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I am in 10th grade biology. I have trouble understanding it, but once someone explains it to me one on one I get it. I am looking for someone who knows biology very well who could occasionally help me with questions.

If you are out of high school I would rather just talk over email
If you are still in high school we could talk over AIM or email.
I would prefer a female, because I am a girl too and it just makes me a lot more comfortable..

Does anyone fit this profile or know of a biology help site?

yeah hey im 15 but really good at bio so give me ur email (i have yahoo) just let me know just send it over feedback and i too am female!

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I am the oldest in my family and i have two younger brothers and a younger sister. It seems like my mom hates me because she never listens to my side of the story. She automaticly assumes i should get grounded when my brothers and sister tell the story. There is way more to it but i don't think that i can get into all that.

I wonder you age. because it was that way for a long time with my sisters then i got older and now its me. mom hates me now. i am the first youngest. (weekends im the middle long story but stepsibblings) anyway i know how it is here. i am wrong always but only if it has to do with the younger sibblings now only once in a while i can be right with my older siblings so. maybe this helps. my adivice try to talk to your mom. i mean it may not work and if not then maybe just wait it out because thats what my sisters did so.

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15/f
there are girls in my school who pretend to be depressed/cut/have eating disorders. it drives me crazy! But i don't want to just assume that it is simply attention seeking. what do you think are signs of attention seeking?

um first off i will start off by saying NOT ALL CUTTERS ARE SEEKING ATTENTION! this goes for the depressed and have eating disorders i know you probably know this but wanted to make sure. Being a recovering cutter i hid it never wanted any one to know. its those idiots that show it off that want the attention! I HATE THOSE PEOPLE! If any of you attention seekers are out there i will say stop now while you can! but you will know. i mean i have had eating disorders before i have been through alot and will say some just dont tell the world. but there certainly are the ones that do and u will know them when you see them

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Please do not judge me.
I have been Bulimic for
a year or so now,
and its become so that
i have to do it, its like in my
head, i feel horrible if i eat something
and dont throw it up...
i only do it once a day but
anyways...
my real question is
does it effect your birth control???
started taking it 3 weeks ago and i take it at like 1 in the afterrnoon
and i throw up after dinner which could be anywhere from 6-9 at night...
so does this effect the pill?
like is it still affective???

ok i will sooo not judge oyu been there done that! Um docs say it takes 4-6 hrs to absorb. so honestly just watch the time. if take it at say 1 you should be safe or even safer take it at 11 12 ish. Just be careful its hard and addicting i know but just be careful

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Ive been experimenting with weed and i have these weird panic/anxiety attacks... what can i do to prevent that from happening???

um not to be a bitch but dont do weed and that wouldnt happen! o my god use your brain! dont waste your life!

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I had an affair for a few weeks and we did have sex 1 time. It blew up horribly when my spouse found things. She does not know we were intimate and I really do not want her to know. She is a wreck and so am I. I am afraid that this will kill her - she is a little unstable right now. Why does she even need to know these details? I can carry this secret to my grave. If this were known, I believe we will end up in a divorce and our home w/kids will be destroyed, and I do not want that to happen! It seems like I remember Dr. Laura mentioned once that a one-time affair (not a long lasting one) didn't need to be disclosed. Why burden your spouse with this. Why dump these rocks on them. Its your burden to carry. Help.

ok im 14 sounds lame that im answering this and like i have no experince.... but honestly she needs to know.... that what marriage is and well she can help you and just tell her... i mean secrets kill better you tell her than one of her friends right.... ive watched this happen and trust me its better to tell her now and not after she already knows. So you dont have to take my advice but i know alot about this

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Has anyone ever felt such a strong physical pain left mentally by someone else? My ex boyfriend used to be everything, my superhero. He moved out to Rhode Island for me but it completely changed him. Our whole year of amazing love has turned into me being dirt in his eyes. We've had problems just like everyone else but we were always there for eachother. When he came here he started to fall into other girls and once he got a job and his own place to live it was like he was completely done with me. I feel so used but I don't want to believe it I want to believe in the guy I once knew. Its tearing me apart literally to the point of hyperventalation. Nothing I do can remind him of our promises nothing I say can change his heart and my heart can't accept that. How can I get his hurtful image out of my head?

