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hey wassup i'm sapphire thomas.i can pretty much help in any area.i try my best to give good answers that are helpful.i'm 13 years of age,i can help in music advice anything

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i watched some porn on my comp. i was a lil curious about some things... and now its permanately on my address bar and Idk how to get it off.
how do i delete it off my address bar memory for good?
ILL RATE REALLY WELL. (link)
tools> internet options> general> clear history


ok im 13/f and one of my friends have been "messing around" lately but i wont have sex with him without a condom. the problem is my mother stil thinks im a virgin. i dont know how to get birth control or condoms without my mom finding out. in the area i live in there is only 2 small gas stations around which both carry condoms but i have a feeling my mom would find out about me buying them, i wouldnt be so worried about her finding out if the guy was 16. i have had sex with him before and ended up missing my period for 2 months! are there any ideas on how to get protection?
please help soon! i rate well! (link)
THAT IS ILLEGAL.If it is a amall town she is bound to find out.TRUST ME. by the way you are toooo young to be engaging in sexual acts, but if you insist have him buy it.


p.s if he can drive even better


Ok so I have been seeing this guys *Jim* for a little over a year and I really love him. We makeout all the time, he's gotten up my shirt and just today he fingered me many times and I gave him a blowjob. Now I know this may not seem like alot to you but for me it is and that might be just because I`m 13. Now I have a question would you consider me a slut? How much do you think he likes me. (I am his first girlfriend, first kiss, first everything)? please answer this i am so nervous and scared. (link)
are you even allowed to do that stuff at 13?. anyway no your not a slut.if you do this to many different guys then sure you would be but he's your boyfriend, you are absolutely not.


IM 15/f and i really like this kid who has a gf and turns 18 today. i've practicaly changed part of my life to win him over. I think i;m going to give up b/c he has a gf. i talked to him a while ago. i was stupid last month and told him i loved him. he said he kinda liked me but he has a gf. she is 17. I started to dress different and listen to different music and like different things. do you think i should give up on him and just stop thinking/talking to him/seeing him. or should i act like everything is fine? he is going to help me this summer to helo me join the basketball team next year. im rly excited. i dont know what to do though b/c everytime i see him or talk to him i fall in love with him again. he flirts with me and everything and i love it. but, i dont know if i can do it anymore. so do you think i should forget all about him and move on or should i just continue getting my heart broken when i see him and just wait for something to finally happen? i rate good answers.

thanks!! (link)
no. don't wait, he's not in to you even though you changed half of who you are for him to like you and still he doesn't budge and flirts with you. he's a stupid player. tell him if he doesn't like you don't flirt with you or talk to you. aight

hope i helped


ok so ...

theres this goth/skater/punk/whatever the freak he is. well for the past few months he has been seriously flirting with me. problem: he and i both know that i already am seeing someone. a while ago we went to this play out in the city. of course i had to sit next to him because we sat near each other on the bus. on the bus he kept looking back and staring into my eyes and stuff like that. then when we got to the play and everyone was settled in their seats, the lights went down. i was watching the play and then i felt him touching me kind of uncomfortably like all over my legs and arms. after a while it was bothering me so i would slap his hand because he was annoying. but then every five minutes or so he would start stroking me. after the thing was over i was like whatever and we left.

now in school he comes to my locker every morning and afternoon even if my bf is standing there (my boyfriend gets pissed off too). also, the guy always wants a hug in the halls and sometimes makes sexual comments online. in 4th period (language arts), he always tries to catch my eye and when he does, he makes very ... innapropriate body language. if you know what i mean =/

he's in my social studies class. i think it's normal for him to act like that to girls because theres another girl he tanterizes in my ss class and even a group of his friends he has who like his behavior at lunch. he likes touching our hair and hes always finding a way to touch someone -- and one time he even licked my hand. but you have to see that most of the times he jokes and plays around. but im not sure. gosh does that even make sense?

he's nice and makes me laugh sometimes but what kind of friendship is this?

