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Condoms
ok im 13/f and one of my friends have been "messing around" lately but i wont have sex with him without a condom. the problem is my mother stil thinks im a virgin. i dont know how to get birth control or condoms without my mom finding out. in the area i live in there is only 2 small gas stations around which both carry condoms but i have a feeling my mom would find out about me buying them, i wouldnt be so worried about her finding out if the guy was 16. i have had sex with him before and ended up missing my period for 2 months! are there any ideas on how to get protection?
please help soon! i rate well!
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THAT IS ILLEGAL.If it is a amall town she is bound to find out.TRUST ME. by the way you are toooo young to be engaging in sexual acts, but if you insist have him buy it.
p.s if he can drive even better
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if you go to trogan.com then will send you free condoms in a disguised package hope this helps--
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you could get an older friend or an adult you trust to go buy them.. but make sure they wont tell your parents or you could get birthcontrol at like planned parenthood.. theres also this pill that you take after you have sex so you dont get pregnant.. im not surewhat its called but you have to take it within 72 hours after you have sex or something.. im not sure but good luck!
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Just tell him to buy them and if he says no tell him you won't have sex without condoms because you don't want to be pregnet.I know your probly going to me like NOO,but you have to tell your mom to get birth control.Maybe find out another reason to tell her to get them don't tell her you had sex but you have to get them. Good luck with everything.
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MHM... I would make him buy the condoms sweetheart.
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wow your 13? im 13. if your really ready to have sex then have him buy the condoms or most health teachers have them at an easy access. make sure you think about what your doing before you do it. remember be safe!
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Be careful have him buy the condoms it might be hard but talk to ur mom
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This may sound kinda mean, but I am almost pretty sure that there are laws in your state about people having sex under the age of 18 or 16. You better check them. Someone could be in big trouble if found out.
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Get to him to buy the condoms.. If he won't tell him you won't have sex with him..It's better to be safe then gettin knocked up.. hope I help
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klc23
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Make him buy condoms. And do it at a place other than your house. As bad as this sounds, you really need to tell your mom, & get on birth control. It's good to have an open relationship & also, it will be worth it. It's better than getting knocked up & ruining your life.
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Sex at 13?
ou've got your whole life to have sex, why do't you spend your teenage years sneaking out, and all that stuff.
Not having sex.
ICK.
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you should defently make him buy condoms. if he refuses and you still want to sex him, then you should buy them rather than taking the chance of being preg. plus if you dont use condoms you will always get scarred if you miss your period on the first day. if you can't live with knowing your mom might find out, then try giving up sex for a while... don't only think about the pregnancy, also think about STDs.
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-brittany
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Tell they guy that you won't go all the way without protection and have him go get it. I know the whole world will tell you this but, my bff has had sex once before and other things, anyways she ended up telling her parents because she got caught smoking and told her dad that her other friend had sex with her boyfriend and then told him about herself. Anyways you having sex hurts everyone around you. I was so upset to find out she did it. I am not trying to stop you I just want to make sure you know even if you are physically ready mentally I don't think you are. Are you ready to have a baby? Are you ready to tell your mom your pregnant? Are you ready to lose this man when he says he will help you raise a child? I know that this is all just a possiblity but it is a big possibilty. BIG. So just be ready. Best of luck to you.
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Hi
Here's a question for you....do you think your mom would be more upset if she found out you were buying condoms, or is she found out you were pregnant?
Having sex is such a monumental step in one's life, and I'm very sorry that you've already experienced that. You are far too young, but I understand that I can't change your mind.
Babies having babies is such a harsh epidemic, and you could easily fall into that category.
If you insist on having sex, please INSIST that your boyfriend buy the condoms. If he won't then buy them yourself. The last thing you need is to end up pregnant at your age. Take care.
Brenda
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I think you should make the guy get them. after all, if he wants it, he should! if he can drive, maybe no one will find out if he goes far away enough. <3
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If you are in a small town and 13 you can bet your mom will hear all about it. 13 is much to young to be having sex but I will spare you the lecture.
If the boy is 16 I'd be making him buy the condoms. No condom, no sex. :)
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