so this just recently happened to me not with a bf but a best friend well... i found tim and prayer are the only things that could possably help and well just keep ur head up and hold in there

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Hi I'm 15/f,
A few days ago I shaved my vagina, the pubic hair and now it's extremely itchy what can i do????
Thanks.

well i found that gold bond helped

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for the answer you gave to my depression question.
thxxxxxxxxxxxxx.
okay,.
thxxxxx.
and,
do you have an aim?
or a yahoo messenger?

yes i have yahoo

stroud3_2012@yahoo.com

we can talk anytime

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I've been cutting for a couple years now but lately it has been getting worse. I told a teacher, who is my friends mom on terms that she wouldn't report me or tell anyone because she isn't a teacher 24/7 so I was talking to her as my friend's mom. Well that was fine but I told her I would try to stop and if it got worse we could get me help. So I was wondering how your mom / dad or parent reacted when they found out. Or what happens when you go to a school consulor. Thanks.

well the school they have to tell someone they with me told these pro counslers and made a huge deal out of it and well it sucked and made it worse and well id would just tell your mom mine freaked but then she totally wanted to help so it really depends on how u tell her be calm.
hope it helped

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F/13.
im depressed. the guy i like doesn't like me the same way. my step-dad has hit and bruised me about 5 or 6 times in the past 4 months. my mom is dying of a disease. everyone i care about is starting to hate me, because they're getting to know the real me. and it sucks, because right now i need people the most.
i cry myself to sleep, and today [[march 30]] i started cutting again. after not cutting for 2 1/2 months. my mom doesn't know i started cutting again. my therapist might put me on anti-depressants. i'm prolly bi-polar and have ADHD. the only people i have left are the people that can't help me through it. [[except a few people]] and i don't know what to do. i can't help this depression, and i want it to stop. but i can't. my best friend [[that's a girl]] is prolly the girl that everyone thinks im going out with. and my best guy friend is the guy i love, and wanna go out with. im going through the normal shit. times 5 billion. i barely get any sleep. and when i do i have nightmares. about what im gonna turn into. and it sucks because im turning into the person that i hate. i hate my step-dad's part of the family with a passion, but i have to deal with them. i need to talk to my real dad. but i can't. im scared of what he's gonna think. i don't care what people think of me, but im terrifyed of what they think, i think im ugly, i hate the way i am, and how i look. the only reason i haven't commited suicide is because of one person. but i think i'm loosing them. please. help me get over my depression, help me. talk to me, keep me alive. keep me going, please. i wanna hang on. but it's hard when nobody cares. please.
aim:randomconfusionx

i just need someone to talk to, someone to keep me going.
please.
i wanna hold on.

ok well i would love to help you and well heres my email and thats how i can talk its the best way and we will figure out times and what not

stroud3_2012@yahoo.com

stroud3_2012@hotmail.com

ill keep you in my prayers and remember God is always there


(and i do in fact know how u feel with alot of this i promise)

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this is so embaressing but after i masturbate, i have to pee really bad, is that a bad thing?

no not at all its normal and it shouldnt be emarassing at all so yea

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hey,
would you classify this as depression or something else.
*Wanting to be alone most of the time.
*getting really upset over nothing.
*self harming(cutting etc).
*not talking much when normally really social.
*pushing away friends.
*feeling excluded from people.
Etc. Etc.
Thanks heaps.

ok i have depression and yes these are symtoms and there are more like headaches and just hating everything anger and modesawings so dependings on the age you can get meds but there highly addictive and i do not advise it there are many other ways to help urself


allie

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17/f

i babysit a 6 year old girl and her 12 year old brother. the boy doesn't need much attention he pretty much stays to himself while i play with the 6 year old. one day i went to the boy's room and walked in and saw him masturbating. i was shocked and said sorry and he looked absolutly scared beyond belief but now whenever i'm babysitting i can hear him in his room doing it. i don't know if i should say something or try to ignore it.

I really think snice i have a 13 year old brother and if this happened to him i would tell his parents mother probly its probly easier to tell her and let her handle it but if she asks if you still wanna work for because of it then say yes because you can always igore it

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I am a 16 year old girl who has taken a babysitting course a few years ago and is certified in CPR. I don't have a lot of experience. I have only babysitted once before, not counting my younger sister. I babysat for a family that had a two year old and a ten year old.

