how he looks at other girls. I know its pretty normal for any girl to do that. When he doesn't message me (when he's online) I get nervous that he thinks I'm insane or something. Yet I know that he probably isn't paying attention to the screen, is busy, etc. I've never been like this with any of my other boyfriends and he makes me nervous/intimidated, (In a good way) because he's exactly the type of guy I've always wanted. I just don't want to lose him but I know inside he likes me a lot. How can I deal with these somewhat jealous feelings I get when he talks with other girls and understand he likes me not them? Sorry if that sounded conceited, I'll rate.
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im sure you have nothing to worry about maybe he just wasnt there when you sent him a message. if you really like him then maybe youre just worried because you like him so much. im sure you will be fine.
dont worry im sure youll get thru it nd you have nothing to worry abot
kim
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Q: Im a 14 year old girl, and i am in 8th grade. i Was going out with this one gay....lets call him Jay, i was going out with Jay for 4 months and i think he was my first true love, i still love him but i dumped him because it just had to be done, he didnt treat me right but that didnt stop me from loving him and i still do, the next day his best friend asked me out because he had been crushing on me for 3 months and i said yes because he was super nice, sweet, i knew he would treat me right, and he has. Lets call this guy Tom, well me and tom have been going out for a little more than a month now and he is amazing, and my feelings for my ex are starting to come back, i do not want to be with him, no mader how much i love him i can never be with him again, i guess my question to you is, how do i make these felings go away? or do i let them come back because what is ment to be is what it ment to be... anything helps, thank you!
-Ugh lets call me Wendy
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it takes a long time to get over your ex but yu said he didnt treat you right and thats one reason straight away not to go out wif a guy. and if youre happy with your new bf then maybe hes the better guy to be with. if you can never be with him again then maybe you shoudl just focus on your current relationship. it aound like youve got a good thing going.
good luk
kim
xx
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Q: my sound just....stopped working. like it's turned up and everything but it won't work. i restarted my computer but it didn't do anything...does anyone know what it might be?? 5's
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that happened to my computer i had to reinstall the microsoft software. but se if you know anyone whos good with computers just to check but that would probbly be the best thing to do
hope it works
kim
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Q: ok well i have this friend lets call her Ella and its really cool when we hang out because she seems really nice, but then i hear off my other friends at school that she talks and bitches about me behind my back, and i don't know what to do? please help, i can't talk to her about it and i don't want to lose her as a friend as we have a laugh together, what do i do?
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its never a nice thing to hear your friends have been mean about you by her back. dont retaliate by bitching back talk to her and ask her if was true. ask her kindly thought becasue they bay just be rumours. if she is your friend then i see no problem why you shouldnt sort it out. good luk
kim
x
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Q: 17/F
I'm really scared about what my parents are making me do. Last year I was sent to a hospital for manic depression and compusive behavior. I was released two weeks into school. Thank god I had my bf or I would have gone crazy. U see hospitals scare me everytime I go into one someone dies(someone close to me). So when I over heard my parents talking about taking me to a different hospital last week I freaked out. I've stared cutting again and I cry myself to sleep at night. If I didn't have my bf I wouldn't even go to school cause my grades suck.
Someone help me I don't want to go back
I'm scared
Ps
I rate high
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i know its hard because i was like that bu you have to tell someone its the only way to make it better. tell them what has made you start doing it again take small stpe to try and overcome your problems or if it gets really out of your control go see a therapist good luk i hope you get on alright.
kim
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Q: this week end my best friend's family is coming over for easter. The boy I like is my best friends brother so he's coming to. I'm really worried I'll do something wrong and make him not like me because i think he does like me. what should i do??
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just relax have a good time and you wont be orried about it the less worried you are th easier itll be
good luk
kim
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Q: I hear all these stories on how people make themselves pass out. Just out of innocent curiousity, how do you do that? Someone told me that you press a part of your body or something?
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its a stupid thing to do dont try it. people can die from it i wouldnt try and passing out isnt a nice thing to do anyway.
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Q: I'm having a sleepover soon, its not a big one or anything, only a couple of friends. Its just, they're new girls at school and i dont know them very well, so i dont want it to be awkward. Does anyone know any good things to do at sleepovers so we wont get bored?
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watch a movie n have a laugh make sure you have plenty to eat and try out doing things like eachothers hair. if youre watching a movie if t goes quiet it wnt matter dat much
good luk have a gd time
kim
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Q: I'm 13/f. Whenever I sometimes pick on my sister or don't let her touch my stuff, my mom keeps calling me b*tch. Even when I do stuff that's not even that harsh, she still says I'm "b*tching" around. But I'm not a biatch! And I get hurt when my mom calls me so but I don't think she feels I am. What should I do?
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tell your mum it upsets you and talk to her it will get better afterwards. explain to her you dont thing your been a B*ith. talking always helps good luk
kim
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Q: 13/F
I'm getting contacts tomorrow, and I'm kind of worried about it. I'll have to take them out every day, and I'm kind of scared I won't be able to put them in correctly, rip them, or hurt my eyes. My mom is finally trusting me with contacts, so I REALLY want to be able to make her believe I'm ready for them. Can anyone please give me steps on how to put them in and take them out?
-mystical_breeze
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its never easy the firt time but opticians can give you a lot of help and advice. i was worried about putting mine in but once you have found a way to put them in that suits you then its easy. good luk its not that hard really its gets easier as time goes by. dnt worry if you cnt do it firt time it took me a while to figure it out
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bio
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hi im kim im 14 and i live in leeds and im friends wif anyone reali :P im tall (ish) ive got blinde hair n green eyes n i fink i just know everything bout ever1 of ma m8s which cn b gd or not ya neva know but im here to help so... cya kim x
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Gender: Female Location: leeds Age: 14 AIM: MSN: kim_vause_05@hotmail.co.uk Member Since: April 10, 2006 Answers: 37 Last Update: May 14, 2006 Visitors: 2258
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