trina answered Thursday April 13 2006, 4:09 pm: ok i really wanted to answer your question in my opinion there is a lot of guys and girls out there and there is always some1 really special for you i would say being a virgian when you are married is the biggest gift you can give your husband or wife it is somthing only they have of yours because did you no legaly everything belongs to your parents untill you are 18 and to me the only thing that i have of my own is my virginity it is mine to keep or give away when ever i want but when its gone its gone forever i hope i helped answer your question. [ trina's advice column | Ask trina A Question ]
meaghanek answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 11:10 pm: at least 45. In fact, if you are actually posting this, then you should never have sex because you are a moron and God forbid you have kids! [ meaghanek's advice column | Ask meaghanek A Question ]
juiiCy_youngxladii answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 10:23 pm: i would say 16 or 17.
mostly 18+ because your more of an adult and you can now make your own dicision
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LuLucy answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 8:55 pm: After marriage:
Sex is a connection that should not be treated lightly, and if you are devoted enough to a person to marry him, then you are prepared for sex. [ LuLucy's advice column | Ask LuLucy A Question ]
LadyGoodman answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 8:31 pm: There's no set age. I've known 16 year olds who've treated it really responsibly, and 22 year olds who haven't at all. It obviously depends on a person's individual maturity level. Just wait until you're comfortable with it. If you're with a guy and you have to ask yourself if you should have sex with him, (assuming you're a girl??) then you probably aren't ready. Wait until you're really comfortable with your body and the person.
PS- It is not illegal to have sex in the US if you are under 18. It IS illegal for someone over 18 to have sex with you if you are under 18. Kind of a big difference. [ LadyGoodman's advice column | Ask LadyGoodman A Question ]
twistedsister17 answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 7:54 pm: I would have to say around 18+ only because in the U.S. it is illegal if you're under 18. Also it's not a good idea to be doing it in highschool because let's say you have a boyfriend and you two have it, and then you break up after. (80% of people who've had sex in highschool end up breaking up soon after it.) You will still have to SEE that person EVERYDAY in highschool. When you get to college it's a little bit different. You are really going to want to wait until you're 18, or else you may regret it.
jealousyxo answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 5:45 pm: Well im my opinion,I would say whenever your mature enough and ready to take care of a child if you end up pregnant,and know the consequences of sex.But I guess if i had to pick an age,i would say uhmm around 16 or 17.
someone1234 answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 4:53 pm: There is no right or wrong age, you will know when you are ready. As long as you are old enough to know to use protection and as long as you find the right guy that you trust. Then its ok but if you have to ask, chances are your not ready. [ someone1234's advice column | Ask someone1234 A Question ]
kim06 answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 4:30 pm: the age you shoudl be is when youre ready. becuse some people could be ready at 13 but some may not it depends on the person
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BrandonsGirl answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 4:19 pm: whenever your ready.
NakedFaery answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 4:19 pm: When you're ready. I'm Pagan, and I believe that loving, consensual sex between any two people is a wonderful thing.
So provided you ready, comfortable and not pressured, then whenever you want.
It's generally not a good idea to have sex under the age of consent (in the US it's 18), but it won't damage your body if you do. The age of consent in the UK is 16...so attitude towards sex varies differently. It is best to avoid sex if you are VERY young (under the age of about 13) because your vagina is not fully developed, and being engorged by the penis may cause a 13 year old quite considerable discomfort.
itsz_JESS answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 4:10 pm: well when your ready is the point but you should have sex when your mostly responsible and know what will acutally happen and the consequences.. around age 18 or older possibly [ itsz_JESS's advice column | Ask itsz_JESS A Question ]
xEVYx answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 4:08 pm: Whenever you're mature enough to support a baby on your own.
abercrombiee_x3 answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 4:07 pm: I think when you are married ..., but thats just because I am Catholic. Uhmm but if you weren't married, I would say probably after 18 because your an adult and responsable for all your actions.
xomegaroni answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 3:59 pm: i don't think there's an exact age. i think you should be mature, ready, know the guy well, & know that you both love each other. in my opinion, i think it should be after marriage, but if you guys are 18 & know you wanna get married, then it isn't a big deal. whenever you both are ready. also protection is something the person should think about.
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