what can i say when i just want him to quit it? (link)
now you need to let him know that what he's doing to you is illegal, and you don't like it. if he continues, let him know you are going to place a complaint to the school or the police make sure you also tell him it it illegal to sexually harass someone especially to a girl and he's a boy.tell it to him seriously so he knows your not playing.......


p.s. tell your mom. explain to her exactly as you did to us here.


is it alright for your boyfriend to umm, tie you to a bed and have rough sex with you? (link)
depends ....


how old should i be to have sex in your opinion (f)? (link)
in my opinion 16 or 17.bcuz here in the caribbean [dominica] its 16


i been with my gf for about 3 months, we talked for about 4 months befor getting together. we only have communication by phone every day since we don't see each other, we only see each other on week-ends. in the 2nd month of our relationship we had sex (she was a virgin). since than we mostly spend our week-ends having sex but week days talking serious of our daily lifes. she says she loves me but i think i been come an obsession for her. what can it be obsession or love? (link)
well i think it's love she was a virgin since you took it she feels a lot more attached to you. sex can cause that.


i really need to know some good love songs!!!! so if oyu have ne good ones please reply!!!! (link)
1 toni braxton-spanish guitar[look on vh1.com/artists type in her name look for her song
2 ne-yo-so sick[ same thing vh1]
3 or search google for"love songs"


my best friend likes the same guy as i do. its no fair cause i liked him first and starting talking to him first. but now she's talking to him and flirting constantly with him. she always gets the guy she wants and i dont think it is right. i dont know what to do. she knows i like him and she still does it. this isnt the first time either. she seriously my best friend and has been since 1st grade. i dont know what to do about her though. i really like this guy and im afraid that if she keeps flirting with him that he will start falling for her and i really dont want that to happen. i invited him to the movies and he said that he would get back to me on that either way. i dont know what that means. what should i do about this? (link)
TELL THAT BITCH TO BACK UP.but if you know he really likes you & you r sure you like him you tell her that or explain to her, or get closer to him on a level she can 't touch.


I have a very unhealthy crush on my coach. He is so gorgeous and awesome and I can't help but like him. He always talks to me and has told me if it wasn't against the rules he would give me hugs. Whenever I'm in class he waves through the window at me and smiles. At lunch we always talk when he's on his way to the gym and he says he misses having me in class. He's only 10 years older than me and I think about him constantly. I've had dreams about him where we get married and stuff like that. I need to get over him. How can I? and is it normal that he acts like that? (link)
soooooo you like him & he's 26 maybe you should wait a few more years.out of school. find a boyfriend to spend time with maybe even cuter than yr coach


Me and my boyfriend are going through really hard times right now. He keeps telling me how he's too busy to talk or too tired to even figure things out. And I feel like I've just been the one to deal with his bad moods lately. Last night I was explaining to him how hurt I was about the fact that I was crying and all he could talk about was how tired he was about it. He just said that he just can't deal with all of this, so I told him that he doesn't have to deal with me anymore and we hung up. I'm always the one to come back to him after a fight. So, this time I'm letting him make the move. He's called twice tonight and I didn't answer because I just think he needs more room.

So my questions are: If he really cares about me, will he still keep calling to prove that he does want this to work?

How will I know that he really does want this to work?

Should I give him time? because I really don't want to be hurt anymore by the fact that he doesn't want to talk lately.

I need some advice, I will rate to let you know what I think (link)
to hell wit u gurl



are you supposed to use a condom for oral sex? (link)
yes and for each different area .


Okay well I'm 13 and I'm in the 7th grade and I'm worried about my friend. Okay shes pretty much drop-dead gorgeous and could get any guy she wants. Well I mean she's not like a slut or anything (Okay she kissed her ex boyfriend(corey) 4 times he was her first kiss ... and then shes made out with her current boyfriend once. ).

Anyways she has had family problems. She has two little sisters and they get favored and her mom pretty much yells at her 24/7 and ignores her all the time.