Now I am babysitting for a family that has three kids: A three year old, and two 18 month olds. I only babysit for an hour or so, and the 18 month olds are napping, so unless they wake up, the only major responsiblility is the three-year-old.

My question is, is $10.00 an hour too much? I didn't ask for that much, the parents just gave it to me. I feel bad accepting it because even though I don't just watch TV when I'm babysitting, I play with the kids, it seems like a lot. But then again, I don't know much about babysitting rates, so any help would be appreciated. Thanks!

The family I babysit for has an 9 month old, a 3 year old and 5 year old the mother gives me 10 for anything under 3 hours because its easeir for her. I also babysit for a church were i have a 9 month old, 2 year old, 3 year old 5 year old, three 6 year olds, a 9 year old, a 10 year old, and an 11 year old for and hour and get 10 or 5 per family if theres more

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how do i bring up to my family and friends that ive been lieing to them about not self-injurying anymore?

Well think about it the same way you did the last time. If who ever is the closest you, you should tell first. Like for me it was my mom so just tell them the same way you did the first time. G2g srry
Allie

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my gil friend was killd in a car reck 6 days ago how can i help get over her faster cause i cant do anything right since she died

Dont talk about her and just be there for her family. I am sorry that this happened. One of my sisters best friends died in a car reck on tuesday. If you need to talk i am always an emial away. stroud3_2012@yahoo.com is where you can reach me.

Allie

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15/f

There were many times when I felt like killing myself because I'd hate my life and I'd get into deep depression, like I'd cry myself to sleep...I wanna stop feeling that way, but I don't know how! Well, somedays I'll feel all great, but than other days I'll feel really depressed...I'm just hoping that one day it doesn't go too far so that I'll actually kill myself! What can I do to prevent myself from suicide???

so i promise you are not alone. because this is the same thing that is going on with me. i have bad days and good days and uwill to. i got help from a pro counsler and all. she wants me to go on meds and it was hard for me to say yes and most doctors wont let me so it has taken a while and i havent gotten it yet. but never get be alone or far a away from a phone, mad, and drink water i know it souds odd but it helped me and all. but a good vitamin is b12 and take it with a multivitaim will help temperarly but the meds helped my sisters and my parents so i could help you too. but you do need to tell your parents so you get help and so they can make sure you dont hurt your self. yes i know it will be hard to tell them but you need to. you also need to talk to someone. when you feel bad and all you can call the nineline 999-9999 and they help. you can also talk to a friend. if you need to you can get a hold of me. my email is stroud3_2012@yahoo.com and the same with hotmail.

I hope i helped. goood luck

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Okay well I need to, & want to lose at least 10 pounds in one week, & I need to know what can I do to lose that much. I don't want to do any crash diets because I'm not trying to hurt myself, just get healthier and fit. What are some foods to completely avoid, & what kind of exercise can I do to accomplish my goal?

ok to do it you could die
but i can help you go on a bread and water diet for 2 days and then a 1000 cal diet for 1 and then 500 for 1 day and then a bread and water diet again for a day and then a 1500 for 2 days. this should work.

run,walk,situps,pushups,and anything else you can think of

alot of water

allie

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15 in 9 days/f
well when me and my boyfriend make out.. its not that i dont really like it.. i mean i try to.. and i tell him i do.. but honestly its not like amazing. i know that im the first girl hes made out with. and like his kisses are a little too wet for me.. and he goes a little too fast and too fast into the kiss. like i want to kiss a little first before he actually puts his tounge in my mouth.. but he just like puts it in right away and keeps it in there like the whole time and like i cant even put mine in his mouth because his is in mine the whole time. like its apparent that he doesnt really know what hes doing. but i love him and weve been going out for like 9 months and hes great with everything else but i just dont know what to do about this. like i dont wanna tell him.. but like i dont wanna not enjoy it and have to lie too! Is there like a way i can like lead the kiss so i can have it how i want it?? HELP!

ok well I hate it when that happens but just sit down and talk to him tell him that thats not "the right way" he'll be ok with it they always are.

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