Then recently, about 2 weeks ago, she went to her neighbors house(AJ) and Corey was there. Well Corey grabbed her and she was sitting on him ..., hes like really muscular so she couldn't get away, anyways Corey started rubbing her body and then AJ's like on top of her and hes unhooking her bra. She finally got away and ran into the bathroom and Corey comes in and he was all like awwl hilary i'm sorry for being a jerk i'll help you. So Hilary believed him and he ended up unhooking it again. This kept on happening she was there for about 2 hours.

So shes pretty tramatized from that and her mom. Well to make things worse her mom was yelling at her Tuesday night and she wasn't really paying attention because she hates being yelled at. Her dad then asked her if she was paying attention and she was like it's kinda hard not to dad when shes screaming at me. Then her dad comes over and punches her jaw(and her neck cracked).

Now Hilary is one of my bffae and I don't know what to say to her to help her or anything. Please help me on what I can do for this situation to help her out.

Ohh and we were going to call child abuse people if her dad hit her again. (link)
ok i'm 13 too and there is no way i would wait for a next time you should call the child abuse people now or well fair. you can ask her to spend some time with you and ask for those boys i would let them have it but don't do that.does your mom know?answer this question. tell a teacher and your mom if she doesn't know.


Ok, it's about the question you just answered...the girl trying to steal my boyfriend. If I just went up to her and started telling her off or something in front of my boyfriend, Im not sure how he would take it, because he is really good friends with her...(i'm not sure y...i guess he hasn't seen the evil side of her yet...) I'm just scared he wont like me anymore if i do that...any advice? Its ok if you dont know....i wont give you a bad rating or anything. (link)
explain to your boyfriend about the situation in a calm voice and tell him about his so called friend who wants him for herself. if he doesn't give a good response or do something or be aware he'll end up cheating especially if she's flurtacious. you know


Well my Best friend's boyfriend broke up with her because he liked me. She knows this. I feel so bad. I don't like him....i have a boyfriend. My boyfriend is his friend. I am so confused. I don't know if my friend hates me now. She always seems really sad around me. Can anyone help me?

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tell your friend it wasn't your idea. for doing that your friend's boyfriend is a damass and a straight up player, wanna be.


Please help! SORRY...THIS IS REALLY LONG, BUT I NEED HELP!!
There is this bratty girl at my school who is like my worst enemy. She is like trying to steal my boyfriend. The other day I caught her blowing kisses to my boyfriend when I wasn't looking. (he wasn't looking either)...Then she is always talking to me and saying "I was with your boyfriend yesterday and we did this...." She always scuzzes me off in the hallways. When this other girl liked my boyfriend a long time ago, she was spreading rumors about her around the school. I was talking to my boyfriend about it, and he said "i don't like her, i swear...we are just friends"....i believe him too, he has never lied to me.....so i know that he doesn' like her, but i am 100% positive that the bratty girl does like him...she has even told me. I am totally sick of her trying to steal my boyfriend... what should i do??
*on so many levels* (link)
you need to buckle up because the slightest chance she gets she will try to get him so what you need to do is confront her.tell her "if she tries that stunt there's no way you are gonna let her of the hook". bitch slap her if she tries to send kisses for him again.


Hey,
I am going to Florida for spring break, which is in two weeks.

So, I went to the mall today to go shopping for my vacation. I went to go and buy a bikini,and I knew it would be hard to find one because I have a very large chest.

Well, I went to four different stores, and could not find a single one that fit me...

Does anyone know any stores that would have stuff for girls with a big chest...?

And I would like a bikini, not a one piece...

Thank you...
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ok i have a little bit of the same problem, but i don't let that be a problem because girls with bigger chests usually look awesome in a smaller bikini. maybe you can mix and match witha victoria's secret bra and same color bottom. [ LOOK AWESOME . NO WORRIEs]


I have this habit of overeating when I am sad. I have been having some friend & boyfriend problems lately and it makes me eat all this food, especially ice cream. Its not like I'm fat or anything, but I just want to know how I can get over this habit. I can't just stop eating when i'm sad.....or else i just can't get over it. What can i do?? Please help! I'll rate high if you give a logical answer...instead of calling me a stupid name or something. (link)
you know what you need to find a guy who is not going to just leave you, to lead to this habit, he can help you become mentally stable.




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